Divorce Angel Podcast

Many of us are aware of what the Law of Attraction is, and still, we tend to use it the wrong way. As we talked about it in previous episodes, the universe sends us back what we send to it. When we think about what is wrong in our lives, what kind of thoughts are we sending out there?

In this episode, I invite you to rethink with me the way we use the Law of Attraction, and I offer my best advice on how to use it properly. 

Let's get into it

Timestamps:

What we expect from the Law of Attraction [00:01:30]

Where are we focusing our energy? [00:02:30]

The thoughts we send out to the universe [00:04:00]

How I started to change my thinking process [00:05:30]

What we do wrong when we want a change in our life [00:07:30]

What I was doing wrong [00:10:00]

It did not happen overnight [00:12:00]

Helping others might be the key to help ourselves [00:14:00]

Links

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Commonly, dealing with divorce makes us feel overwhelmed and fragile, and it affects our decision-making process. When this happens, we might trust a task to the wrong person. For instance, a lawyer will most likely provide, even with the best intentions, awful financial advice. Maybe the family accountant suggests a litigation strategy that sounds great but ends up in disaster.

The consequences of making the wrong decisions will haunt us and in most of the cases, when they show up is either late to solve them, or they are irreversible. 

In this episode of the Divorce Angel podcast, I share with you the experience of this lady that is dealing with huge tax debt due to poor financial decisions, and I offer the best advice to avoid this situation. 

Let's get into it.

Timestamps:

How one woman received a $42,000 Tax bill after her divorce[00:01:45]

The first of the three 'P' for a successful divorce: Preparation [00:03:00]

Finding the right members for your team [00:04:00]

The second 'P', Planning [00:05:30]

The third 'P', Protection [00:08:00]

Asking for advice to the wrong person [00:09:45]

Facing the consequences of bad decisions [00:11:00]

How to prevent this from happening to you [00:12:00]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Dealing with divorce might pull the darkest thoughts out of our minds. The result of being under so much pressure and stress could lead us to flirt with extreme ideas. Bad decisions, lousy counselling or even an honest mistake of a lawyer could make us feel that divorce has broken our spirit.

In this episode of the Divorce Angel Podcast, I share with you my best tips to avoid falling into this place. 

Let's get into it

Timestamps

We are dealing with a broken system [00:02:00]

How men and women detect red flags [00:04:00]

Why divorce take some men by surprise [00:06:00]

A goldmine for lawyers [00:08:00] 

Divorce Angel and the 80-20 rule [00:09:30]

How divorce can break someone's spirit [00:10:30]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Divorce Roadmap Session:

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Reaching awareness in life is as challenging as crucial. The hard part is acknowledging our mistakes and flaws - the lack of integrity towards ourselves. The benefits on the other hand are infinite. Awareness is the most liberating feeling you ever have in your life. When you are aware of what's going on, you can act responsibly. Walk with me through this episode, and I will share with you the benefits of being aware during and after a divorce process. 

Let's get into it

Timestamps

Why we don't want to reach awareness? [00:01:20] 

Awareness and our values at stake. [00:02:00]

Facing our lack of integrity. [00:05:00] 

Being aware of our issues. [00:06:30]

The way we do something, we do everything. [00:07:40]

Awareness is being in charge. [00:10:30]

What is it that you are not aware that you could change?  [00:12:00]

Where are you not aware of your responsibility? [00:14:00]

You are the person who decides where your life goes. [00:16:00]

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To be balanced, the universe needs to give back the energy it receives. It sends back what we send to it. What we do to other people, what we say to other people, every action we take creates an energy that will sooner or later, return to us like a boomerang. This is why we should be careful about what we send out. 

In this episode of the Divorce Angel podcast, I share with you the tips I followed to reach inner peace and well-being.

Let's get into it:

Timestamps

What's happening to you is producing a vibration through your life. [00:01:20]

I used to retaliate. I used to be triggered. [00:02:30]

I don't do it anymore. I'm not doing it again. [00:04:00]

Don't let anyone take your inner peace. [00:05:30]

Sometimes you need to move on. [00:07:00]

The importance of taking care of our well-being. [00:09:00]

One of the tools I used to reach inner peace. [00:10:20]

You already have what you need. [00:12:00]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Sometimes we feel cornered by our problems, and we cannot see a way out. Or maybe reality overwhelms us and every decision we make leads to a deeper and darker place. We know we need to change something, yet we don't know what we need to do to create change in our lives.

In this episode, we unravel the most effective method to create change in our lives and take the first steps to a new life.  

Let's get into it

You can never solve a problem at the level it was created. [00:01:00] 

There's no point on sitting there and thinking that we don't have all the answers. [00:02:40] 

When you decide to create change in your life, what is it that you want to change? [00:03:40] 

Our beliefs might be holding us back from creating change in our lives. [00:05:00] 

We need to unlearn who we are. [00:07:30]

Being grateful for our experiences. [00:09:00]

Being around the right people. [00:11:30]

Learn new things constantly. [00:13:00]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Divorce Roadmap Session:

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Even when we are fully aware of the fact that Valentine's Day "use" love to generate a 'profit margin', we cannot avoid feeling affected by it during our separation. Love is in the air wherever we look. It is all over the internet, the radio, the T.V and in all the stores you visit. It's there right in your face. This leads you to think one thing: How can I survive through this?

On this very special podcast, I want to share with you my best tips to keep your mental and emotional health intact.

Let's get into it:

Timestamps

Our secret Valentine and the void we want to fulfil. [00:01:00]

What do you need to be happy? [00:02:40]

A little bit of history over Valentine's Day. [00:04:30]

Feelings amplify at this time of the year. [00:07:15]

First tip: Stay away from Social Media. [00:08:40]

Second tip: Praise yourself. [00:10:30]

Third tip: Have some quality time with family and friends. [00:12:00]

Fourth tip: Get lost in a book. [00:13:00]

Fifth tip: Putting together a 90-days plan. [00:15:50]

Bonus tip: Momentum is key. [00:17:00]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Divorce Roadmap Session:

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Being scared of the unknown is considered by science the fundamental fear. What triggers this fear, is the absence of information. For instance, the outcome of a decision we might make. This fear will keep us trapped in either an uncomfortable or unhealthy relationship. 

In this episode of the Divorce Angel Podcast, we talk about how dangerous it is to be a hostage of the "FEAR of the unknown", and how important it is to conquer it. 

Let's get into it:

Timestamps

The importance of putting a structure together. [00:01:00] 

What makes our minds decide to stay. [00:02:41] 

Do not live in unhappiness because those are the cards you have. [00:03:30] 

What you have will not define your happiness. [00:06:00]

There is a lot of life-changing knowledge we are not aware of their existence. [00:08:00]

Secret or hidden should not be scary but exciting. [00:10:00]

Do not be scared of losing everything. You can always start again. [00:12:00]

The unknown can be fulfilling. [00:13:00]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Divorce Roadmap Session:

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We already know that dealing with a divorce or separation can be hard, and if you are a business owner, it can be more difficult. After putting so much time and effort in your business, seeing it falling apart as a result of your divorce can be heartbreaking. The end of your marriage should not mean the end of your business too. 

In this episode, we talk about the difficulties we will face getting a divorce as business owners, and about what we can do to make our business survive our separation. 

Let's get into it

Timestamps

The first alarm goes on. [00:02:35]

The danger of being vindictive. [00:04:30]

Unnecessary pressure added. [00:06:20]

You might be in front of a turning point. [00:8:40]

I've decided to keep my business. Now what? [00:10:40]

We can use the lessons learned during the separation. [00:12:00]

Who should we remunerate or reward? Who indeed helped us? [00:14:20]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

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Social media can be a gratifying amusement, a space to share our experiences, or even a great business booster. If we are going through difficult times, it can also offer a painful contrast between the happiness we see in it and the sadness we are facing. When we are at our lowest point, when everything seems to get worse and worse, any suggestion or alternative we see or receive looks like the solution to our problems. We need to be aware of the danger of letting social media affect our decision-making process. 

In this episode of the Divorce Angle Podcast, we talk about the importance of staying away from social media when we need it, to regain internal peace. 

Let's get into it

Timestamps:

Burning all the past. [00:01:50]

Why is everything a reason to fight in our marriage? [00:04:30]

The importance of inner peace [00:06:00]

No two divorces are the same. Do your research before using a referral. [00:7:20]

Why are lawyers interested in my method? [00:9:00]

What we post on social media vs how we want to be perceived. [00:10:30]

We need to be mindful of the information we put in our minds. [00:12:00]

Links:

My book: The Jelly Bean Jar - Empowering Independence through Divorce

https://tanyasomerton.com/shop/the-jelly-bean-jar/

Join my Free Facebook Group here:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceangel/

Divorce Roadmap Session:

https://tanyasomerton.com/divorce-roadmap/

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