DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 50   Guest Host: Serena and Jaime Diva’s Table Topic: Religion vs. Relationship with God Word of the Day / Definition: Humbug (noun) To be deceptive or false talk or behavior.  Example Sentence: “Because the voters were not fooled by the politician’s humbug, they gave their support to his opponent.” Featured Restaurant:  Punta Cana Owner - Marleney Pereyra Contact: (201) 849-5556 / (201) 849-5557Hours: Monday - Sunday  8am - 9pm Loctated: 2151 Lemoine Ave. Fort Lee, NJ 07024 Inside Washington Bridge Plaza Tel: 201-849-5556Bio:  They are a family owned and run Dominican restaurant in Fort Lee, NJ. How they began was the best part of their journey they proclaim. Marleney and her husband had been living in Fort Lee for about 4 years and always had to cross the bridge to Washington Heights to get what they call authentic Dominican food, in a predominate Asian community, there were absolutely NO LATIN restaurants in the area. It was one day her husband thought Fort Lee needs Dominican restaurant and that they were going to open one. Simply she wasn’t too fond of that idea, given they had 0 experience. However, they were lucky his aunt was a caterer in the Dominican Republic and agreed to help them get started. In July 2016 she her husband, and his aunt opened the restaurant. It has been a wild but exciting 6 years since then, but the steady income has helped them financially. So great they were able to start a family of 5. And as you can imagine that’s all hands on deck! Thankfully not only has the Latin community welcome them with open arms. The Asian community has lent their support as well. They have been very blessed and thankful to remain open through this Covid pandemic. **Nadiva’s Read** Featured Dishes:  Mofongo de Chicharron – Fried pork pieces with mashed green plantains.Rabo rice and beans - Stewed oxtails with red beans and rice.Mangu con los 3 Golopes – Mashed green plantains with Dominican Sausage, Fried cheese, and Fried eggs.  Diva’s Table Topic: Religion vs. Relationship with God Word of the Day / Definition: Humbug (noun) To be deceptive or false talk or behavior.  Stats: https://biblereasons.com/religion-vs-relationship-with-god/ Many people like saying things like Christianity is not a religion it’s a relationship. This is true, but it’s not the entire truth. Christianity is a religion, but as believers we treat it as a relationship. The problem that I see in many Christian circles is that many people use the grace of God to indulge in sin. They say things like “relationship over religion” or “Jesus over religion,” but they forget things such as repentance and sanctification. I hate the aspect of religion that says you have to do something to be right with God. I hate when someone tries to put legalistic rules upon believers. However, evidence of your faith in Christ is that your life will change. Evidence of your faith in Christ is that you will have new desires for Christ and His Word. I heard someone say, “Jesus hates religion.” This is not true.  Scripture:   Matthew 7:21 (KJV) “Not everyone that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.”  #DWN #DiningwithNdiva

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 49 GUEST HOSTS:Serena (Serena @serenaytg - IG & Michael Parker ) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: How do you navigate thru dissapointment in a relationship? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION:  Ogle (verb) to look at amorously, flirtatiously, or impertinently.  EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1Uncle Geooge got a black eye for ogling a lady in "It's Greek to Me."  FEATURED RESTAURANT: It's Greek To Me 36 E Palisade Ave, Englewood, NJ 07631  (201) 568-0440Website: https://www.itsgreektome.comIG: @@itsgreektomenj  It's Greek To Me 1611 Palisade Ave, Fort Lee, NJ 07024  BIO:   James and Stacy Papavasiliou  - It's Greek To Me - Owners James and Stacy Papavasiliou were born in Greece and arrived in America in 1960. From a family background of restaurateurs it did not take long to establish the It’s Greek to Me name throughout Northern Jersey. It all started in 1986 when James and Stacy, together with their mother, Ero Papavasiliou, opened their first restaurant in Cliffside Park. Ero’s home recipes made it an immediate success! She used recipes handed down from grandmother to grandmother; delicious recipes she used to make at home. The Mediterranean food, fresh and simple with a healthy approach, is very authentic. Ero still makes daily stops at the restaurants to sample the food in the kitchen, making sure it is the way it should be. In 2002 Stacy’s son Anthony joined the It’s Greek to Me family. With Anthony overseeing operations they now operate 9 restaurants.They have also franchised the name and are looking to expand. Each restaurant is friendly, has a comfortable atmosphere and sparks a desire for Greek food and specialties. The sunny Greek Island decor is the restaurant’s signature and provides a cheerful atmosphere for an informal and moderately priced lunch or dinner.  DISHES:  Shrimp Mykonos-  Sautéed shrimp with tomato sauce and feta served over orzo. Pastichio - Rigatoni pasta baked with ground beef topped with bechamel  Spanakopita (spinach pie) - Spinach and feta wrapped in phyllo     DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: How do you navigate thru dissapointment in a relationship? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION:  Ogle (verb) to look at amorously, flirtatiously, or impertinently.  STATS: https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/disappointment-in-relationships/10 ways to deal with disappointment in relationships 1. Verbalize what your expectations are 2.Timing is everything 3.Stay on topic 4.Learn to compromise 5.Never take things personally 6. Look for effort, not perfection 7. Don’t assume their worldview is similar to yours 8. Let go of expecting your happiness to come from your partner 9. Be the person you’d like to be in love with 10. Be ready to walk away  SCRIPTURE:  Psalm 18:3 In the midst of disappointment, know that God is listening and hears your cries, is a comfort. He will always hear you, whether you are happy, sad, heartbroken, or disappointed.  #DiningWithNdiva #Podcast #Food

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 46  GUEST HOSTS: Serena (Serena @serenaytg - IG & Michael Parker ) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: New Years Resolutions WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Dyspeptic - (adjective or noun) It describes someone who is irritable due to depression or indigestion. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: His dyspeptic attitude was in full force as he snapped at his employees for minor errors.  FEATURED RESTAURANT: @walkerhousellc  @walkerhousellc.apothecary Private Chef & Caterer Déjà 917.808.7794 Hashtag #COOKINGWITHDEJA  Clifton NJ Www.DejaWalker.com (under construction) BIO:   Deja Walker - Walker House, LLC - Owner She started cooking with her grandmother at the age of 7.  Her grandmother despised instant and boxed food. Deja was never allowed to buy it. cooking soon led her to cooking for small parties and dishes for friends. Uncle Wyatt opened up a bar and grill called "Lawrence's", and this began her journey of professional cooking. While at Lawrence's, Deja got the opportunity to learn and perfect her craft from the best, Chef Les and Chef Cell. She worked at Lawrence's for 2 years before their closing due to Uncle Wyatt's health conditions. She began selling dinners from the comfort of her own home, a convenient set up for a single mother with limited resources. This led to catering and meal prep. She now travels the country, sometimes with her son in tow, cooking for celebrities as a private chef. When she is not traveling she is catering corporate and social events of all kinds. She is extremely thankful for the opportunity to work and make a living at her own discretion. She is a 42 year old single mother of 1 son. She resides in New Jersey.  DISHES:  Dishes that I will bring- 1. Jerk BBQ Salmon & Shrimp      W/vegetable fried rice and sauteed broccoli. 2. Garlic Butter Wings      W/mac&cheese and green beans 3. Chicken & Shrimp Rasta Pasta Dessert- 1. Salted caramel Banana pudding  2. Strawberry Banana pudding   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: New Years Resolutions WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Dyspeptic - (adjective or noun) It describes someone who is irritable due to depression or indigestion.  SOURCE: https://discoverhappyhabits.com/new-years-resolution-statistics/According to a 2016 study, of the 41% of Americans who make New Years resolutions, by the end of the year only 9% feel they are successful in keeping them. In 2020, one of the most popular New Year’s resolution is to eat healthier – 43% of Americans. Generational Statistics :  Baby boomers want to lose weight (53%) but place less importance on saving money (39%) compared to the younger generations. Gen Z is 4x more concerned with finding love than any other age group. Gen Z also wants to dress better and improve their style the most. Millennials on the West Coast are the most concerned with getting a work promotion or raise in 2020. Millennials are the most confident in keeping all their resolutions (39%). Regional Statistics: Losing weight is more important to those who live in the Midwest than any other US region, while exercising is more important for those on the West Coast compared to the rest of the US. The southern states find it more important to drink less alcohol than any other region, but the Northeast has more people that would like to stop drinking alcohol completely. SCRIPTURE:   2 Corinthians 5:17 ESV Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 48  GUEST HOSTS:Serena (Serena @serenaytg - IG & Michael Parker ) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: What red flags are deal breakers in platonic or romantic relationships? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Ungainly - (adjective) -  awkward; clumsy. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: Unfortunately they appeared to be under-rehearsed and it looked pretty ungainly at times.  FEATURED RESTAURANT: Dolce & Salato Colombian cafe and Restaurant 102 W Palisade Ave, Englewood, NJ 07631 (201) 250-8577Website: dolcesalatonj.com  BIO:   John & Diane - Dolce & Salato Colombian cafe and Restaurant - Owner John bought his restaurant from a friend who was struggling with the business. John had zero idea about this type of business but he wanted to try something new so he took the chance and this is how his journey started. John had very difficult times at the begining but after the 3rd year he started to see the results of his hard work and the best thing, he met his wife Diane.  Diane started working as a cook now she is out side helping with the customers and helping John with everything that has to do with their restaurant. John and Diane are a very good team together and now they are on their fifth year in business and giving it their all to make it better every day. DISHES:  Cachapa -  Sweet corn cake stuffed with cheese and any choice of meat (steak/pork). Arepa Rellena- stuffed corn cake with shredded beef, corn, melted mozzarella, bacon, slices of avocado & quail egg. Desgranado-  Hawaiian Burger- bacon, pineapple chunks, pineapple sauce, and crushed potato chips.     DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: What red flags are deal breakers in platonic or romantic relationships? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Ungainly - (adjective) -  awkward; clumsy.  STATS: https://www.livewellwithsharonmartin.com/relationship-red-flags/ Inability to resolve conflicts; Controlling behavior or a lack of trust;You don’t feel like you can be fully yourself; Your friends and family members have expressed concerns about your partner or relationship; You’re conceding rather than compromising; Difficulty sharing feelings; Giving up your friends, interests, or goals; Pressure to become too serious too fast;  Lying or breaches of trust & Abuse of any kind (emotional, verbal, physical, sexual, financial, gaslighting).  SCRIPTURE:   2 Timothy 3:1–5 3 But understand this, that yin the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be zlovers of self, alovers of money, bproud, barrogant, abusive, bdisobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 cheartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, dnot loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, eswollen with conceit, flovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having the appearance of godliness, but gdenying its power. hAvoid such people.

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 47  GUEST HOSTS: Serena (Serena @serenaytg - IG & Michael Parker ) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Is dating your spouse still required after you say I do? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Schism - (noun) a split or division between strongly opposed sections or parties, caused by differences in opinion or belief. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: The schism between my two best friends put me in the awkward position of having to choose one over the other.  FEATURED RESTAURANT: Go Fish - Bogota 64 W Main St, Bogota, NJ 07603 (201) 250-8577Website: https://gofishnj.comIG: @gofishseafoodnj BIO:   Mark Jefferies & Geisi Segura - Go Fish, Bogota - Owner Mark Jeffries was a manager at a major television network for 20 yrs. After that ended, Mark decided not to go back to television but decided to become a restauranteur. Since cooking has always been something Mark loved, It wasn't a decision Mark took lightly. When Mark decided he was going to do it he had to humble myself and  start at ground zero. Mark worked in 3 restaurants and a food truck and participated in a culinary training program. Along his journey he met his business partner Geisi Segura. A chef who had 20 yrs experience running restaurants and they clicked immediately. When the opportunity came for Mark to open his own place he called Geisi up and they looked at a location and decided to go for it and they became partners. Gofish was a concept Mark came up with from his love of seafood and the desire to offer something different that he hadn't seen before. "We have a unique take on many traditional dishes and we have some very original dishes as well that we think people will enjoy and remember. We started 4 months ago and have made tremendous progress. We started as take out only and have been fortunate enough to be able to add seating and create a space that has a great decor and vibe. "Good vibes only" is a sign hanging on our wall and we truly mean it. Everyone is welcome at our restaurant and we just want to continue to put out the best food and the best vibe cause we truly believe you get back what you put out so great food and great vibes are what we put out to get that same vibe in return.  Thank you from all of us here at gofish!"  DISHES:  Fruity pebbles French toast - French toast dipped in crumbled fruity pebbles cereal served with whipped cream and syrup  Presto pesto waffle bowl - fried salmon, shrimp and whiting chunks served in a homemade waffle bowl and topped with our homemade pesto  Chicken stuffed waffle - flavorful breaded chicken blended into the batter of our homemade waffle mix topped with hot maple syrup  Pancake taco - buttermilk pancake wrap served with bbq pulled brisket. Home fries and cheddar eggs any style  All from our Sunday brunchday menu that we want to promote.   TBT - Shrimp Po Boy City Island Basket Lobster Mac&Cheese   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Is dating your spouse still required after you say I do? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Schism - (noun) a split or division between strongly opposed sections or parties, caused by differences in opinion or belief.  SCRIPTURE:   Ephesians 5:22-33  Ephesians 5:25-33 ESV / 1,170 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church  #DWN #Go Fish #Dining With Ndiva

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 45  GUEST HOSTS:   Jaime & Marie (IG: @mediamamas1112_) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: He brought the chill on the1st date. Now what? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Puerile - (adjective) childishly foolish, immature, or trivial EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "My teenage daughter was upset when her puerile conduct got her sent to the little kids’ table at dinner."  FEATURED RESTAURANT: Noam - Owner Noah's Ark 493 Cedar Ln, Teaneck, NJ 07666 (201) 692-1200www.noahsark.net Waitresses: Jazmine and Dara  DISHES:    Hot Juicy Cornbeef Hot Juicy Pastrami Chicken &  Waffles BBQ Pulled Brisket Brunch All Day Bonanza Burger   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: He brought the chill on the1st date. Now what? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Puerile - (adjective) childishly foolish, immature, or trivial EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "My teenage daughter was upset when her puerile conduct got her sent to the little kids’ table at dinner." STATS:  thefederalist.com A survey of more than 3500 singles conducted by the online dating site RSVP (owned by Fairfax Media, the publisher of Sunday Life) found that 20% of users "always" got a second date. 29% said they got one 75%of the time and 28% said they got one as often as not. SCRIPTURE:  1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, is not boastful, is not conceited, does not act improperly, is not selfish, is not provoked, and does not keep a record of wrongs. Love finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 44  GUEST HOSTS:   Jaime & Marie (IG: @mediamamas1112_) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: When is it a good time to bring your significant other to church? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Percipient - (adjective) Having a good understanding of things; perceptive. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "The percipient expression on her face showed her understanding." FEATURED RESTAURANT: 354 Steakhouse 354 Lawton Ave, Cliffside Park, NJ 07010, United States 201-941-0499Website: www.354steakhouse.com Instagram: @354steakhouse  DISHES:    Spinach Manchego Cheese Empanadas Bang Bang Shrimp Stuffed Avocado with Shrimp 354 Ribs Tres Leche   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: When is it a good time to bring your significant other to church? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Percipient - (adjective) Having a good understanding of things; perceptive. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "The percipient expression on her face showed her understanding." STATS:  thefederalist.com Going to church with your partner does seem to be a good thing. Churchgoing couples were significantly more likely (11 percent) to report they were “very” or “extremely happy” in their relationships, as compared to non-attending couples. It's especially good when couples have many friends at church SCRIPTURE:  2 Corinthians 6:14-15 14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial[a]? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 43  GUEST HOSTS:   Jaime & D'Asia DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Overcoming loneliness during the holidays? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Cloven - (adjective) Split or divided in two. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "Remember the story of Moses when he made the Red Sea cloven."  FEATURED RESTAURANT: Burger Boss 185 Humphrey St, Englewood, NJ 07631 (201) 408-4601 https://burgerbossnj.square.siteIG: @burgerbossnj BUCKETS TACO 185  BIO:    Johnny- OWNER Our classic burger made from a house brisket blend, and topped with Chef Jonny's Bearnaise Sauce and pickled red onions is a divine flavor combo you won't find anywhere else!  DISHES:    Bucket of Fried Chicken Texas Burger Honey Garlic WIngs Buffalo Cauliflower Poppers Original Fried Chicken Sandwich Brisket Tacos   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Overcoming loneliness during the holidays? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Cloven - (adjective) Split or divided in two. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "Remember the story of Moses when he made the Red Sea cloven."  STATS: www.valuepenguin.com • 11% of consumers report feeling extreme loneliness heading into the winter holidays, with 70% reporting various stages of loneliness. Generation Zers, millennials and Generation Xers were the most likely to feel the strongest loneliness. • Nearly seven in 10 Americans are worried about their family or friends feeling lonely during the holidays this year, with more than two in 10 of them being very worried. Older generations were the least likely to worry about their families feeling lonely. • Consumers are practicing forms of self-care to manage stress and loneliness, including watching TV or movies (60%), exercising (40%) and reading (39%), but only 7% said they’re talking to a therapist or counselor. Additionally, 19% of those 75 and older said they don’t do anything to manage stress or loneliness. • Some consumers’ holiday loneliness may be related to the season, as 13% said they’ve been diagnosed with seasonal affective disorder, which is characterized by depression at the same time each year. Another 29% haven’t been diagnosed but experience those symptoms.  SCRIPTURE:  Isaiah 41:10“Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 42  GUEST HOSTS:   Jaime & D'Asia DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: When does eye candy become lust? WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Besiege - (verb) surround (a place) with armed forces in order to capture it or force its surrender; lay siege to. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: '"the television station was besieged with calls".

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 41  GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Keish - @keisha_cc ) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: The misconceptions of love languages 1. Acts of service: Always wanting to do something for your partner 2. Time spent: too much time/stalking 3. Gift giving: giving the same gift over n over 4. Physical touch: Is not just sexual 5. Affirmation: Saying "You're beautiful" ALL the time. WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Gemütlich (adjective) - Pleasant and cheerful. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "Steven was known for his gemütlich demeanor." FEATURED RESTAURANT: Manhattan Bagel 14 W Palisade Ave. Englewood, NJ 07631 (201) 816-0008Website Info: manhattanbagel.com IG INFO: @manhattanbagelenglewood BIO: Manhattan bagel has been a staple in our community since 1987. Their bagels are fresh-baked in-store every day the classic NY-Style way — Boiled and Baked with love. Manhattan is an East Coast favorite for those with discriminating tastes. They use only the highest quality ingredients from market-fresh produce to meats and cheeses sliced daily in-store to bring you our timeless delicious recipes. Their customers love their Fresh-baked NY-Style Bagels, fresh cracked eggs on the griddle, Authentic Deli Sandwiches, Scrumptious Salads, Fresh-baked Sweets & Artisan Roasted Arabica Coffees. All prepared fresh every day for you. DISHES:  Nova lox Cream cheese with sliced onions and Capers  Asparagus Mushroom Egg White  Manhattan Cheese Steak Roll  Chicken Salad Sandwich  Empire State Club Sandwich  empire stat turkey sandwich  Bagel Classic Wildberry-Smoothie Strawberry Lemonade Frozen Caramel Latte Vanilla Latte  DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: The misconceptions of love languages 1. Acts of service: Always wanting to do something for your partner 2. Time spent: too much time/stalking 3. Gift giving: giving the same gift over n over 4. Physical touch: Is not just sexual 5. Affirmation: Saying "You're beautiful" ALL the time. WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Gemütlich (adjective) - Pleasant and cheerful. EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "Steven was known for his gemütlich demeanor." STATS: www.huffpost.com This Is The Most Common Of The 5 Love Languages Words of affirmation: 23 percent. Quality time: 20 percent. Acts of service: 20 percent. Physical touch: 19 percent. Receiving gifts: 18 percent. SCRIPTURE: Matthew22:37 “You must love the Lord yourGodwith all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.”