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Continuing their series about procrastination, Leh and Todd discuss how procrastination can hurt your child support and alimony case and what you can do about it. If you are looking to help your support case, you will want to listen to this show. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd are excited to have author Bill Eddy back on the show to discuss his new book, BIFF for CoParent Communication. At the time of recording the show, it was number 1 on Amazon under "Divorce & Separation Family Law." Check it out by clicking here: BIFF for CoParent Communication. There are some people that are simply high conflict personalities. They are difficult to deal with and can make your co-parenting life a living hell, especially when you do not know how to communicate with them. Apart from being an author and speaker, Bill Eddy is a lawyer, counselor, and mediator. He started the High Conflict Institute and has written and co-authored sixteen books as of 2020. In his informative and practical new book, he gives you practical advice on how to handle a high conflict co-parent and what you can do to improve your communication with that person. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd talk about what you should NOT do during the various parts of the divorce process, give specifics on how a lack of preparation can crush you, and discuss what you should be doing to make sure you are prepared as it relates to a fair division of assets. Who does this apply to? Everyone! Someone with a large marital estate can be harmed more, but when you scale the harm considering income, it can impact everyone the same. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd give examples of what happens when you miss legal deadlines or you do not take action on certain legal issues. They discuss when the failure is fatal to the case, and when you might be able to do something about it. The examples we tackle include: If I missed a Court Hearing, can I file an appeal because I can barely see my daughter? My Marriage application was voided by the Probate Court because I did not file the proper steps, does that mean that I don't have to file for divorce because the marriage is not valid? When we got married, it turns out that my husband's divorce was not final. Does that mean we have to get remarried? I was separated from my deceased husband for years, but he died recently. We never bothered to get a divorce. No I want to get remarried but I can't get a marriage license because the Court keeps saying I still married. My former mother-in-law put on the death certificate that he had been divorced.; What happens if my rights were terminated and I want them reinstated?; and a few more! If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd discuss how the stress of a divorce or custody battle can really hurt communication between co-parents. In order to help, they used Dr. David Berlo's basic communication model, SMCR, as a framework to break down the 4 basic elements of good communication. They talked about the different ways that parents can work on improving their communication to help reduce the tension in their divorce and hopefully reduce the costs of their litigation as well. They offer simple suggestions that can go a long way in making sure you don't say something that launches World War 3 with your children caught in the middle of the battle. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.

As a follow up to episode 191, Leh and Todd take a deep dive into the impact of procrastination on child custody cases. They go through each phase of a case involving a contested custody matter, break down the negative impact of procrastination and discuss how not to procrastinate. The aspects of the case they walk through include:

• Guardian ad Litem & Custody Evaluation
• Mediation
• Temporary Hearing
• Final Hearing

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In this show, Leh and Todd break down how procrastination can really hurt a valid cause of action. Sometimes the delay has a negative legal impact. Other times it has an adverse practical impact that can be just as bad. They discuss what happens when you delay bringing a variety of actions, including divorce, legitimation, modifications, child support, and contempt. If you want to learn more about Leh and Todd, you can visit www.mtlawoffice.com If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd discuss 10 Resolutions that the recently divorced should make to improve the quality of their lives and their children. These 10 things will make sure that you move forward in your life on the best possible foot from a personal, mental, physical, and financial standpoint. The 10 things they discuss include: 1) Stop fighting battles from a dead marriage.

2) Find a good counselor

3) Forgive Your Spouse

4) Forgive Yourself

6) Update your will, trusts, insurance policies, and estate plans (if any).

7) Get Your finances in order

8) Hire a good financial planner.

9) Develop a regular exercise program to banish depression.

10) Read at least one book on Co-Parenting and one self-help book.

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Once a quarter, Leh and Todd like to dedicate a show to marriages. From seeing 1000's of failed marriages, they learn many things not to do in marriage as well as things you should do to help build a healthy, happy marriage. In today's show, they pull together 10 new years resolutions to help build a healthy marriage in 2021. They assembled ideas from different counselors, authors, and psychologists and put them into a short list of action items for 2021 to strive for. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd tackle questions about Adultery. The questions they answer include:

• Do I have to answer all questions if I am being deposed as a mistress?
• Can I sue my ex for cheating while we were married Or get better child support ?
• Can I sue the man, my wife is cheating on me with. How much a stay at home mom should get from her ex husband that earns 6 figure salary and owns properties?
• How can I apply for alimony pendente lite in GA?

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