Discovering Your Pleasure with Hannah, The Libido Fairy

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Struggling with “What do I want in bed?” or feeling like sex has become routine? In this episode of Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, host Jordan D’Nelle and Hannah, The Libido Fairy, drop raw, hilarious truth bombs on reigniting desire and boosting libido in long-term relationships.

They reframe sex as adult playtime: ditch porn pressure, embrace sex exploration, and treat new kinks like the floppy first pancake - try anything twice for real calibration.

Listen for practical, shame-free tools for better communication, boundaries, and erotic connection.

Jump to the Good Stuff:

00:00 – Intro & Meet The Libido Fairy

04:24 – Sex as Adult Playtime

06:24 – The Floppy Pancake Rule: Try Anything Twice

09:55 – Tuning Into Your Body’s Yes/No

13:05 – The Likes + Limits Checklist Magic

14:37 – Navigating Mismatched Desires

18:59 – King & Queen Nights

23:29 – Daily Rituals for Lasting Connection

43:45 – What Hannah’s Exploring Now

45:46 – Defining Pleasure

Pleasure Highlights:

• ​Treat sex like pancakes: Try things, notice your body’s yes/no signals (tingling, squirmy), and try anything twice—first try is just calibration.
• ​Embrace playful exploration: Separate maintenance sex from no-pressure sex exploration sessions—fail, experiment, build desire in long-term relationships.
• ​Use Hannah’s free Likes + Limits Checklist (500+ items) to map desires, find overlaps, and avoid resentment.
• ​Unlock King/Queen Nights for focused pleasure, plus daily 6-second kisses and eye contact for sustained heat.
• ​Pleasure = anything that brings you more alive: sustainable joy through communication, boundaries, and prioritizing your relationship.

Connect with Hannah :

• ​Instagram @thelibidofairy
• ​TikTok @thelibidofairy
• ​Facebook @thelibidofairy
• ​YouTube @thelibidofairy
• ​Podcast: The Libido Fairy

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*Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated.

Website Links:

• ​Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠
• ​⁠⁠Hannah’s Likes and Limits Checklist (Menu)⁠⁠ 
• ​⁠⁠The Libido Fairy Webite⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.thelibidofairy.com/⁠⁠ 
• ​⁠⁠The Relationship Ritual Guide⁠⁠ - includes the King and Queen Night resource

Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.