Dr. Nicolya Show

Dr. Nicolya Show

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Dr. Nicolya Show episodes

  • Bonus Episode: 4 Reasons You Should Write a Book

    In the United States alone, over 200 million people dream of writing a book. Yet, the number of writers who go on to actually finish their manuscript is estimated to be just 3% Of those, only 20% will go on to become published.  Of course, everyone won't write a book. They'll come up with plenty of good excuses for why they shouldn’t , they will let writers block take over but if it’s been on your heart to write a book I am here to challenge you to follow your intuition.  I am a firm believer that what is desired by you is available for you. 

    What’s on your heart isn’t in vain- it’s a safe form of guidance showing you that you’re called to more. So today, I want to share 4 reasons you should follow your heart and write that book  To leave a legacy - To have a greater impact - you only die if you are forgotten Your story matters To make more money  It’s therapeutic - it helps you process and strengthen your resilience  

    If you are finally ready to birth your book baby you’re in the right place. I have just a thing for you. In my complimentary training called write your book in 30 days I walk you through the exact steps that I took to become a best-selling author X 11. Join us here: https://www.nicolyawilliams.com/writeyourbookin30daysnow

    9 min
  • 118: The Difference Between Coaching And Counseling
    I know the value of support not only from me being able to give it to other people, but also from my own experiences. I have had counselors in the past. I've had coaches in the past, and I've had things that haven't worked, and I've had things that have worked. But for the most part, my support has allowed me to achieve the success that I truly desire, and to some extent some of the things that I got out of it. I'm not sure that I would have been able to get on my own. So today I want to talk about the difference between coaching and counseling.
    The truth is, the two can overlap in some ways, but there are some differences as well. The first thing is financial differences with coaching. A coach can determine their prices, and it's not covered under medical insurance, whereas counseling, sometimes you may be paying out of pocket. Sometimes your insurance may cover it. I went to see a Christian counselor once who was 100% out of pocket.
    But I've also known of counselors that bill medical insurance, and so counseling can be either. The other difference is credentials. So as counselors, you have to be licensed through your state, you also have had to go to college and get a degree to counsel or give therapy. Whereas coaches, there is no requirement to be certified as a coach as of yet (https://www.nicolyawilliams.com/blog/2021/04/how-to-pick-the-right-certification-program?rq=certification) . Now, the International Coach Federation does certify people, but not everyone is certified. And let me say that everyone who is certified is not always qualified.
    Technically, anyone can call themselves a coach if they'd like to label themselves with that. It's why it's so important to really understand what kind of coach you're looking for and what credentials they have, what experience they have, what their history is, what their clients are saying and their testimonials and their success stories. I know that sounds crazy that anyone could call themselves a coach, but the truth is, there are some people that are extremely qualified based on their own experiences and their own life, as well as working with other people.
    There's a lot of similarities and there's a lot of differences with coaching and with counseling. For me personally I worked as counselor for years and so the transition into coaching was really exciting for me. In addition I have experienced both from a consumer side. I have had counselors and I have worked with many coaches. Because of my experience in working in both arenas and being a client in both I know that there are pros and cons to each. My goal is to help to make you aware and informed so that you're making an informed decision about the kind of support that you need on your journey.
    The best way to start this is to identify what you're really looking for in regards to support. Are you looking for someone to be in the trenches with you? Are you looking for someone to hold you accountable? Are you looking for someone just to listen to you? What are you looking for?
    In summary, Both therapists and properly trained coaches can help individuals who want to make changes in their lives. When you identify that, then you can start to see where you're going to get the best support. You can start to see where you're going to struggle, where you'll need support, and most importantly, where you'll get the best support. Again, the point is not to choose for you. The point is to arm you with information so that you can start taking steps to get the support that you need.
    If you have any more questions, feel free to comment below and let me know.
    20 min
  • 117: How To Stop Trading Time For Money
    A traditional business model for coaches and solopreneurs is to charge hourly for their coaching sessions. We’re all trained to think that way, from the time we get our first jobs as teens at a fast food joint and it’s an easy mentality to carry with us through adulthood.
    But if you hold onto that pattern, you’ll soon realize that you’ve created a finite ceiling to how much you can make as there are only so many hours in each day. And realistically, you won’t be coaching for 10 straight hours; you’ll need breaks in between and prep time for each client. So, instead of relying solely on individual coaching clients, it’s time to look at alternate streams of income that can supplement your coaching income.
    1. Create group coaching programs
    2. Create a signature product
    3. Create low and mid-priced products
    4. Publish a book
    5. Embrace affiliate marketing
    Each of these tips can assist in getting you out of that “dollars for hours” mentality but you don’t have to delve into all of them at the same time. Take them one at a time, especially the affiliate marketing because that will require some product research. Finally, take note of the ones that bring in the most revenue so you can narrow your focus on what works with your audience.
    If you're looking for support with creating income from your passion and you would love to see how we can lock arms and make it happen sign up for a FREE discovery call here: Calendly.com/nicolyawilliams
    12 min
  • 116: How to detach from the outcome

    When we are going after goals we have this pressure to bring them to fruition. And I’m turn we operate from a place of force instead of operating from a place of flow.  This is because we are tied and attached to a specific outcome. While that seems normal it’s one of the worst habits to get into if you want to bring your goal to fruition.   

    Detaching from the outcome is so important because when we can detach and when we release the how we get to surrender on a deeper level and amazing things can happen.  Sadly we are so conditioned to believe that we have to control everything and in turn we become fixated on the outcome and the way things have to happen. When we are setting a goal we focus on what we want to call into our lives then we get attached to how it can happen. When we detach from the outcome we create an energetic space for these things to be able to flow to us in new, creative and expansive ways.  

    For example when I am launching I like to keep busy because I used to always micromanage my way through my launches. When you’re not you’re in a state of anticipation which means you’re in a state of expectancy and in turn you’re splitting your attention and energy between faith and fear when you are fearful you’re attracting more of Thag   Here are the steps to detaching   Clear on what you don’t want and then shift that to get crystal clear on what it is you do want.  Identify where you feel the pressure to control things  Find the safety in releasing control (even if only a little at a time)  Identify things that will help you see the benefit to releasing control. This validates that it’s safe to detach and still have the blessing.  

    One of the most relatable quotes I have ever heard is: You can miss who you’re called to be because you’re attached to who you have decided to be——don’t miss your breakthrough by forcing and settling for something less   

    Dr. Nicolya is a 10X best selling author, certified human design expert, EFT and NLP practitioner, hypnotherapist, life and success coach who helps others live their life more intentionally. As a coach, Dr. Nicolya also supports others who desire to become best selling authors to turn their message into their masterpiece. You can connect with her here: www.nicolyawilliams.com

    17 min
  • Bonus Episode: 5 Myths About Passive Income You Can’t Afford To Believe

    Have you ever heard that you can't really make good money passively? I bought into this belief for years and it kept me playing super small.  What about the idea that if you are earning passive income it's a scam- meaning basically you're getting something but the people that bought from you receive nothing? That felt super icky to me. Especially since one of my top values is impact.  


    Or maybe you heard it to be true that if you want to earn passive income it requires more work than just showing up? Hearing this made me wonder what fun is that- you might as well keep doing what you're doing.  I don't know about you, but leaving myself to accept all of these myths I quickly came to believe that passive income was overrated.  And as a result I never even tried to attempt finding a way to earn passive income in business.  I figured it would require too much work, it was a scam so I might as well do what I know.  

    And that meant buying into the 9-5 mindset...where I showed up for every single dollar I earned.  and I stayed here believing that one solid source of income would provide me the safety and security I was seeking.  Have you heard that one solid income source is all you need?  If the pandemic taught us anything it was that having one stream of income is too close to none.  This was a scary time for many, especially for me as a single mom.  But something magnificent happened when I wrote my first book​. 

    I started to make $50 a month PASSIVELY and it intrigued me.​ I got a small taste of what passive income was and it changed my life.  So I started to play with it on a larger scale. I took my former master classes and sold those as small stand alone products. I took visualizations and sold those.  Then I took it up a notch and took one of my best selling LIVE courses and sold it ever green style.  This is where things really began to change for me in business.  And you know what I learned- if you don't learn how to make money while you sleep, rest or travel you will literally spend the rest of your life having to work.  ​I don't know about you, but this was NOT appealing to me! Not one bit.​  

    Since then I have been one of the biggest advocates for helping women just like you earn money passively so that you can have the freedom you desire and deserve.  The future you is depending on you to make the right choice today.......  If you're ready to learn how, join us in my upcoming workshop passive profits where I will teach you how to take your passion and profit from it PASSIVELY!  Join us using the first button in my bio or here: https://www.nicolyawilliams.com/passive-profits-live-workshop ​

    LEEETTTSSSS GOOOO!!!​

    9 min
  • 115: How much do NLP practitioners make?

    Maybe you're new to the NLP space or considering investing in a coaching certification program. We know that these certification programs can require a significant investment.  This is the very reason I love when clients ask: How much money do NLP practitioners make?  While I would love to give you an exact number, the reality is the amount that NLP practitioners make varies. It varies on a few different things. That’s what we will talk about in todays video.  If you're ready to build a profitable, impactful and sustainable business from your passion join us inside of The ELEVATE Method here: www.nicolyawilliams.com/elevate

    11 min
  • 114: Why most coaches don’t make money and how to avoid it.
    Coaches spend most of their time helping people transform their lives, but in doing so, may often neglect themselves in the process.

    The truth is coaching can be fulfilling and lucrative- but only if done right.

    In todays video I am going to walk you through the biggest mistakes coaches make that prevent them from making money and how you can avoid them!

    If you’re ready to incorporate a passive income stream into your business I have just the thing for you.

    Introducing passive profits my upcoming workshop.

    Here I will be teaching you the benefits of passive income, the best sources of passive income, how to make it feasible and to increase your income and impact. This workshop has been a long time coming so trust that is about to be FIREEEE!

    Join us here: www.nicolyawilliams.com/passive-profits

    This will give you freedom to have a massive impact and to not have to show up for every single dollar you earn.

    14 min
  • Bonus episode: Passive Profits- where money can grow on trees

    Have you bought into the idea that you have to show up for every single dollar you earn? Well I’m here to change the narrative. What if I told you that you could earn money on demand. Whether you’re traveling whether you’re sleeping or maybe you’re even working you still can call in income. In today’s episode I’m going to walk you through different ideas and strategies that you can leverage in your business to create passive income. Trust me listening to this episode you will never show up in business the same again. If you are ready to create an easy evergreen funnel and become passive and paid join us here: http://www.nicolyawilliams.com/passive-profits

    14 min
  • 113:How to Regain Focus After Taking Time Off

    Whether you have taken off for surgery leave, maternity leave, or a vacation it can often be hard to pick up the momentum upon your return.  Today we are going to discuss how you can get back into the rhythm and come back stronger than before  

    The steps you need to incorporate are  

    Set a goal 

    Create a schedule 

    Give yourself grace 

    Move your body 

    Clear your space 

    Shift your inner dialogue 

    Take action  

    If you’re looking for the tools to be able to incorporate more rest into your routine check out my repurpose and relax workshop where I reach you how to take the content you have so that you can repurpose your content and relax ! This workshop has truly allows me to have more time freedom in my business. It’s a game changer so check it out here: https://www.nicolyawilliams.com/repurpose-and-relax

    10 min
  • 112: How to find your calling

    The concept of “the calling” (not just a “job” or “vocation”) has been widely used to describe our personal purpose in life. Our calling is the reason why we were born and the legacy we will leave to the world.

    It seems so easy for some people: they go to school and know the major to choose. Then, they graduate and know the exact path their career and life will take. They have found their life’s calling.

    But what happens if it’s not that easy.

    Maybe you feel like you have no clue

    Maybe you thought you had a clue but realize you have been climbing the wrong ladder

    Maybe you have tried a million different ideas and nothing feels like it quite fits

    Well today I want you to tune in because we have lots to talk about

    I got a question in my DM about finding my calling and helping my daughters niche,

    My response felt so aligned and I knew immediately I needed to share this beyond my inbox so that is what we will chat about today!

    A big misconception of finding your calling is that it should be all rainbows and butterflies

    Your calling won’t fit in a box and therefore it will be both exciting AND scary. It will force you to step outside of your comfort zone. To do things you’ve never done before. To be visible in the world. It’ll test you. Stretch you. Challenge you. Break you, even, at times. But it will be worth it

    22 min

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It can be challenging to balance all of the expectations that life has for you. Each Tuesday Dr. Nicolya, 11x best selling author and transformational coach shares practical tips and strategies to…