Divorce Dialogues

Divorce Dialogues

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Divorce Dialogues episodes

  • Creative Financial Planning in Divorce With Jonathan Satovsky
    It is challenging to take the emotion out of discussions about money, especially in the divorce process. But if you can sit down and look at your finances objectively, it’s easier to make good decisions around who gets what and how to plan for the future.
    Jonathan Satovsky is the CEO and Chief Behavioral Coach at Satovsky Asset Management, an investment management firm that promotes a mindful approach to multigenerational wealth. Prior to founding SAM in 2007, Jonathan spent 13-plus years at American Express Financial Advisors, and he holds the Certified Financial Planner, Certified Investment Management Analyst and Certified Private Wealth Advisor designations.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Jonathan joins Katherine to explain how a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst can help you get up to speed on the financial issues in a divorce. He describes how to balance financial stability with housing costs in the divorce process and challenges you to be creative in prioritizing spending on what’s important to you. Listen in for insight around the tax implications of divorce and learn Jonathan’s approach to dividing assets through the collaborative process.
    Topics Covered
    The benefit of both spouses being involved in the couple’s finances
    How a CDFA can help you get up to speed on financial issues in a divorce
    The challenge of taking the emotion out of discussions about money
    Jonathan’s insight on how to budget with the end in mind
    How much of your income should be allocated to housing
    Jonathan’s advice on balancing financial stability with housing costs
    Why housing is not the best investment for achieving financial freedom
    How to be creative with your finances and prioritize spending on what’s important to you
    Why a spouse without earning capacity needs access to liquid funds
    The tax implications of divorce (e.g.: exemption on house)
    Why Jonathan recommends the collaborative divorce process
    Connect with Jonathan Satovsky
    Satovsky Asset Management: https://www.satovsky.com/
    Satovsky Asset Management on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/satovsky-asset-management-llc/
    Satovsky Asset Management on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SatovskyAssetManagement/
    Jonathan on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jonsatovsky
    Call (212) 584-1900
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    26 min
  • Who Keeps the Dog in a Divorce? With Karis Nafte
    Pets are not property, nor are they quite the same as human children. So, how do you decide who gets to keep the dog in a divorce? And what if you have more than one animal? How do you do what’s best for your pets and the people involved?
    Karis Nafte is the Pet Custody Specialist and Certified Family Mediator behind Who Keeps the Dog, a consulting practice that helps families with their pets through the divorce process. She has been working with dogs professionally since 1996, developing an expertise in obedience training, behavior problems, and on-set training for animals in film. Karis is passionate about mediating pet custody arrangements and providing behavior support for owners with dogs showing signs of stress pre- and post-divorce.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Karis joins Katherine to discuss the common mistakes people make with their pets in a divorce and explain why shared custody isn’t necessarily the best option for your dog—or you. She walks us through the factors to consider as you decide between shared and sole custody of your pet, describing why random, sporadic visits from an ex are stressful for your dog. Listen in for Karis’ insight on having kids and pets transition between parents together and find out why mediation is a much better option for your dog than letting a judge decide their fate.
    Topics Covered
    Why it’s a mistake to use your pet as leverage in a divorce
    The harm in projecting your own feelings onto your dog in a divorce
    How dogs can carry the same emotional weight as human children for divorcing couples
    Why shared custody may not be the best option for your dog (or you)
    The benefit of having kids and pets transition between parents together
    What factors to consider as you decide between shared vs. sole custody of a pet
    Why random, sporadic visits from an ex are not good for your dog
    How to say goodbye to your dog when your ex is getting custody
    What to do if the divorcing couple has more than one dog
    Why mediation is a better option for your pet than litigation
    Connect with Karis Nafte
    whokeepsthedog.com
    Karis on Instagram: www.instagram.com/karisnafte/
    Karis on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/karis-nafte-b4b9b81a6/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    26 min
  • Personal Property Appraisal in Divorce With Charles Rosoff
    Equitable distribution of property is the goal in a divorce. But how, exactly, does the appraisal process work? How do appraisers determine the value of a divorcing couple’s assets and help them avoid disputes around property distribution?
    Charles Rosoff is President of Appraisal Services Associates, a firm that provides forensic valuations of fine art, antiques, decorative arts as well as residential and office contents. He is an American Society of Appraisers Accredited Senior Appraiser and Member of the Royal Institute of Chartered Surveyors. Charles has more 35 years of experience, and he serves as editor of the annual supplements to the legal textbooks Valuation Strategies in Divorce and Valuing Specific Assets in Divorce.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Charles joins Katherine to explain how appraisers value personal property to help divorcing couples achieve equitable distribution. He describes how to avoid ownership disputes and authenticity issues in a matrimonial action, discussing how to conduct an inventory of your personal property and why appraisers assign items a cash value. Listen in for Charles’ insight around the five most common myths of value and learn the valuation strategies you can use to maximize income from the sale of personal property in a divorce.
    Topics Covered
    How appraisers value fine arts, antiques, decorative arts and collectibles
    Why it’s important for divorcing couples to hire an accredited appraiser
    How to conduct an inventory of personal property for an appraiser
    How liquidity impacts the equitable distribution of property in divorce
    How to avoid ownership disputes and authenticity issues in a matrimonial action
    Why it’s crucial to provide an appraiser with all available documentation
    The significant differences between market value and fair market value
    How assigning assets a cash value allows us to compare personal property
    Charles’ insight around the five most common myths of value
    The valuation strategies you can use to maximize income from property
    Connect with Charles Rosoff
    Appraisal Services Associates: https://www.appraisalserv.com/
    Call (917) 877-5217
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Macklowe v. Macklowe: https://www.appraisalserv.com/
    Valuation Strategies in Divorce by Robert D. Feder, Charles T. Rosoff and Aleza Tadri: https://lrus.wolterskluwer.com/store/product/valuation-strategies-in-divorce-fifth-edition/
    Valuing Specific Assets in Divorce by Robert D. Feder, Charles T. Rosoff and Aleza Tadri: https://lrus.wolterskluwer.com/store/product/valuing-specific-assets-in-divorce/
    26 min
  • Nesting & Other Child-Centered Parenting Plans With Dr. Ann Buscho
    Kids don’t get a say in whether or not their parents divorce. And yet, it’s often the children who bear the brunt of the disruption. One strategy for minimizing the upheaval in your kids’ lives is a parenting arrangement known as birdnesting. But what does a successful nesting plan look like? And how do divorcing couples navigate this kind of arrangement successfully?
    Dr. Ann Buscho is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in family issues related to divorce, parenting, parenting plans and co-parenting counseling. Dr. Buscho has both personal and professional experience with nesting, co-parenting, step-parenting and single-parenting, and she is the author of The Parent’s Guide to Birdnesting: A Child-Centered Solution to Co-Parenting During Separation and Divorce.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Dr. Buscho joins Katherine to explain what a birdnesting parenting arrangement looks like and why it’s particularly helpful in the early stages of separation and divorce. She shares the top three things to consider in designing a parenting plan, offering advice on maximizing the child’s time with each parent and making the transitions as smooth as possible. Listen in for Dr. Buscho’s insight on minimizing your child’s exposure to conflict and learn what divorcing couples need to do to nest successfully.
    Topics Covered
    What a birdnesting arrangement looks like and how it works
    Why nesting is particularly helpful in the early stages of separation and divorce
    How nesting is usually transitional but can also be a long-term solution
    Why explicit agreements are key to making a nesting arrangement go smoothly
    How COVID forced many divorcing couples into nesting
    Dr. Buscho’s top 3 things to consider in designing a parenting plan
    The continuum from parallel parenting to collaborative co-parenting
    Why parallel parenting is better than exposing kids to conflict
    Dr. Buscho’s insight on maximizing the child’s time with each parent
    How to make the transition between parents smoother for children of divorce
    What divorcing couples need to do to nest successfully
    Connect with Dr. Ann Buscho
    Dr. Buscho’s Website: https://drannbuscho.com/
    Dr. Buscho on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drannbuscho/
    Dr. Buscho on Twitter: https://twitter.com/abuschophd
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    The Parent’s Guide to Birdnesting: A Child-Centered Solution to Co-Parenting During Separation and Divorce by Ann Gold Buscho, PhD: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Parents-Guide-to-Birdnesting/Ann-Gold-Buscho/9781507214091
    Dr. John Gottman: https://www.gottman.com/
    26 min
  • How to Avoid Big Mistakes That Are Made During High Net Worth Divorces With Lili Vasileff
    Just because someone may have a high net worth, doesn’t always mean they are good with their money or have ‘enough’ to feasibly survive on, in the grand scheme of things. Their expenses, assets, investments, or lack thereof, and whether or not they are really going to be able to support their lifestyle over the term of the owner’s life, all need to be taken into consideration. It’s not just the question of money. It’s everything that surrounds the money questions. So, for anyone with a high net worth who is going into a divorce, what do we need to know to allow a peace of mind over all the critical and unique financial decisions involved?
    Lili Vasileff is the president of Wealth Protection Management, a firm that is nationally recognized in providing financial expert planning to protect peoples’ wealth during a divorce. She is also the President of Emeritus of the Board of Directors of the national Association of Divorce Financial Planners and is a fee only Certified Financial Planner™ professional, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, and a Master Analyst in Financial Forensics™ (MAFF) with specialty in Matrimonial Litigation. Lili Vasileff is recognized as a Wealth Protection Expert that works with clients and professionals before, during, and after divorce across the country. One of the specialties she has is working in high networth divorces that have such unique case factors that impact every negotiation.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Lili joins Katherine to discuss some of the biggest mistakes made during high networth divorces and how to overall improve family relationships in the process, while also preserving wealth. She describes some main factors to be aware of when dealing with a high net worth divorce, such as the anchor assets in marital mistakes, money syndrome, considering smart investments, the importance in finding a reliable financial advisor, tax strategies, etc. Listen in for Lili’s tips on how to best navigate a high net worth divorce and the top factors that should not be overlooked.
    Topics Covered
    What all needs to be considered with a high net worth couple
    How important it is for money to be properly managed, to have the lifestyle you’re looking for
    What often can happen when people suddenly come into large sums of money
    Lili’s view on the lack of financial literacy being one of the main issues in handling money in a divorce
    The importance of finding a certified and trustworthy financial advisor
    Lili’s roadmap that she always provides her clients
    How to carefully weigh the factors of a house being both a financial asset and an emotional asset
    The complications behind a couple that has lived on primarily one person’s inherited assets
    How a business is factored into a divorce
    The importance of having a business evaluation
    The main anchor assets in marital mistakes
    Lili’s insight on what else to be aware of in high net worth divorces
    Connect with Lili Vasileff
    Wealth Protection Management: https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/
    Wealth Protection Management on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WealthProtectionManagement/
    Wealth Protection Management on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOCdeqUTQeuupEpGntuaD5w
    Lili Vasileff On Twitter: https://twitter.com/WealthLili
    Lili Vasileff On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moneyanddivorce/
    Lili Vasileff on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lilivasileff/
    Call (203) 393-7200
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Certified Financial Planner Standards Board (FPSB): https://www.fpsb.org/
    26 min
  • Divorcing a Narcissist in Mediation With Brian James
    How do you negotiate with someone who has to be right? If you’re divorcing a narcissist, you know that they simply can’t see things from someone else’s point of view. So, how do you come to an equitable divorce agreement? And is mediation an appropriate option for divorcing a narcissist?
    Brian James is the founder of CEL & Associates, a mediation practice with offices throughout Chicagoland and Southeastern Wisconsin. An experienced divorce and family mediator, Brian spent ten years resolving family conflicts in the criminal justice system before starting CEL & Associates in 2005. Brian is dedicated to helping clients come to an agreement outside the courtroom, creating a win-win situation for all involved in a divorce.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Brian joins Katherine to explain how to know if you’re married to a narcissist, describing what gaslighting looks like and how it makes you feel. He shares his approach to managing a narcissist in the divorce mediation process and discusses how he decides when mediation is the right option for a divorcing couple. Listen in for Brian’s insight on persuading a narcissist to try mediation and learn his top strategies for surviving a high-conflict divorce.
    Topics Covered
    How to know if you’re married to a narcissist (and why it’s hard to tell early on)
    What it looks like when a narcissist is gaslighting you and how it makes you feel
    How narcissists lack the capacity for empathy
    Brian’s approach to managing a narcissist in the divorce mediation process
    Why it’s crucial to come to a detailed, air-tight agreement if you’re divorcing a narcissist
    How Brian determines whether mediation is the right option for a divorcing couple
    Brian’s strategies for surviving divorce mediation with a high-conflict spouse
    The narcissist’s inability to engage in respectful disagreement
    How to persuade your spouse to try divorce mediation rather than go to court
    How attorneys can support the mediation process when a narcissist is involved
    Connect with Brian James
    CEL & Associates: https://celandassociates.com/
    CEL on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CELandAssociates
    CEL on Twitter: https://twitter.com/IDivorceU
    Call (312) 524-5829
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    30 min
  • A Path To Happiness After Midlife Divorce With Diane Burroughs
    After 24 years of marriage, Diane’s husband - who also happened to be her colleague as a sitcom writer- left her for another, younger woman. Frustrated and alone, she sought resources to ease her pain and found refuge in books and blogs. However, recognizing that very little literature spoke to her directly – as a woman over 50 – Diane began using her unique voice to connect with other women through her blog – Left at 50, and later went on to publish a book titled Restarting Your Life When You Are No Longer A Wife. In this podcast explore what doubts and fears keep women physically, psychologically, and emotionally trapped after divorce. Learn how single women after fifty can rebuild their lives on their own terms!
    Diane Burroughs is the author of: Restarting Your Life When You Are No Longer a Wife: One gal’s tale of humor, tears, and hope after being Left at 50 and owner of the blog leftatfifty.com. Diane helps women facing midlife divorce by learning how to take care of themselves and embrace their new identity as a single woman after fifty.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Diane joins Katherine to uncover strategies for rebuilding a life after divorce in midlife. She introduces the Doubt Monster - explaining how doubt can creep in and what to do about it. Listen in for Diane’s insights on how to rebound from being lost in “couple identity” and rebuild your individual self to be stronger, happier, more creative, and more action-oriented.
    Topics Covered
    What inspired Diane to write about restarting life after age 50.
    What it is like to work with your ex-husband, and how to set
    appropriate boundaries.
    Why developing creative outlets is important for self-discovery.
    What the Doubt Monster is and how to deal with it.
    Diane’s advice for “gray divorcees.”
    How to take care of yourself after a major setback like divorce.
    How being a “do-er” can benefit you when going through a major life change.
    Why taking care of yourself needs to begin now.
    How to cope if you have to see your cheating ex-husband every day.
    How to get your ex-husband to move out.
    Connect with Diane Burroughs
    Leftat50.com blog: https://leftat50.com/home/
    Restarting Your Life When You Are No Longer A Wife by Diane: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0921FQC7TBurroughs
    Diane on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diane-burroughs-18466995/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    26 min
  • 8 Strategies to Make the Divorce Process Easier with Robin Gardner
    Divorce puts you at the intersection of what was and what will be. And while you will feel anger and sadness in the process, what you do with those feelings is up to you. Will you get stuck in those negative emotions and let them drive you? Or will you take advantage of this opportunity to reassess who you want to be and grow into your Best Self?
    Robin Gardner is the Certified Divorce Coach and Certified Professional Coach behind The Divorce Coach Robin and Phoenix Life Mastery. She leverages 17 years of experience to help people avoid the most common mistakes in divorce, reduce conflict and make informed decisions throughout the process. Robin offers a free, 30-minute consultation for prospective clients to share their biggest concerns and get a sense of how she can support you.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Robin joins Katherine to share her top eight strategies for making the divorce process easier, explaining how to connect with your Best Self and identify what you value. She challenges us to be more loving and compassionate toward ourselves and reframe our divorce story in a more empowering way. Listen in for Robin’s insight on the power of a calming breath and learn how to use your divorce to reassess what you want and begin a new, more fulfilling life.
    Topics Covered  
    Robin’s top 8 strategies for making the divorce process easier
    How to connect with your Best Self and limit the power of your ego
    Why playing the blame game in divorce doesn’t serve anyone 
    What Robin does to help people define their needs and meet them 
    Forgiving yourself for divorce and allowing happiness + pleasure into your life
    How to be more loving and compassionate toward yourself through a divorce
    How to reframe your story in a more empowering way
    The power of a calming breath to help you think more clearly
    Robin’s advice on taking small action steps to create forward movement
    Why it’s advantageous to work with a divorce coach vs. a therapist
    Connect with Robin Gardner
    Book a Free 30-Minute Consult with Robin: https://thedivorcecoachrobin.com/contact/
    The Divorce Coach Robin: https://thedivorcecoachrobin.com/
    Divorce Coach Robin on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDivorceCoachRobin/
    Divorce Coach Robin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/divorcecoachrg
    Call (201) 612-6700
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Wheel of Life Assessment Tool: https://wheeloflife.noomii.com/
    26 min
  • Advocating for Men’s Rights in Divorce with Carrie Schultz
    Many fathers walk into the divorce process feeling disempowered. And while it is true that the judicial system has historically been biased toward mothers, things are evolving. So, what can men do to advocate for their rights in divorce and avoid losing custody of their children?
    Carrie Schultz is the Founder of MR. Men’s Rights Divorce & Family Law of New Jersey by Schultz & Associates. A recognized and sought-after matrimonial law attorney, Carrie is a frequent lecturer, moderator, and panelist for the New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education as well as the New Jersey Association of Justice.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Carrie joins Katherine to discuss the most common mistakes men make in divorce and explain why so many fathers assume they’ll ‘lose their kids’ in the process. She advises men not to compromise with a soon-to-be ex before they understand their options, describing how to be amicable without agreeing to something you might regret later. Listen in to understand how the inclination to solve problems can backfire in divorce negotiations and learn Carrie’s top three things fathers should never do in the divorce process.
    Topics Covered
    What inspired Carrie to focus her practice on men’s rights in divorce
    The common mistakes men make in the divorce process
    Why so many men assume they will ‘lose their kids’ as a result of divorce
    The perceived fears both men and women have around the divorce negotiation process
    How the inclination to solve problems can backfire in divorce negotiations
    Why you shouldn’t compromise with your spouse before you understand your options
    How to talk to your spouse without agreeing to something you might regret later
    The top 3 things fathers should avoid in the divorce process
    What men should do if they’re victims/accused of domestic violence
    Connect with Carrie Schultz
    MR. Men’s Rights Divorce & Family Law of New Jersey: https://mensrightsdivorcelaw.com/
    MR. Men’s Rights Divorce on Twitter: https://twitter.com/familylawyersnj
    Schultz & Associates on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Schultzfamilylaw/
    Carrie at MR. Men’s Rights Divorce & Family Law: https://mensrightsdivorcelaw.com/attorneys/carrie-schultz/
    Call (201) 880-9770
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    25 min
  • Resolve Post-divorce Conflict With Mediation with Erik Wheeler
    Even if you craft the perfect divorce agreement, disputes still arise post-divorce. As circumstances change, conflicts come up. So, what should you do when you and your ex disagree? How might you leverage mediation to resolve those conflicts with less frustration and resentment?
    Erik Wheeler is the Founder and Family Mediator at Accord Mediation, a practice out of Burlington, Vermont, that specializes in divorce and post-divorce mediation. Erik uses conflict resolution and divorce mediation to help couples navigate disagreements around parenting schedules, custody and finances. Erik is also the co-creator of Divorce Peacefully, a webinar designed to educate divorcing couples about the alternatives to litigation—mediation and collaborative divorce. 
     On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Erik joins Katherine to discuss the most common conflicts that come up after a divorce, explaining why it’s crucial to get granular on the details of your parenting agreement. He describes how a mediator can help facilitate difficult discussions and shares his approach to resolving conflicts like who will claim the children on their taxes and how to split your kid’s expenses. Listen in for Erik’s insight on the challenges that come up when one parent relocates and learn how mediation can help you and your ex find solutions that work well for your family’s future.
    Topics Covered  
    Erik’s insight on the kinds of conflict that come up after a divorce
    Why it’s crucial for divorcing couples to get specific on the details of their parenting agreement
    How the introduction of new partners can exacerbate conflict in divorced couples
    How a mediator helps facilitate difficult discussions by focusing on interests vs. positions
    What makes mediation a better option than litigation in finding solutions that work well for your family
    How to resolve conflicts around who will claim the children on taxes
    The challenges that come up when one parent relocates
    Erik’s approach to conflicts around splitting your kid’s expenses (including tuition)
    Why Erik suggests going to mediation as soon as a conflict arises
    Connect with Erik Wheeler
    Accord Mediation: https://www.accordmediationvt.com/
    Accord Mediation on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vermontmediator/
    Call (802) 391-4121
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Erik’s Divorce Peacefully Webinar: https://howtodivorcepeacefully.com/
    SupportPay: https://supportpay.com/
    2Houses: https://www.2houses.com/en
    25 min

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Divorce Dialogues helps people navigate divorce with dignity, clarity, and perspective. Through thoughtful conversations with experts and practitioners, the show explores the emotional, financial, legal, and relational realities of divorce, so listeners can make better decisions, communicate more effectively, and move forward with greater confidence.