Doing Relationships Right

Let's go back in time to 2020 when I had my friend and colleague SADIE MARIE, host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy Podcast, on the show!

After her divorce, Sadie has realized the importance of being determined, self-loving, and fierce. She now prioritizes being resilient and relentless in her pursuit of happiness for herself and her loved ones. Through her podcast, Sadie hopes to share her thoughts and gain insights from both her guests and listeners.

Here are the main points Sadie has learned about post-divorce:

• Authenticity is more valuable than perfection.
• Your mindset affects both your emotional and physical well-being.
• Having faith in what's possible is just as important as being fully engaged in the present moment.

LIsten to Sadie's Divorced and Happy Podcast here: https://www.divorcedandhappy.net/podcast

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Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.

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ITS A FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES ON DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT PODCAST! Let's go back to the archives to 2022 and listen to one of my Favorite Just Jen episodes, kay?

Dating has changed since I was in my 20's! Evolved, maybe? There are some "rules" y'all just need to forget; myths about dating that are total nonsense! No worries, I've got you! Today on Doing Relationships Right!

Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

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It's a FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES TODAY ON DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT!

Are you tired of searching for love in all the wrong places or at the wrong time? Let clinical psychologist, Dr. Tari Mack, guide you in finding your ideal partner and steering clear of toxic relationships. Tari Mack, Ph.D., has been featured on CBS and Cosmopolitan magazine. She has also worked with high-profile clients, assisting them in enhancing their lives and relationships.

Meet Dr. Tari - a renowned speaker, author, coach, and clinical psychologist specializing in relationships. Her expertise has helped countless individuals across the U.S. as she shares her knowledge via radio programs, podcasts, and blogs. Dr. Tari believes relationships are essential to our lives, yet we need more education on cultivating them in school, professional life, or home. During her talks, she provides audiences with valuable tools to build successful and meaningful relationships, empowering them to transform themselves and their lives. Grab a copy of her book: Every Relationship Is A Test: Master Your Love Lessons and Finally Get The Love You Deserve: https://www.amazon.com/Every-Relationship-Test-Lessons-Finally/dp/1796750077 Reach out to Dr. Tari at: Website: https://www.drtarimack.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/thepathofjoy/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/drtarimack/

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It's a FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES with the fantastic Micheal Kaye from OkCupid!

Meet Michael Kaye, the Head of Global Communications at OkCupid and the newly appointed marketing communications lead for ARCHER, a dating app for queer men. With his extensive experience, Michael has valuable insights on how to become the best online dater possible. In addition to his professional work, Michael also teaches Communications at NYU and serves on the Board of Governors for the Human Rights Campaign.

Like me, Michael has made a career by helping people find success in relationships; it's our jam. We dive into the secrets to the best profile, cuffing season, the hookup culture change, and much more!

"Ask your friends for help with your dating profile. Those people know you best." ~Michael Kaye

In today's discussion, we will cover the proper etiquette for online dating, including what to do and what to avoid. We will also provide tips on how to initiate a successful first conversation online and move it offline just in time for the cuffing season (we will reveal the start date during the episode!). Michael will share his expert advice on how to maximize your online dating experience.

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

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Thank you, Rob Roseman, from WTF DIVORCE, for the inspo for this episode!

It's a FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES with a great Just Jen episode inspired by a question I got from a follower off of Rob Roseman's INCREDIBLE community, WTF DIVORCE!

Let me explain!

Of course, your divorce was the most challenging break-up EVER- but if you think your first RELATIONSHIP post-divorce breakup is any easier, guess again! Some might say it's even more complex.

Listen to today's Just Jen episode and hear me out! Then share your thoughts on my private FB Page!

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SHOULD YOU STAY OR SHOULD YOU GO?

Is divorce truly the right next step for your relationship?

While I'm not doing any more NEW episodes, I am picking MY FAVORITES from the last FIVE YEARS! It's FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES and I love this conversation with one of my dear friends and colleagues, Certified Divorce & Relationship Decision Coach-- Cindy Stibbard! @divorceredefined

I related to this topic so much; when I wrote my second book, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married, I got so much push-back from the divorce community questioning my stance on divorce. Was I pro-divorce or pro-marriage? Truth is- I am PRO-HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP no matter what that looks like, which is why I am such a HUGE fan of Cindy Stibbard's and what she has created for those struggling to make the RIGHT decision.

Leaving your marriage is never easy, especially when kids are involved.

Is ending your marriage RIGHT for you? And if it is, how can you do it confidently and with the wisdom you'll need to get through it? Cindy is a ROCKSTAR and has built tools and workshops guaranteed to make whichever path you choose easier; knowledge is power, and a plan is necessary.

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Listen to Doing Relationships Right as we unpack this and much more.

Where to Find Cindy:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceredefined/

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Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

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It's a FLASHBACK TO MY FAVES with Bestselling Author, Podcast Host and Co-Parenting Coach my friend-- Michelle Dempsey- Multack!

We're revisiting some of the best episodes from my Fall 2022 Season until I decide what to do with DRR!

If you missed it the first time, don't worry - today is your lucky day! Thank you, Michelle, for being one of my most popular episodes and a personal favorite.

Michelle is on a mission to help Moms move on after a divorce, navigate high-conflict co-parenting situations and normalize leaving ANY marriage for any reason you see fit! No more "divorce guilt" or shame for doing what feels right.

I love this and Michelle's "no bullshit" approach to all of it.

Thank you, Michelle, for joining me today on Doing Relationships Right pod to dish the dirt on divorce- dating post-divorce, finding love again, surviving, and thriving. This episode was one of my favorite conversations and a fantastic way to close a great season!

Just two divorced Mommas- shooting the shit about our life's experiences and how to Do Divorce Right. ;)

Michelle Dempsey-Multack, MS, CDS, is a mom, Divorce Coach, certified divorce specialist(CDS), speaker, and now the author of her first book, Moms Moving On: Real Life Advice for Conquering Divorce, Co-Parenting Through Conflict, and Becoming Your Best Self. Michelle graduated from Hofstra University with a degree in journalism and communication and then earned a double master's degree in education from Adelphi University. She hosts Moms Moving On's weekly podcast and writes regularly for Parents, Scary Mommy, and others. A former New Yorker, she lives in Miami with her husband, daughter, and stepdaughter.

Michelle's Website MOMS MOVING ON

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Let's return to September 2022 when I had MY FAVE BOY CRUSH- Therapy Jeff on the Pod! Take a listen to this incredible episode!

Jeff Guenther, LPC, earned his master's degree in marriage and family therapy from the University of Southern California and his bachelor's degree in child and family development from San Diego State University. His therapeutic career started at a crisis line, where he worked with people suffering from suicidal thoughts and severe anxiety. He's lived in Portland, Oregon, since 2005, and my private practice focuses on couples and individuals. These days, He spends his spare time making one-minute videos for TikTok and Instagram for his 2.1 million followers!

"You can't say the wrong thing to the right person." ~ Therapy Jeff

As Jeff explains in today's episode, "If you think someone you're dating thinks you're insecure or needy, show them that side of you and give them the opportunity to walk away so you can find somebody who will actually meet those needs."

I am overly excited (if you can't tell) to have Jeff on my podcast today. I am a huge fan of his content and can't believe we got to chat. This episode is worth sharing!

Peace, love, and truth,

xo j

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Grab a copy of Jen's latest book, MIDLIFE PRICELESS: A DATING COACH'S GUIDE TO FINALLY DOING RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT! https://www.jenniferhurvitz.com/ordermidlifepriceless

Show notes:

[00:27] Struggling with dating? Check out Weaver Dating! (https://weaverdating.com/)

[02:00] Do you know who Therapy Jeff is?

[03:42] Do you need chemistry when you meet someone?

[04:25] Red, yellow and green flag chemistry.

[08:48] Your type might be based on childhood trauma.

[10:52] Sex on the first date, should it happen?

[13:03] You won't say the wrong thing to the right person.

[15:39] Therapy Jeff helps people break up without meaning to!

[18:31] Sometimes, you keep a relationship to feel chosen.

[22:18] The struggle with dating as "Therapy Jeff"

[26:30] Where to find Therapy Jeff online and what's coming up for him!

Let's go back to 2018 with this episode out of the archives! One of THE MOST DOWNLOADED DRR episodes of all time! Enjoy!

Today, I'm getting REAL about how much divorce sucks. That's right -- sh*t is getting real. It's you and me chatting about being a co-parenting mom and how the grass is not necessarily greener on the other side. I'm talking about what I want you to know as you're thinking about getting a divorce...and what I would tell myself before my Wasbund, and I split. (2018)

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What really is WHOLE self, and why does it matter?

We're ready to learn what it means to have WHOLE self living.

Doing Relationships Right podcast is here every Tuesday with all new guest episodes!

This week we have Lindsay Christianson, MA, LMHC!

Listen to this episode, head over to jenniferhurvitz.com, and subscribe so you don't miss her What's Happenin' Hurvitz monthly newsletter!

Listen to Doing Relationships Right as we unpack this and much more.

Where to Find Lindsay:

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

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