Divorce Dialogues

Divorce Dialogues

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Divorce Dialogues episodes

  • Navigating Divorce as an Immigrant—with Neepa Padia
    Neepa Padia gave up her senior level career in India to get married and immigrate to the US.
    But her partner was abusive, and Neepa wanted out. Unfortunately, she was in the country on a dependent spouse visa and had no friends, no family and no job.
    How did Neepa navigate divorce as an immigrant?
    Neepa is the Certified Divorce Coach behind Holistic Divorce Journey, a platform that helps immigrants in divorce with logical steps and tools toward a brighter future.
    Neepa’s personal experience has shaped her into a compassionate and nonjudgmental coach, ensuring that her clients are not alone on this journey of getting divorced in a in a strange land.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Neepa joins Katherine to explain how her experiences as an immigrant going through a divorce inspired her to become a divorce coach.
    Neepa discusses the options available to people in the US on a dependent spouse visa, describing the resources available to immigrants dealing with the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce.
    Listen in for Neepa’s insight on finding culturally aligned support and learn how to leverage the holistic divorce journey to build the future you want!
    Topics Covered
    Neepa’s experience navigating divorce as an immigrant to the US
    What inspired Neepa to build Holistic Divorce Journey
    Options available to divorcing people in the US on a dependent spouse visa
    What resources Neepa leaned on when she was getting divorced
    Resources available to immigrants navigating divorce
    The emotional and logistical challenges of divorce as an immigrant
    How international assets impact equitable distribution of property in divorce
    Why it’s helpful for divorcing immigrants to find culturally aligned support
    Leveraging the holistic divorce journey to build the future you want
    Connect with Neepa Padia
    Holistic Divorce Journey: https://holisticdivorcejourney.com/
    Neepa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticdivorcejourney/
    Neepa’s Divorce Support Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/969925950972235/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Second Saturday: https://www.secondsaturday.com/
    Divorce GPS: https://divorce-gps.com/
    26 min
  • A Fair & Loving Approach to Prenups—with Laurie Israel
    You might assume that mediators who specialize in prenups recommend them for everyone.
    But Laurie Israel is actually against prenuptial agreements for most couples.
    So, when should you consider creating a prenup? And how do you write one in a fair and loving way that strengthens the new marriage?
    Laurie is a collaborative lawyer and mediator based in Massachusetts, where she concentrates her practice exclusively on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements.
    Laurie also writes extensively about the art of mediating prenups, and she is the author of The Generous Prenup: How to Support Your Marriage and Avoid the Pitfalls.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Laurie joins Katherine to explain when a prenup is a good idea and when it isn’t, discussing why it’s inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal.
    Laurie shares her thoughts on prenups for inheritances, second marriages, and business owners, describing what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your agreement.
    Listen in for Laurie’s insight on protecting both parties (not just the moneyed spouse) and learn how the right kind of prenup creates peace, certainty and fairness for all involved.
    Topics Covered
    Why Laurie is against prenuptial agreements for most couples
    When a prenup is a good idea and how it can create peace, certainty and fairness in those cases
    Why it’s inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal
    Laurie’s advice on what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your prenup
    Why Laurie suggests a prenup for second marriages and marriages involving children from previous relationships
    How Laurie thinks about building a prenup or postnup for business owners
    How fairness in a prenup is influenced by the laws in your particular state
    When it might be appropriate to draft a postnuptial agreement
    Laurie’s thoughts on the complexities of money and marriage
    Laurie’s loving approach to prenups that protect both people in a marriage (not just the moneyed spouse)
    How to address student loans and inheritances in a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement
    Providing for the surviving spouse when a marriage ends in death
    Connect with Laurie Israel
    Laurie Israel Law and Mediation: https://www.laurieisrael.com/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    The Generous Prenup by Laurie Israel: https://www.laurieisrael.com/book/
    Ten Things I Hate About Prenuptial Agreements: https://www.laurieisrael.com/ten-things-i-hate-about-prenuptial-agreements/
    30 min
  • Empowering Women in Divorce—with Heather Quick
    In the early days of her family law practice, Heather Quick noticed a troubling pattern among the women she represented.
    Women often undervalued what they brought to the marriage and failed to stand up for themselves in the divorce process.
    So, what can women do to change their mindset around divorce and fight for what they deserve?
    Heather Quick is Founder and CEO of Florida Women’s Law Group, the only divorce and family law firm in Northeast Florida that serves women exclusively.
    Consistent with her message of women's empowerment, Heather has published several books on divorce and business, including Women’s Guide to Divorce in Florida and Women’s Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Heather joins Katherine to discuss the unique challenges facing women in divorce, from stay-at-home moms to female breadwinners.
    Heather explains how women compromise on finances to protect their children and why that’s a bad idea, challenging couples to stop using their children as a negotiating tool in divorce.
    Listen in to understand how entrepreneurship can help women own their financial destiny and learn how FWLG advocates for women before, during and after divorce.
    Topics Covered
    What inspired Heather to focus on helping women stand up for themselves in divorce
    Why women tend to undervalue what they bring to a marriage
    What issues affect women in particular during the divorce process
    How women compromise on finances in divorce to protect their children (and why they shouldn’t)
    The danger in using your children as a negotiating tool in divorce
    Common issues facing female breadwinners in divorce, e.g.: custody, alimony, etc.
    How Heather’s books educate and empower women before, during and after divorce
    Heather’s experience working with a team of all women at Florida Women’s Law Group
    How Heather benefits from having a divorce coach on her team
    What motivated Heather to expand her focus to helping women excel as entrepreneurs
    Connect with Heather Quick
    Florida Women’s Law Group: https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/
    Women Winning Divorce Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/685277376560289
    Women Winning Divorce Podcast: https://womenwinningdivorce.com/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Women’s Guide to Divorce in Florida by Heather Brooke Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Divorce-Florida-Advantage/dp/150323326X
    Is Divorce Right for You? by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Right-You-Guide-Determine-ebook/dp/B00NH2QK1G/
    Women’s Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Becoming-Successful-Entrepreneur/dp/1511734655/
    Julie Rountree on Divorce Dialogues: https://miller-law.com/podcast/the-missing-professional-from-a-divorce-litigation-team/
    Changes to Florida’s Divorce Law: https://www.attorneylauraolson.com/an-overview-of-floridas-new-alimony-law-elimination-of-permanent-alimony/
    25 min
  • Divorce Financial Planning with a Love Letter—with Jennifer Lee
    If you’re going through a divorce, writing a love letter is probably the last thing on your mind.
    But Jennifer Lee, AWMA, AIF, suggests that sharing your values and hopes for the future in a family love letter to your children is a good first step for financial planning in divorce.
    So, how does a love letter help you set meaningful financial goals and make better money decisions?
    Jennifer is the founder of Modern Wealth, a Sarasota-based financial firm with a focus on helping individuals in transition, and author of Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, Then Leave a Legacy.
    Jennifer brings a fresh perspective on the financial planning process by digging deep to understand her clients’ values and helping them use money as a tool to accomplish their dreams.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Jennifer joins Katherine to share the personal experience that inspired her idea for a family love letter in the financial planning process.
    Jennifer explains why financial anxiety is such a common issue in the divorce process and challenges us to see money as a tool to reach our goals—not the goal itself.
    Listen in to understand how Jennifer supports the ‘non-moneyed’ spouse in settlement negotiations and learn how Squeeze the Juice can help you make informed financial decisions in divorce.
    Topics Covered
    Why Jennifer includes writing a family love letter in the financial planning process
    Thinking of money as a tool to accomplish our dreams vs. the goal itself
    What drove Jennifer’s father to communicate his values in a kind of family love letter
    Why anxiety around money is such a common issue in the divorce process
    How Jennifer helps the non-moneyed spouse in a divorce make financial decisions
    The danger in rushing through divorce negotiations because you want it to be done
    What experiences inspired Jennifer to write her book, Squeeze the Juice
    How your money story impacts the way you navigate financial decisions
    The 2 most important chapters in Squeeze the Juice for people going through divorce
    What it means to be the non-moneyed spouse in divorce (and what it doesn’t mean)
    Why there’s a power imbalance in divorce negotiations for the non-moneyed spouse
    Connect with Jennifer Lee
    Modern Wealth: https://modern-wealth.com/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Squeeze the Juice by Jennifer Lee: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/
    27 min
  • The Impact of Domestic Abuse in Divorce—with Beverly Price
    Asking your partner for a divorce is challenging under any circumstances. But the conversation can be downright dangerous if you’re leaving an abusive spouse.
    In fact, upwards of 70% of women who leave an abusive spouse are murdered.
    So, what resources are available to victims of intimate partner violence? How do you mitigate the risks associated with divorcing an abuser?
    Beverly Price is the driving force behind Her Empowered Divorce, a coaching practice that has supported thousands of women facing the most challenging aspects of divorce.
    Beverly is also the visionary behind the Divorce Coalition, a network of divorce professionals and survivor advocates united to transform the landscape of domestic abuse.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Beverly joins Katherine to explore the impact of domestic abuse in divorce and explain why you shouldn’t leave an abuser without a safety plan.
    Beverly discusses the benefit of having a divorce coach, describing how she offers clients education and preparation around the process to reduce their anxiety.
    Listen in for Beverly’s insight into the many forms of abuse and learn how survivors of domestic partner violence can work through the divorce process safely and with adequate support.
    Topics Covered
    The benefit of divorce coaching that goes beyond emotional management
    How education and preparation for divorce reduces the anxiety associated with the process
    Why Beverly suggests hiring an attorney, financial professional and divorce coach
    How Beverly’s personal experiences inform her work as a divorce coach
    Divorce Coalition’s work to improve abuse survivors’ experiences in the court process
    The many forms of domestic abuse, i.e.: physical, financial, sexual, legal, emotional, etc.
    Why you shouldn’t leave an abuser until you have support and a safety plan
    How Beverly coaches people through the conversation of asking for a divorce
    The statistics re: the number of men and women who experience intimate partner violence
    Beverly’s advice on documenting abuse to prepare for divorce litigation
    Connect with Beverly Price
    Her Empowered Divorce: https://herempowereddivorce.com/
    Her Empowered Divorce Podcast: https://herempowereddivorce.com/podcast
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/
    28 min
  • Navigating Stress in Your Relationship—with Judy Herman
    Is your relationship causing you a great deal of stress? Do you suspect that your partner has a diagnosable mental illness?
    In such a challenging situation, it’s human nature to blame the other person in the relationship. To label their behavior as wrong and ask, ‘Why won’t they change?’
    But if their mental health is in question, they may not be able to change. And the better question is, ‘What is YOUR next right step?’
    Judy Herman is a mental health professional and relationship wellness advocate dedicated to equipping high-achieving women in the helping professions go from trauma drama into vibrant karma.
    Judy is also the host of Better Relationships, Better Life: The Podcast and author of Beyond Messy Relationships and Relationships with Purpose.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Judy joins Katherine to explain how her personal experience as a twice-divorced relationship therapist inspired her to write Relationships with Purpose.
    Judy discusses what differentiates someone with self-centered characteristics from a diagnosable narcissist and shares questions to ask yourself if you’re married to someone with mental illness.
    Listen in for Judy’s insight on shifting your attitude toward your partner from judgement to curiosity and learn strategies for staying grounded during challenging interactions in any relationship.
    Topics Covered
    How Judy’s own challenging relationships inspired her to write her first book
    The identity crisis Judy faced as a twice-divorced relationship therapist
    What differentiates someone with self-centered characteristics from a diagnosable narcissist
    What questions to ask yourself if you’re married to someone with mental illness
    How to shift your attitude toward your partner from judgement to curiosity
    Judy’s strategies for staying grounded in challenging interactions with your partner
    Why Judy suggests getting professional help if you’re feeling shame around your relationship
    Judy’s deep breathing exercises for navigating intense interpersonal situations
    Connect with Judy Herman
    Judy’s Website: https://www.judycounselor.com/
    Better Relationships, Better Life: The Podcast: https://www.judycounselor.com/podcast/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    Beyond Messy Relationships by Judy K. Herman: https://www.judycounselor.com/product/premier-author-signed-single-book/
    Relationships with Purpose by Judy K. Herman: https://www.judycounselor.com/relationships-with-purpose/
    Brene Brown: https://brenebrown.com/
    My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward by Mark Lukach: https://www.marklukach.com/book
    Judy’s Relationship Stress Quiz: https://www.judycounselor.com/
    Judy’s From Chaos to Calm Online Course: https://www.judycounselor.com/jumpstart-emotionally-safe-conversations/
    26 min
  • Holistic Financial Planning in Divorce—with Adrienne Grace
    If you aren’t fully informed about your finances in marriage, you can’t negotiate from a level playing field in divorce.
    That’s why Adrienne Grace is committed to helping women with what she calls holistic financial planning.
    So, what is holistic financial planning? How can it help you negotiate a realistic divorce settlement and build a plan for the future?
    Adrienne is the Women’s Wealth Advocate and Holistic Financial Planner behind Transitioning Finances, a platform where she guides women and couples to successfully negotiate divorce settlements, survive financial transitions and rebuild afterward.
    Adrienne has 30-plus years of experience working in every area of the financial world, and she is passionate about helping you overcome your financial challenges and move empowered into the next phase of your life.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Adrienne joins Katherine to discuss why the inability to communicate about money is often the cause of divorce.
    Adrienne explains how she helps people understand the relative value of their assets and empowers them with the confidence to negotiate a divorce settlement.
    Listen in for Adrienne’s advice on ‘talking to your honey about money’ early in the relationship and learn how to design a holistic spending and savings plan to ensure your financial security in divorce.
    Topics Covered
    The personal experiences that led to Adrienne’s work helping people through transitions
    How Adrienne defines holistic financial planning as looking at money as it relates to your life
    Why the inability to communicate about money is often the cause of divorce
    Adrienne’s advice around talking to your honey about money before you get married
    Why Adrienne suggests setting aside private time to talk with your partner about money
    How women who are not fully informed about their finances struggle to negotiate a divorce settlement
    How Adrienne helps people understand the relative value of their assets
    Why it’s crucial to design a spending + savings plan with a realist view of what it costs to live
    How Adrienne empowers people with the confidence to negotiate their divorce settlement
    Adrienne’s experiences helping people find hidden assets in the divorce process
    Connect with Adrienne Grace
    Transitioning Finances: https://adriennegrace.com/
    Adrienne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenswealthadvocate/
    Adrienne on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adrienne-rothstein-grace-cdfa/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    From We to Me: A Financial Guide to Divorce by Adrienne Grace: https://adriennegrace.com/adriennes-books/
    I’m Divorced. Now What? by Adrienne Grace: https://www.amazon.com/Im-Divorced-Now-What-Guide/dp/B0C6W6HX5Y
    Adrienne’s Blog on Talking to Your Honey About Money: https://adriennegrace.com/remarriage-living-together-second-time-around/
    Adrienne’s Divorce Academy Online Course:https://adriennegrace.com/classes_and_courses/
    24 min
  • Expert Answers to Your Tax Questions in Divorce—with Hubert Johnson
    What do you need to know about filing your taxes during or after divorce?
    Are asset transfers taxable? What about alimony and child support? Who claims the children?
    And what if your ex mishandled the finances and there’s tax debt you knew nothing about?
    Tax Attorney Hubert Johnson is Founder of Guardian Tax Law, where he has assisted thousands of individuals and businesses dealing with IRS and state tax issues.
    Hubert lectures to tax professionals in seminars and training sessions across the country and has cowritten two books on tax debt resolution.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Hubert joins Katherine to answer your questions around tax issues in divorce, explaining where to go for tax information if your soon-to-be-ex handled the finances.
    Hubert walks us through the pros and cons of delaying divorce to file taxes jointly and discusses when asset transfers are a taxable event—and when they’re not.
    Listen in for Hubert’s insight on the tax rules around alimony and child support and learn where to go for help settling tax debt in the aftermath of divorce.
    Topics Covered
    The pros and cons of delaying divorce to file your taxes jointly
    Where to go for tax information if your ex-spouse handled the finances
    How to qualify as an ‘innocent spouse’ if your partner fails to pay taxes
    Why the IRS pursues both parties equally for tax debt (filing jointly)
    When asset transfers are a taxable event and when they’re not
    How to avoid capital gains on the sale of an asset in divorce
    When the IRS respects a marital settlement agreement
    Who should consider applying for ‘offer in compromise’ with the IRS
    The state and federal tax rules re: alimony and child support
    What to do if your ex claims the children on their taxes but shouldn’t
    Connect with Hubert Johnson
    Guardian Tax Law: https://guardiantaxlaw.com/
    Guardian on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@guardiantaxlaw
    Guardian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/guardian-tax-law/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    Resources
    IRS.gov
    30 min
  • The Missing Professional from a Divorce Litigation Team With Julie Rountree
    Julie Rountree began her career as a divorce attorney. And she quickly realized that clients expected her to be both their legal advocate and counselor.
    But it was very difficult to wear both hats.
    Julie recognized that her clients needed someone to help them navigate the emotions of divorce.
    That’s when she stumbled on divorce coaching and thought, ‘This is professional who’s been missing from the divorce litigation team.’
    Today, Julie is the Certified Divorce Coach behind Divorce Coaching Solutions, a practice that helps clients navigate the frustration of divorce, grow their confidence, and transition into life beyond divorce.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Julie joins Katherine to discuss her role in helping people work through their emotions, articulate their goals, and manage expectations around divorce.
    Julie walks us through what a divorce coach does for their clients, describing how she helps people become and remain the best version of themselves through the process.
    Listen in for Julie’s advice on managing your anger to focus on negotiating a settlement and learn how a family law attorney can benefit from teaming up with a divorce coach.
    Topics Covered
    What inspired Julie’s transition from family law attorney to divorce coach
    Julie’s role in helping clients manage their frustrations and expectations around divorce
    What a divorce coach can do for someone who’s considering divorce or working through the process
    Julie’s goal to help clients remain the best version of themselves through divorce
    Julie’s advice to someone who’s worried about how reentering the workforce will impact alimony
    Why spousal support can be a bitter pill to swallow for the breadwinner of a divorcing couple
    How family law attorneys can benefit from teaming up with a divorce coach
    Managing your anger in divorce to focus on negotiating a settlement
    Connect with Julie Rountree
    Divorce Coaching Solutions:
    https://www.mydivorcecoaches.com/
    Divorce Coaching Solutions on Facebook:
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100078882049039
    Julie on LinkedIn:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-anna-rountree-3967748/
    Connect with Katherine Miller
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    26 min
  • Co-Parenting Without Conflict After Divorce With Jenni Rock
    We all assume that when we get divorced, things are going to get better.
    But when a marriage ends, communication is usually at a low point. And that communication style tends to stick, which causes ongoing conflict in the co-parenting relationship.
    So, what can you do to interrupt that conflict dynamic with your ex? How do you build a constructive, positive co-parenting relationship?
    Jenni Rock is the creator of Co-Parenting Without Conflict, a coaching practice that helps divorced parents exit toxic relationships and communicate in a way that prioritizes the needs of their children.
    Jenni brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the table, helping parents navigate the often-challenging terrain of co-parenting after a divorce.
    On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Jenni joins Katherine to share the story of her own horrific divorce and explain how that experience informs her work in co-parenting conflict resolution.
    Jenni discusses the most common conflicts in co-parenting relationships and describes the consequences of using your children as a bartering tool.
    Listen in for Jenni’s insight on navigating reactive feelings toward your ex and learn the first steps to changing the way you communicate and co-parenting without conflict!
    Topics Covered
    How Jenni’s own horrific divorce informs her work in co-parenting conflict resolution
    Why divorced couples get stuck in the communication style at play when the marriage ended
    How Jenni helps people interrupt their conflict dynamic with an ex-spouse
    What differentiates a toxic relationship from a difficult moment in a relationship
    Blaming your partner vs. taking responsibility for what’s not working in your relationship
    Jenni’s insight on the most common conflicts in co-parenting relationships
    The consequences of using your children as a bartering tool in the divorce process
    What to consider before you hit SEND on a text or email to your ex-spouse
    Jenni’s advice on what to do with reactive feelings you’re tempted to fire at your ex
    How to set up a constructive, positive co-parenting relationship with your ex-spouse
    Connect with Jenni Rock
    Co-Parenting Without Conflict:
    https://coparentingwithoutconflict.com/home
    The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/
    Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/
    Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1
    The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246
    Call (914) 738-7765
    28 min

About Divorce Dialogues

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Divorce Dialogues helps people navigate divorce with dignity, clarity, and perspective. Through thoughtful conversations with experts and practitioners, the show explores the emotional, financial, legal, and relational realities of divorce, so listeners can make better decisions, communicate more effectively, and move forward with greater confidence.