Doing Relationships Right

SEX TIPS & ADVICE BACKED BY RESEARCH...yes, please! My dear friend and colleague Dr. Nicole McNichols, Human Sexuality Professor joins me today for one of my most insightful conversations.

• Fostering positive convos around sex and relationships
• Professor for the largest class in University of Washington history!
• Happily married mom of three

I'm bringing you the BEST of the best on the Doing Relationships Right podcast! It's answering all your burning questions about sex & relationships! Whether you are looking to improve your sexual pleasure, strengthen your relationships or understand the most current, research-backed information about gender identity, sexual orientation, or any other human sexuality-related topic, Dr. Nicole has the answers.

Dr. Nicole received her undergraduate degree from Cornell University in 1997, her Masters's in Psychology at NYU in 2003, and her Ph.D. in Social Psychology from the University of Washington in 2009. In addition to being a professor, Nicole writes bi-weekly for Psychology Today and is a TEDx speaker and frequent contributor to other publications, news sources, and podcasts.

"I have found that to be truly sex-positive, sex education must be empowering. It has to be collaborative, NOT authoritative, to promote trust and a free exchange of ideas." ~Dr. Nicole McNichols

Thank you, Dr. Nicole, for sharing your wisdom and excellent insights with my listeners; such an essential and often misconstrued topic.

Today, we've got the lovely and amazing Miss Marie!

She is a dating and relationship coach for single moms and is passionate about ensuring that single moms understand that dating is possible- even when it might not be easy! Miss Marie focuses on helping single moms navigate the world of love and relationships.

"Dating looks different for single moms; they don't have the same time as other people." ~ Miss Marie

Today's conversation highlights the differences between divorced and single moms. And yes, they are different! And why childhood trauma can cause issues in adult relationships. We dig into dating for single moms and how to set yourself up for success.

Thank you, Miss Marie, for sharing your honest, no-bullshit truth with us.

Peace, love, and truth, xo j

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Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

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Today, we've got the lovely and amazing Stacey Freeman!

She is a divorce "survivor" and mother of three older school-age children and an author. Today, Stacey helps private clients clarify and convey their messages so they may reach their personal and professional goals.

"It's very easy to say things out loud that you wish you didn't." ~ Stacey Freeman.

Today's conversation highlights a story of divorce and finding life again afterward by turning her journey into a career in writing. We also discuss how hard it is to navigate divorce while putting your kids first.

Thank you, Stacey, for joining me and sharing these experiences. I appreciate you an love your book!

Peace, love, and truth, xo j

Find Stacey here

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

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Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours. Just a short clip to wish you a happy thanksgiving and share what I am grateful for this year, including YOU!

Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

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I'm just going to tell it like it is and let you know I just don't understand why men don't want to date women their own age! There are some good-looking women in their 50s, and men continue to date younger. What the heck is up with that? Let's unpack it!

Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

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Today, we've got the incredible Flora Ong.

She is a Dating and Relationship Coach as well an Integrated Attachment Specialist.

Ong is a certified Health and Life Coach, Flora put all her focus on working with men and women, helping them identify their blocks around dating. Her purpose is not only to find them what they want but to make sure they experience inner peace in the process.

"You need to know yourself to be in a relationship." ~ Flora Ong.

Today's conversation highlights the importance of understanding yourself. You need to find THE ONE, and, spoiler alert, that is YOU! We dive into the various attachment styles and how to work with those to have a healthy relationship.

Thank you, Flora, for joining me and sharing your wisdom. I appreciate you; this discussion was requested by my audience, so I'm so excited to share this with them.

Peace, love, and truth, xo j

Find Flora here

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

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Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Dating has changed since I was in my 20's! Evolved, maybe? There are some "rules" y'all just need to forget; myths about dating that are total nonsense! No worries, I've got you! Today on Doing Relationships Right!

Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

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Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Today, we've got the incredible Dr. Joli Hamilton!

She is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is an AASECT-certified sex educator and depth psychologist whose research focuses on creative relationship structures.

Joli has a Ph.D. in Jungian and archetypal psychology and has combined decades of lived experience with three psychology degrees a sexuality certificate, and making jealousy her primary academic research topic. Polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, creative monogamy- Joli flips the script on "normal" and can help guide you into the life you were meant to have!

"We've lost the art of casual dating." ~ Joli Hamilton

Today's conversation highlights why non-monogamous relationships are considered taboo and why they can be successful for many. We also get honest about how jealousy can affect open relationships and why there is so much negativity around non-monogamy.

Thank you, Joli, for joining me and sharing your wisdom. I appreciate you; this discussion was enlightening, insightful, and informative.

Peace, love, and truth, xo j

xo j

Find Joli here

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️

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You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Time Codes:

[00:46] Our guest today, Joli Hamilton

[01:20] What Joli does for couples.

[02:00] Why do we think we can have only one partner?

[03:30] Jealousy

[05:19] The taboo of non-monogamy.

[07:45] Non-monogamy is only a problem if we don't have the right skills.

[09:44] Stop obsessing about other people's past.

[11:44] Everyone has had other partners.

[14:40] Does jealousy come from hiding things?

[15:30] How we can learn to LOVE our budget.

[18:07] Jealousy is not proof someone loves me.

[20:00] What's your history with jealousy?

[21:59] Open up the communication.

[23:00] Why does monogamy make us feel special?

[27:35] What we learn from past relationships?

[29:30] You have enough love for multiple people.

[34:40] The 5 Pillars for relationships.

[39:00] How do you help people?

Some of the worst advice I've gotten in my dating journey has been from married people, and we're digging into it and the other details about Midlife Priceless, my new book!

Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much, much more.

Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️

TikTok: CLICK HERE!

Pinterest: click here!

You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Today, we've got the incredible Britt Williams Baker. She is a Harvard Business School graduate, an expert investor with 10+ years of experience, and a money mindset coach. She is on a mission to serve those who have traditionally been left out of the financial world. And she does so by bringing a step-by-step approach to saving and investing.

Britt has paved the way for women to understand the whole world of finance, break taboos, and bring support and accountability to the money journey, no matter your age or stage!

"Everyone has a money persona." ~ Britt Williams Baker

Today's conversation highlights losing the guilt around your budget and spending, unlearning the scarcity mindset, and finding the ability to LOVE your budget.

Thank you, Britt, for joining me and sharing your insight.

I appreciate you; this conversation has so much excellent advice.

Peace, love, and truth,

xo j

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Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️

TikTok: CLICK HERE!

Pinterest: click here!

You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at https://yourpodcastva.weebly.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Time Codes:

[01:50] Our guest today, Britt Williams Baker!

[02:20] What Britt does

[03:00] Our Britt got on the path to finance.

[05:23] Why don't we talk about money?

[06:35] Why parents don't teach their kids finance.

[08:18] Dow Janes and The Million Dollar Year

[09:33] How to shift our money persona.

[11:32] Is it too late to get a handle on your finances at 40?

[14:27] Taking care of your money is the highest form of self-care.

[15:30] How we can learn to LOVE our budget.

[18:00] Your worth is not tied to your money.

[20:23] Things CAN change for your finances.

[23:00] Unsubscribe from your shopping weaknesses.

[25:26] How can people join "The million dollar year"?