People are predictable.

If I ask the question, "Do you want an incredible marriage or a mediocre marriage?" Everyone will answer, "I want an incredible marriage!"

If I ask, "Do you want an extraordinary life or a boring life?" Everyone will answer, "I want an extraordinary life!"

If I ask "Do you want to have meaningful friendships, a strong faith, a purposeful existence or... something else?" Nobody would choose the "something else."

However, what you desire and what you're committed to are two very different things.

If you really want to live the life you desire, it requires you to have two things: Clarity and commitment.