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In this Elementary EQ minisode of Let’s Get Naked, Anne and Cameron unpack the Martyr Meltdown—that familiar pattern where “I’ll just do it myself” slowly turns into resentment, burnout, and emotional explosions. What starts as generosity often masks deeper issues: control, unspoken expectations, inherited roles, and the belief that suffering equals worth.

Through candid storytelling and sharp emotional insight, Anne breaks down how martyrdom shows up in relationships, parenting, and daily life—especially through invisible scorekeeping, unshared cognitive load, and unasked-for responsibility. The episode explores why no one wants the emotional invoice that comes after overgiving, and how the real work begins when you stop playing the hero and start setting boundaries.

This conversation challenges listeners to examine perceived expectations, release outdated programming, and recognize that asking for help is not weakness—it’s emotional intelligence. If you feel stretched thin, underappreciated, or stuck in a cycle of resentment, this episode offers a direct, no-BS invitation to put the pen down, rewrite the story, and choose a healthier way forward.

This podcast dives deep into real, raw topics—think vulnerability, triggers, and childhood trauma. But just so we're super clear: I’m not a licensed therapist, mental health professional, or anything close. I’m just a human sharing stories, lessons, and life hacks based on personal experience and a whole lot of curiosity.

So, while you might find some golden nuggets here, this is not therapy and should never replace professional mental health care. If you or someone you love is going through it, please—seriously—reach out to a licensed therapist or healthcare provider. You deserve the real deal.

Need Help Now?
Here are a few amazing resources:

· 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988
· NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) or nami.org/help
· Therapy Directory: psychologytoday.com
· Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741

The opinions expressed on this show are ours and ours alone—no official organizations are responsible for what we say (or how much we overshare).