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youtube episode: https://youtu.be/0doV1ZWLOKM
part two of the 2020 Love, Lust & Loathing Q&A!! thank you for your patience ~ make sure to watch the first video on limerence too!
00:00
00:10 - navigating female friendships when decentering romance
03:23 - maintaining sovereignty while dating
06:54 - my perspective on romantic love and pressures to settle down or be in a relationship
11:30 - how to stop being envious of other people in relationships
12:12 - age gap relationships
13:01 - work crushes and asking men out
14:32 - seeing potential in men
16:15 - detaching from nostalgia for a first love
17:43 - decentering men while being in a relationship
19:06 - men that are financially dependent on women
23:03 - casual hookups
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https://youtu.be/rOtI0i13dIA
pick me seed: internalised misogyny, patriarchy, decentering men
https://youtu.be/gGVt7vpxX28
hot girl habits
https://youtu.be/DszRCbx0_AE
what is love
https://youtu.be/mqu4RRzr2oo
increasing your baseline
https://youtu.be/iwT59y8LWfE
relationships are transactional
https://youtu.be/e4hrPViYKK8
hot girl habits
https://youtu.be/DszRCbx0_AE
non negotiable hobby
https://youtu.be/XlStSk0b4KI
https://youtu.be/jKVo3bGoyxg
people pleasing
https://youtu.be/0a0SFegK0QU
https://youtu.be/tuCg_2muajY
hook up culture
https://youtu.be/ZlWzGbWpeJI
boundaries, friends with benefits
https://youtu.be/cU7Fr7DNEz4
flirting & crushes
https://youtu.be/i-Mx2bPt1-o
books (affiliate links):
The Road Less Travelled
https://amzn.to/496J0SD
The Tragedy of Heterosexuality
https://amzn.to/4jvfFoz
follow me on IG ☆
https://instagram.com/amberakilla/
subscribe for friend crush club groupchat, exclusive episodes & perks! $3 a month, 1 week free trial! ♡
patreon.com/amberakilla
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youtube episode: https://youtu.be/0doV1ZWLOKM
part two of the 2020 Love, Lust & Loathing Q&A!! thank you for your patience ~ make sure to watch the first video on limerence too!
00:00
00:10 - navigating female friendships when decentering romance
03:23 - maintaining sovereignty while dating
06:54 - my perspective on romantic love and pressures to settle down or be in a relationship
11:30 - how to stop being envious of other people in relationships
12:12 - age gap relationships
13:01 - work crushes and asking men out
14:32 - seeing potential in men
16:15 - detaching from nostalgia for a first love
17:43 - decentering men while being in a relationship
19:06 - men that are financially dependent on women
23:03 - casual hookups
related videos:
how to lock-in so hard your crush dies (metaphorically)
https://youtu.be/rOtI0i13dIA
pick me seed: internalised misogyny, patriarchy, decentering men
https://youtu.be/gGVt7vpxX28
hot girl habits
https://youtu.be/DszRCbx0_AE
what is love
https://youtu.be/mqu4RRzr2oo
increasing your baseline
https://youtu.be/iwT59y8LWfE
relationships are transactional
https://youtu.be/e4hrPViYKK8
hot girl habits
https://youtu.be/DszRCbx0_AE
non negotiable hobby
https://youtu.be/XlStSk0b4KI
https://youtu.be/jKVo3bGoyxg
people pleasing
https://youtu.be/0a0SFegK0QU
https://youtu.be/tuCg_2muajY
hook up culture
https://youtu.be/ZlWzGbWpeJI
boundaries, friends with benefits
https://youtu.be/cU7Fr7DNEz4
flirting & crushes
https://youtu.be/i-Mx2bPt1-o
books (affiliate links):
The Road Less Travelled
https://amzn.to/496J0SD
The Tragedy of Heterosexuality
https://amzn.to/4jvfFoz
follow me on IG ☆
https://instagram.com/amberakilla/
subscribe for friend crush club groupchat, exclusive episodes & perks! $3 a month, 1 week free trial! ♡
patreon.com/amberakilla

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