Doing Relationships Right

Is texting another person when you're in a relationship cheating?

In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses whether texting someone while in a relationship is considered cheating. She believes that if you are doing something you can't share with your partner, it is cheating. She shares her experience texting her ex and how it started to feel wrong. Jennifer also talks about poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it. She provides examples of when texting can be considered emotional cheating and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and communication in relationships.

Takeaways

• Texting someone while in a relationship can be considered cheating if it is something you can't share with your partner.
• Poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it, is a common issue in relationships.
• Examples of emotional cheating through texting include skipping time with your partner to text someone else, sending risque or nude selfies, sexting, sharing intimate information about yourself that your partner doesn't know, and speaking ill of your partner to someone else.
• Setting boundaries and communicating early on in a relationship is important to avoid misunderstandings and emotional cheating.
• If you are falling out of love with your partner, it is important to have open and honest conversations rather than seek emotional connections with others through texting.

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"Acknowledge and notice the times when you didn't listen to your intuition and learn from those experiences." ~ Colby Rebel

Colby Rebel is an award-winning International Celebrity Psychic Medium, best-selling author, and host of the acclaimed Colby Rebel Show podcast. Her unmatched accuracy and precise guidance have made her the go-to confidante of Hollywood's elite, serving a roster of celebrity and influencer clients. Colby's unique no-tools approach emphasizes her authenticity and natural gifts and has made her one of the most sought-after psychic mediums of our time. In 2022, she was awarded the distinguished title of Best Psychic of Los Angeles.

In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Colby Rebel, an award-winning psychic medium. They discuss intuition, trusting oneself, forgiveness, and fearing death. Colby shares insights on how to trust your intuition, including surrendering to the universe and practicing breathwork. She also emphasizes the importance of forgiveness for personal healing and growth. Colby provides practical tools such as the use of salt baths and the practice of clearing negative energy. The conversation concludes with Colby encouraging listeners to take proactive actions while surrendering to the universe for guidance.

Takeaways

• Trust your intuition by surrendering to the universe and practicing breathwork.

• Forgiveness is vital for personal healing and growth.

• Clear negative energy through salt baths, exercise, and practicing gratitude.

• Focus on the present moment and what brings you joy and balance.

• Take proactive actions while surrendering to the universe for guidance.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Colby Rebel's Background

03:32 Trusting Your Intuition and Surrendering to the Universe

06:08 The Power of Forgiveness for Personal Healing

09:38 Clearing Negative Energy for Emotional Well-being

13:36 Living in the Present Moment and Finding Joy

18:30 Taking Proactive Actions while Surrendering to the Universe

27:19 Colby Rebel's Services and Contact Information

FIND COLBY HERE: https://colbyrebel.com/

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In this episode, host Jennifer Hurvitz interviews private investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant about infidelity and cheating in relationships. They discuss the prevalence of cheating, the role of social media in infidelity, and the different types of cheating. The private investigators also share their stories of getting into the business and explain the process of hiring a PI. They emphasize the importance of trust and communication in relationships and offer advice for those who suspect their partner is cheating.

In this conversation, Bari Kroll and Jen Rosant discuss the signs of infidelity and the role of technology in relationships. They emphasize the importance of trust, communication, and the need to listen to intuition. They also share tips for investigating suspicions of cheating, such as checking phone bills and receipts. The conversation highlights the impact of past experiences and trauma on relationships and the importance of therapy in moving forward. Bari and Jen also mention their podcast, 'Private Eyes,' where they answer questions and provide insights into relationship issues.

Take Aways!

• Cheating in relationships is more prevalent than we realize, and it can be emotionally damaging.
• Social media has made it easier for people to reconnect with past partners and engage in emotional or physical infidelity.
• Hiring a private investigator can provide evidence of infidelity, but it's important to be prepared for the truth and consider the impact it may have on the relationship.
• Rebuilding trust and communication are crucial for repairing a relationship after infidelity.
• Setting boundaries and having open conversations about expectations and fidelity in a relationship is important.
• Trust and communication are essential.
• Listening to your intuition is important when suspecting infidelity.
• Investigating suspicions of cheating can involve checking phone bills and receipts.
• Past experiences and trauma can impact trust in relationships.
• Therapy can help move forward and build healthy relationships.

Find Bari and Jen at:

https://www.instagram.com/blaureninvestigations/

https://www.blaureninvestigations.com/

https://www.facebook.com/BLaurenInvestigations/

PRIVATE EYES THE PODCAST: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/private-eyes/id1760237093

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In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz shares the best relationship advice she has ever heard and uses when coaching. She emphasizes the importance of saying goodbye and hello to your loved ones, learning how to communicate effectively, understanding attachment styles and love languages, and watching your tone. She also discusses the benefits of sharing household and child-rearing duties, finding levity in the relationship, taking turns in emotional support, prioritizing mental and physical health, picking your battles, owning your mistakes, staying calm during arguments, and never stopping dating your partner.

Takeaways

• Always say goodbye and hello to your loved ones.
• Learn how to communicate effectively and seek help if needed.
• Understand your attachment style and your partner's.
• Be aware of your love language and your partner's.
• Watch your tone and avoid belittling or emasculating your partner.
• Share household and child-rearing duties to increase happiness in the relationship.
• Find levity and laughter in your relationship.
• Take turns in providing emotional support.
• Prioritize your mental and physical health.
• Continue dating your partner and prioritize quality time together.

Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!

xo j

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In this episode of Doing Relationships Right, we dive deep into sober dating.

Whether you're newly sober or have been sober for years, dating can present unique challenges and opportunities. I'm thrilled to have my guest, Holly Walsh, a Positive Psychology and Alcohol-Free Coach. Holly is a positive psychology and alcohol-free coach and will host wellness retreats starting in 2025. She has been sober for almost one year and will be launching a sober dating app so that people can go on dates without alcohol! She is also training to become a yoga teacher and is on an exciting path of self-development that happened when she stopped drinking in 2023.

Join us as we explore tips, share personal stories, and offer insights on how to build meaningful connections without the influence of alcohol.

• Understanding Sober Dating

• What does sober dating mean, and why is it important?

• The benefits of dating without alcohol.

• Challenges of Sober Dating

• Common hurdles faced by those in recovery.

• Navigating social situations and peer pressure.

• Building Confidence

- Tips for boosting self-esteem while dating sober.

- How do you communicate your sober lifestyle to potential partners?

• Fun Sober Date Ideas

- Creative and engaging activities for sober dates.

- How to make the most of your time together without alcohol.

• Personal Stories

- Holly shares her experiences with sober dating.

- Success stories and lessons learned along the way.

• Resources and Support

- Recommended books, online communities, and apps for sober dating.

- How to find support in your sober journey.

Join us next week as we continue discussing healthy relationships and doing dating right! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find Doing Relationships Right!

Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!

xo j

Find Holly here: hellohollycoaching.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-walsh-3571a621/

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Jennifer Hurvitz returns with a new season of Doing Relationships Right!

She's got BIG NEWS to share!

She briefly updates her life and introduces her new gig as a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today. Jennifer also mentions her courses and offers an Ask Me Anything session for those seeking dating advice. She encourages listeners to follow her on YouTube and Instagram. Jennifer is excited to be back and looks forward to connecting with her audience.

Takeaways

• Jennifer Hurvitz is back with a new season of Doing Relationships Right

• She is a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today

• Jennifer offers courses and an Ask Me Anything session for dating advice

• Listeners are encouraged to follow her on YouTube and Instagram

Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!

xo j

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If you don't already know, your attachment style, which is basically how you relate to others in your close relationships, falls into one of four categories: secure, anxious, avoidant (sometimes known as dismissive-avoidant), and disorganized (also known as fearful-avoidant).

Today, we'll focus on romantic relationships with someone with an avoidant attachment style — a discomfort with emotional closeness, a deep need for independence, and a reluctance to rely on others. Having a relationship with someone with this attachment style has some unique challenges.

Thank you, Jim Healey, for being so honest and open!

Happy Dating!

xo j

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Are you finding the guy but need help to get past the three-month mark?

Does online dating seem frightening and way too time-consuming?

Give this episode of the Doing Relationships Right podcast a listen to learn about the dating mistakes you might be making and how to fix them!

Dating isn't easy. I've experienced divorce, dated, and been in numerous relationships - some good, some not so good. I've lived it, so I understand!

Dating can be challenging, but it can also be amazing! 🖤💕😎

This is why I've made a career helping people do it!

Check out jenniferhurvitz.com for all the latest dating tips and relationship advice; grab my books and take my online dating courses! I'm here for you.

Happy Dating!

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We're back and better than ever- after our one year breakup, that is!

Today's episode features my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey, my best friend and partner for the last eight years.

We will delve into our entire story, including what's beyond the pages of my book, Midlife Priceless, and leave no topic untouched. In this episode, we're plunging into a subject many of you have been asking about navigating the path of rekindling a relationship with your ex the right way!

It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. We're excited to share this with you!

xo j

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In this episode, we delve deep into gaslighting in relationships. We discuss what gaslighting is, its signs and symptoms, the psychological impact on victims, and ways to address and overcome it. Jennifer shares her personal experiences with gaslighting and how she found herself in these situations repeatedly, even in her role as a coach.

Jennifer will discuss:

- Definition and origins of the term "gaslighting."

- Historical context and examples.

Identifying Gaslighting

- Common tactics used by gaslighters.

- Signs and symptoms of being gaslighted.

- Real-life examples and scenarios.

Impact of Gaslighting

- Short-term and long-term effects on mental health.

- How gaslighting undermines self-esteem and self-trust.

- The cycle of abuse and why it's hard to break free.

Handling Gaslighting in Relationships

- Strategies for recognizing and acknowledging gaslighting.

- Communication techniques to address the behavior.

- When and how to seek professional help.

Recovery and Healing

- Steps to rebuild self-esteem and regain confidence.

- Support systems and resources for survivors.

- The importance of self-care and self-compassion.

Jennifer's Expert Advice

- How to prevent gaslighting in relationships.

- Red flags to watch for in new relationships.

- How to support a loved one who might be experiencing gaslighting.

Please remember to take good care of your mental health and seek help if you're experiencing gaslighting. You're not alone.

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