Are you setting healthy boundaries, or are you being controlling? In this episode, I break down the subtle but powerful differences between the two, why so many of us get them confused, and how to recognize what’s really driving your behavior.

We’ll talk about:

• The difference between boundaries and control

• Why guilt often shows up when you set limits

• How to communicate needs without overstepping

• Signs you may be leaning into control instead of self-protection

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I protecting my peace or just trying to control my partner?” — this is the clarity you’ve been needing.

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If you’re tired of feeling anxious, over-invested, or emotionally reactive in dating, this episode is your reset.I explain how to master detachment through impulse control and emotional regulation practices. This isn’t about pretending not to care — it’s about learning to slow down your responses, observe your emotional triggers, and choose self-respect over instant gratification.You'll learn:🧠 How to pause before reacting emotionally💌 Why slowing down actually makes you more magnetic🚫 How chasing kills attraction and how to stop doing it💡 Practical tools to help you stay grounded, even when dating feels uncertain👑 How detachment leads to emotional power, peace, and better romantic outcomesThis is about choosing alignment over attachment.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/5XybjQV7QVYALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman

In this episode, I explain the real difference between love and attachment and how to tell if you're falling for someone or just your own idea of them.If you keep mistaking intense feelings for real connection, this one’s for you.Let’s cut the fantasy and get into the facts. GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/EJ7vn9WuHh4ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Are you constantly attracting emotionally unavailable people? In this video, I’m breaking down the clear signs someone is emotionally unavailable, how to spot them early, and most importantly — why you should avoid getting attached. These relationships can feel confusing, draining, and one-sided... and you deserve better.Whether you're dating or healing from someone like this, this video will help you recognize the red flags and stop repeating the cycle.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH THE YOUTUBE EPISODE: https://youtu.be/8oITOrLpjN0ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Today, we’re diving into the 5 main love languages—what they are, why they matter, and how understanding them can transform how you and your partner give and receive love. It’s a game-changer for improving connection and staying mindful, because if you didn’t already know: not everyone shows love the same way.HOW TO MOVE ON GUIDE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/7orMC0vHnKMALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Today we’re diving into the 5 main love languages: what they are, why they matter, and how understanding them can transform the way you and your partner give and receive love. It’s a game-changer for improving connection and staying mindful, because if you didn’t already know: not everyone shows love the same way.MOVE ON - THE ONLINE GUIDE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedYOUTUBE EPISODE: https://youtu.be/I0bVzgvZqxYALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

If you have been overthinking yourself into isolation or you're scared to get back out there and get hurt again, this episode is MADE for you. Dating post-breakup is challenging but so is life. HOW TO MOVE ON - THE GUIDE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH THE EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/ryQz2cL9my4ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

If you are unsure if you are wasting your time with someone, this episode will help make up your mind.There are certain things required for a healthy relationship and some of the things we deal with are just not worth the time and energy because they often lead to nothing but disappointment. GET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH THE EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/gjjCSPjEvuYALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Wondering why he might start off hot and end up going cold? Sometimes it is how we maneuver at the beginning. You might be overwhelming them without even realizing. Let's fix that.In this episode, I discuss some of the best beginner tips & tricks when it comes to attracting the right person and pacing the relationship to keep him interested. Give this a listen if you want to sharpen your confidence & keep them intrigued. GET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/MXQ-XzN9Gu0ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Are you comparing your current partner to your past romantic experiences? Or are you worried that they might be? If you're stuck in the past, you're probably not feeling great.

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