In December, a Facebook post of ours sparked a big debate: does the USA put too much emphasis on riding position? Is there room for riders to find more fluidity and freedom in their style? Today, we’re diving into those questions.

 

Your position in the saddle isn’t just about looking pretty for the judge’s panel. It’s about communication, balance, and creating harmony with your horse. But here’s the challenge—so much of what we’re taught about position can feel rigid, exclusive, or even unattainable. And for many riders, it leaves them questioning: Am I good enough? Do I fit in here?

 

You’re not alone in feeling this way, and that’s exactly why today’s episode is a must-listen.

 

We’re joined by Nicole Shahinian-Simpson, a rider who’s lived the highs and lows of equitation and show jumping at the highest levels. Nicki is one of only 11 riders in history to win both the ASPCA Maclay National Championship and the U.S. Medal Finals. She’s competed on the world stage, represented the U.S. in international competition, and has nearly 35 Grand Prix victories to her name.

 

But what sets Nicki apart isn’t just her accolades—it’s her perspective. She knows firsthand how striving for “the perfect position” can create pressure that steals your joy and confidence as a rider. And she’s here to help you rethink what good riding really looks like.

 

In this episode, Nicki dives into the realities behind position—how it impacts your horse, why the American equitation system is both a blessing and a challenge, and how to develop a functional, fluid position that works for you. She also tackles the often-unspoken topic of body image in riding: how the pressure to "look the part" can affect confidence, and why strength, individuality, and skill matter far more than fitting a specific mold.

 

Whether you’re a junior striving to meet the standard, or an amateur who just wants to ride without overthinking, Nicki’s insights will help you cut through the noise and focus on what really matters.

 

If you’ve ever felt like you don’t “fit the mold” of a polished equitation rider, or wondered if the emphasis on position is holding you back, this episode will leave you feeling empowered, seen, and ready to ride your best.

 

Because your position isn’t just about looking the part—it’s about showing up for your horse.

 

Today on Dear Horse World, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of our exclusive NF+ Office Hours sessions - where we connect our community with top experts to gain practical advice and deeper understanding.

In this recorded session, renowned horseman Tik Maynard breaks down the motivational pyramid of horses, a powerful tool to help you better connect with and understand your horse, alongside our NF+ Community Director Kylie, who is also a skilled horsemanship expert and clinical counselor.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• The five core motivators that drive your horse’s behavior.
• Why safety always comes first and how curiosity shapes learning.
• Practical ways to use comfort, play, and food to build trust.

This is just the tip of the iceberg of all the incredible resources we have available on NF+ so if this episode resonated with you - we'd for you to discover more. 

Start your free trial of NF+ and gain access to a network of world-renowned horse experts and world-class equestrian content, designed to meet you wherever you are - no matter where in the world you’re tuning in from.

Head to noellefloydplus.com today to start your journey. 

Have you ever wondered what your horse is trying to tell you—or if they're trying to tell you anything at all? In this moving episode of No Stupid Questions, host Noelle Floyd sits down with writer, equestrian, and renowned animal communicator, Delaya Diana, to explore the mystical and transformative connection between humans and horses.

Delaya shares her journey from a strict Pentecostal upbringing to becoming a leading voice in equine spirituality, answering the kinds of questions so many horse owners wonder about:

• Why is this something I should consider?

• What does my horse truly want me to know?

• What is the most common reading?

• Can I communicate with my horse myself?

• How do I find a trustworthy animal communicator?

You’ll also learn practical tips on:

• The Power of “No”: Why it’s transformative to give your horse the freedom to say no.

• Artifacts of Connection: How keepsakes can honor your bond with your animals or loved ones.

• Listening Without Bias: Becoming the observer to better understand your horse’s needs.

• Why Mares Matter: The unique emotional and spiritual energy mares bring.

If you’ve ever wanted to connect more deeply with your horse or wondered if there’s more to their behavior than meets the eye, this episode is a must-listen.

Delaya’s insights will help you unlock new ways to communicate, trust, and connect with your equine partner.

Discover more about Delaya via her website: https://www.delayadiana.com/

 

Does the thought of goal-setting make you roll your eyes, freeze with anxiety, or shrink in self-doubt? You’re not alone.

Maybe you’re stuck in your riding, unsure how to move forward, or wondering if goals even apply to you. Perhaps the pressure to succeed makes tracking progress feel unbearable, or you’re bracing for self-criticism if you fall short. 

Here’s the truth: goal-setting isn’t easy.

It’s not just a checklist—it’s intentional work that helps you reflect, shift your mindset, and take purposeful action.

And it’s for everyone, not just competitive riders. Whether you’re riding for joy, growth, or performance, goals provide direction, build confidence, and make every ride meaningful.

Join Noëlle Floyd and Dr. Jenny Susser, an Olympic-level sport psychologist, as they tackle the mental hurdles holding you back. With actionable advice and practical tools, they’ll help you break through barriers, set goals that work, and transform how you ride and think.

What You’ll Take Away:

• Turn Fear into Focus: Get powerful strategies to manage nerves and ride with confidence.
• Set Goals Like a Pro: Learn how to create clear, achievable goals that keep you motivated and on track.
• Master Your Mindset: Discover how to stay present, block out distractions, and embrace the challenges that push you to grow.
• Ride With Purpose: Stop spinning your wheels—every ride can have meaning and direction when you know how to set the right intentions.

Take charge of your riding journey. Whether you're overcoming fear, seeking progress, or building your relationship with your horse, this episode gives you the tools to move forward with confidence and purpose. Don’t stay stuck—tune in and make every ride count. Your transformative year starts now.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

Dr. Jenny’s NF+ masterclasses—How to Control Fear and Anxiety and Performing Under Pressure—are designed to take you even further. These aren’t just lessons; they’re game-changing tools to transform your mindset and unlock your full potential as a rider.

 

You can watch or listen to Dr. Jenny's TEDx Talk here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUsITcRCm2g 

Happy Holidays from all of us at Dear Horse World.

We’re sending our heartfelt thanks to our incredible listeners for joining us on this journey throughout the year. Your support and passion for the equestrian world mean the world to us!

As a token of our appreciation, we’re thrilled to share an exclusive gift just for you: a special discount code for the NOËLLE FLOYD+ platform, because there's never been a better time to explore & learn with our platform. 

Whether you're looking to deepen your knowledge in 2025, get inspired by exclusive content, or simply connect with your passion for horses over the holidays, NF+ has something for everyone.

👉 Use code 'DHW25' at checkout to unlock your holiday discount on annual memberships (offer valid until Dec 31.)

Thank you for being part of our amazing community. We can’t wait to bring you more stories, insights, and inspiration in 2025, so make sure to hit subscribe to never miss an episode. Wishing you a joyful holiday season and a Happy New Year!

When it comes to training horses—or dogs—it’s easy to focus on surface behaviors: bucking or barking, or bolting or biting. But what if the real story lies deeper—in unmet needs, misunderstood communication, or even the emotions we bring into the equation? In this episode, we’re joined by Jerri Scherff, a trainer who doesn’t just work with animals—she transforms relationships.

Though recently making waves with her hilarious Instagram reels, she’s been known for the last decade for her thoughtful, open-minded approach to dog training. In this episode, Jerri shares the tools and insights that have helped her clients break through frustration and create lasting trust.

Here’s what you’ll discover: 

• Barrel Racing Behind the Scenes: Jerri sets the record straight on the realities of barrel racing and shares the lessons it’s taught her and her daughter.
• Dog vs. Horse Training: Surprising connections between these two worlds—and how understanding one can transform your approach to the other. 
• The Power of Empathy: Hear Jerri’s viral story about stepping in during a case of horse abuse, and how she used compassion and crisis understanding to help both the human and the horse.
• Turning Struggles into Growth: Why being “incompatible” can often offer the greatest opportunities for learning and connection.
• Jerri’s Open-Minded Approach: Practical strategies for meeting your animal’s unique needs while also managing your own emotions and expectations.

 

Whether you’re grappling with training challenges, curious about animal behavior, or just looking for inspiration, this conversation is packed with relatable stories, practical advice, and fresh perspectives. Because the best partnerships aren’t built through force or frustration—they’re forged with empathy, patience, and understanding.

 

Tune in to explore how these principles can transform your relationship with your horse, your dog, and even yourself. 

Watch Jerri’s viral video on handing abuse: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_oPAEkyHqG/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D

 

Follow Jerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sailorjerrithedogtrainer/

 

Do tension and resistance keep showing up—not just with your horse, but in your relationships too? Here’s the truth: it’s not about training—it’s about connection, and it starts with you. In this episode, Josh Nichol and Duey Freeman join forces to reveal the secrets to building real, lasting harmony with your horse—and share powerful insights to help you become a more effective and compassionate trainer! What You’ll Learn:

• Why tension in your horse is a clue, not a problem—and how to use it to build trust.
• How your horse reflects your emotional state and helps you heal.
• The power of presence and congruence to transform your horse’s response.
• Why safety is the foundation for breakthroughs and how clinicians can create a protected environment of learning. 
• How to lead with confidence and foster trust and growth.

Josh and Duey bring decades of experience and a unique focus on you—your challenges and the tools you need to succeed. Whether you’re a seasoned trainer or just starting, they’ll guide you to the “aha!” moments that deepen your bond with your horse and transform how you approach challenges. By the end, you’ll feel empowered to:

• Turn resistance into connection.
• Build a relationship rooted in trust and respect.
• Approach every challenge with clarity and calm.

Step into the empowered connection you’ve been searching for—Josh and Duey will show you how. Tune in now!

 

This episode was brought to you by Logan Coach Trailers, horse trailers built for today’s rider, and every mile ahead. Visit LoganCoach.com to see the difference for yourself.

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In this episode of Dear Horse World, we sit down with the legendary horseman, author, and clinician Mark Rashid to explore his groundbreaking approach to horsemanship. Rooted in kindness and inspired by the principles of Aikido, Mark’s work shows riders how to tackle challenges and evolve as partners and people.

 

Mark doesn’t just teach “fixes” for problem horses—he empowers riders to become more aware, present, and in tune with their horse’s energy. If you’ve ever felt confused, frustrated, or disconnected with your horse, this episode is for you. Mark shares transformative insights that include:

 

• Blend Don’t Battle. Mark’s Aikido-inspired approach turns resistance into harmony, so you can create a partnership where you and your horse move as one.
• Slow Down to Connect: Learn how taking your time lets you notice the small signals your horse gives—and how those moments hold the key to solving bigger problems.
• Kindness is the Core: Why a kinder, softer approach to working with horses is more than just effective—it actually feels good for both you and your horse.

 

Horsemanship isn’t about mastering techniques; it’s about mastering yourself. Mark reminds us that the journey toward better riding starts with patience, curiosity, and a willingness to listen—not just to your horse, but to your own instincts.

 

This conversation will leave you inspired to approach your horse—and your life—with more compassion, clarity, and connection. Whether you’re a lifelong rider or just starting out, Mark Rashid’s insights will give you the tools to unlock the magic of true partnership.

 

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Learn more about Mark Rashid

https://www.markrashid.com/

 

Shop Mark Rashid’s Books:

https://www.markrashid.com/shop-3

 

This episode was brought to you by Schleese. If you’re ready to take the next step on your saddle fitting journey, book your free consultation with Schleese at https://go.schleese.com/BookConsult-NoelleFloyd

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This special bonus episode of Dear Horse World brings you all the energy and insight of a live event! Recorded straight from the buzzing NF+ booth at Equine Affaire in Springfield, Massachusetts, we dive into real-life horse questions from our amazing NF+ members.

The goal? To prove that when it comes to our equine partners, there’s no such thing as a stupid question—only steps toward stronger connections and better understanding.

What to Expect

This isn’t your typical Q&A session. It’s a mix of practical advice, eye-opening insights, and relatable stories that’ll make you laugh, nod, and maybe even say, “Why didn’t I think of that?” Here’s a taste:

• Lunging Like a Pro: Struggling with a counter-bending horse? We share how to combine physical technique and mental connection to help your horse find balance and relaxation.
• Turning Pushy into Playful: Got a horse that’s a little extra? Learn how to channel that playful energy into productive, positive behavior (and still have fun).
• Patience for the Spirited Horse: Animated and impatient horses can learn patience—and we show you how, one step at a time.
• Rehabbing with a Topline: Keep your horse’s muscle and topline in check during rehab with simple, biomechanics-focused exercises.
• No More Trailer Loading Drama: Say goodbye to the struggle with a step-by-step approach that builds trust and confidence.
• Calm in Chaos: Help your horse stay focused and connected in new environments through gradual exposure and consistent positive reinforcement.

Why You’ll Love It

This episode blends casual, upbeat vibes with super-informative takeaways. Whether you’re tackling a tricky training challenge or just looking to deepen your connection with your horse, this conversation hits all the right notes. We’re diving beyond the surface to talk about the “why” behind horse behavior, training techniques, and the importance of understanding your horse’s unique needs.

Hit Play Now: Tune in to learn, laugh, and get inspired. Because in the world of horses, curiosity doesn’t just lead to answers—it leads to better partnerships.

Let’s grow together, one question at a time.

Have you ever wondered where you truly belong in the horse world—or worried that you don’t? In this episode, recorded live from Equine Affaire, Noëlle Floyd and Caroline Culbertson share their journeys of navigating uncertainty, embracing vulnerability, and building communities where riders of all backgrounds can feel at home. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How to Find Your Place: Learn how to overcome the fear of not belonging and create a community that aligns with your values and passions.
• The Courage to Be Vulnerable: Discover why admitting what you don’t know can actually open doors to deeper learning and connection.
• Embracing Change as Growth: See how stepping into the unknown—whether in the arena or in life—can lead to your biggest breakthroughs.
• Building Community Through Authenticity: Understand why letting go of perfection can help you foster meaningful relationships and create space for real progress.

If you’ve ever felt unsure of where you stand or how to move forward, this episode will leave you inspired to take ownership of your journey and find the belonging you deserve.

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This episode is proudly brought to you by Schleese. 

If you’re ready to take the next step on your saddle fitting journey, book your free consultation with Schleese at https://go.schleese.com/BookConsult-NoelleFloyd or visit schleese.com to learn more.

 

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Listen to the Horse Person podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/horse-person/id1772792285

 

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https://noellefloydplus.com/community/channels/community_updates