The Essential 11

Discover True Confidence: Embrace Inner Power and Let Go of Control with Churchill Elangwe-Preston's Wisdom

01.30.2024 - By Matt BeaudreauPlay

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Many of us find ourselves seeking external approval and trying to control every detail to feel confident. But what if real confidence comes from recognizing that there is a power beyond ourselves? What if we acknowledge that we are not alone in this journey and that there is a divine force guiding us? This realization allows us to let go of our fears and insecurities, knowing that we are supported and protected by a higher power. It gives us the courage to face challenges head-on and the resilience to persevere in the face of adversity. Churchill Elangwe-Preston shares his life experiences, lessons, and advice to future leaders. Tune in as young leaders ask questions about life, personal growth, entrepreneurship, and more!

Quotes:

"As a 12 or 13-year-old, I was a boy lacking confidence, uncertain about the future. In a family where survival felt like a competition, I learned the beauty of selflessness and sharing with those in need." – Churchill Elangwe-Preston

"In my 13 years of work, I realized that true fulfillment doesn't come from wealth alone. It's about changing your work into service, bringing significance to it, and making a lasting impact on others." – Churchill Elangwe-Preston

"True confidence comes when you release control and trust in a power greater than yourself. Letting go and allowing things to flow was the key to unlocking my innate confidence." – Churchill Elangwe-Preston

Takeaways:

Reflect on the idea that true confidence emerges when you let go of control and trust in a power greater than yourself. Consider how embracing the absence of absolute control can foster personal growth and resilience.

Take a moment to reflect on your own journey and contemplate whether you are still seeking approval or external validation. Challenge yourself to transition from constantly seeking approval to having faith in your abilities, recognizing that genuine confidence originates from within.

Delve into the concept of finding strength in acknowledging a power beyond yourself. Ponder areas of your life where relinquishing control could lead to personal liberation and empowerment

Keep in mind the lesson that no amount of external approval can alter a situation. Evaluate your goals and actions, emphasizing the importance of doing what needs to be done without becoming excessively preoccupied with seeking constant approval.

Share the wisdom that confidence does not come from seeking approval, but from trusting in oneself. Encourage others, especially young individuals, to shift their mindset from seeking approval to trusting themselves, highlighting the transformative power of this shift.

Conclusion:

The journey to genuine confidence involves letting go of control and embracing a power beyond oneself. Shifting from seeking approval to trusting in one's abilities is a transformative path to self-assurance. Apply these lessons in your own life. Identify areas where letting go of control can lead to personal growth and resilience. Value action over approval and encourage a mindset shift in others, fostering a community based on self-trust. Remember that confidence is an inside job, starting with a choice to trust and believe in yourself.

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