In this episode, I answer a DM from a listener who needed advice about her loser boyfriend... and let’s just say, the red flags were flying. But here’s the twist… sometimes, the “loser” energy doesn’t just come from the person we’re dating. It might be coming from us.

I’m breaking down the most common traits and behaviours that define a “loser” in a relationship. From lack of ambition and emotional immaturity to avoidance, codependency, and more.

If any of this sounds a little too familiar… this episode is your wake-up call.

🎙️ Listen if you’ve ever asked yourself:

“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of men?”

“Am I settling for less than I deserve?”

“Could I be the problem in my relationships?”

It’s time to raise your standards for who you date and who you are in love with.

💬 Tune in, reflect, and maybe take some notes... because if you’re tired of dating losers, it’s time to make sure you’re not being one.

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Does your partner’s body count really matter? 👀 In this episode, I’m explaining why asking for a number can do more harm than good in dating, what it says about trust and values, and healthier ways to have real conversations about the past without sabotaging the present.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/d9n7WdS-bSIALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Are you setting healthy boundaries, or are you being controlling? In this episode, I break down the subtle but powerful differences between the two, why so many of us get them confused, and how to recognize what’s really driving your behavior.

We’ll talk about:

• The difference between boundaries and control

• Why guilt often shows up when you set limits

• How to communicate needs without overstepping

• Signs you may be leaning into control instead of self-protection

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I protecting my peace or just trying to control my partner?” — this is the clarity you’ve been needing.

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If you’re tired of feeling anxious, over-invested, or emotionally reactive in dating, this episode is your reset.I explain how to master detachment through impulse control and emotional regulation practices. This isn’t about pretending not to care — it’s about learning to slow down your responses, observe your emotional triggers, and choose self-respect over instant gratification.You'll learn:🧠 How to pause before reacting emotionally💌 Why slowing down actually makes you more magnetic🚫 How chasing kills attraction and how to stop doing it💡 Practical tools to help you stay grounded, even when dating feels uncertain👑 How detachment leads to emotional power, peace, and better romantic outcomesThis is about choosing alignment over attachment.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/5XybjQV7QVYALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman

In this episode, I explain the real difference between love and attachment and how to tell if you're falling for someone or just your own idea of them.If you keep mistaking intense feelings for real connection, this one’s for you.Let’s cut the fantasy and get into the facts. GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/EJ7vn9WuHh4ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Are you constantly attracting emotionally unavailable people? In this video, I’m breaking down the clear signs someone is emotionally unavailable, how to spot them early, and most importantly — why you should avoid getting attached. These relationships can feel confusing, draining, and one-sided... and you deserve better.Whether you're dating or healing from someone like this, this video will help you recognize the red flags and stop repeating the cycle.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH THE YOUTUBE EPISODE: https://youtu.be/8oITOrLpjN0ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Today, we’re diving into the 5 main love languages—what they are, why they matter, and how understanding them can transform how you and your partner give and receive love. It’s a game-changer for improving connection and staying mindful, because if you didn’t already know: not everyone shows love the same way.HOW TO MOVE ON GUIDE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/7orMC0vHnKMALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Today we’re diving into the 5 main love languages: what they are, why they matter, and how understanding them can transform the way you and your partner give and receive love. It’s a game-changer for improving connection and staying mindful, because if you didn’t already know: not everyone shows love the same way.MOVE ON - THE ONLINE GUIDE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedYOUTUBE EPISODE: https://youtu.be/I0bVzgvZqxYALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

If you have been overthinking yourself into isolation or you're scared to get back out there and get hurt again, this episode is MADE for you. Dating post-breakup is challenging but so is life. HOW TO MOVE ON - THE GUIDE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH THE EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/ryQz2cL9my4ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

If you are unsure if you are wasting your time with someone, this episode will help make up your mind.There are certain things required for a healthy relationship and some of the things we deal with are just not worth the time and energy because they often lead to nothing but disappointment. GET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH THE EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/gjjCSPjEvuYALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach