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Lauren Oshman, CEO of Vestia Personal Wealth Advisors, shares how tracking her time revealed tasks she was holding onto simply because she always had, not because they matched her CEO role. Her insights show that effective leadership isn't about doing everything but about deliberately choosing where to focus your energy and letting go of tasks that don't align with your highest priorities.

In this episode you will learn how:

• "It's physically impossible to do all the things" - giving leaders permission to be selective with their time

• Creating pie charts to visualize time allocation reveals patterns and misalignments

• Letting go of tasks that no longer match your role frees energy for higher-level work

• The Eisenhower Matrix helps categorize tasks by importance and urgency

• Identifying just three priorities each day protects focus and drives meaningful progress

• Leaders must protect time like the valuable currency it is

• Track your time for 1-2 weeks to discover where you're adding most value

• Ask yourself: "What am I holding onto just because I've always done it?"

If today's insight inspired you, leave a review and let me know what stood out. Be sure to follow Elite Achievements so you never miss an episode. Keep showing up with the effort, mindset and habits that lead to elite achievement.

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Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision, but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there; someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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What happens when the voice in your head is your biggest skeptic? Lauren Oshman never saw herself as CEO material until her entire leadership team looked at her expectantly during a pivotal meeting. Now at the helm of Vestia Personal Wealth Advisors, a firm she's helped grow to nearly $1 billion in assets under management, Lauren reveals the leadership evolution that transformed her from second-in-command to confident CEO.

"I had to build the muscle to believe in myself as a leader," Lauren shares, describing how she overcame the self-doubt that nearly prevented her from stepping into her full potential. Through mentorship and deliberate mindset shifts, she learned to watch her own "highlight reel" instead of focusing on gaps and uncertainties. This transformation allowed her to build a nationwide financial planning firm serving physicians while raising three young daughters.

Lauren's practical wisdom shines throughout our conversation as she unpacks the decision-making framework that guides her leadership: asking "what's the worst that could happen?" to overcome fear, tracking time allocation to match priorities, and creating space for strategic thinking despite busy schedules. Her vulnerability journey stands out as particularly impactful, discovering that her ability to connect with people "hit a wall" until she learned to open up appropriately, creating a culture where both team members and clients can build genuine trust.

For leaders struggling with the constant juggle of professional demands and personal priorities, Lauren offers refreshing transparency about her own challenges balancing CEO responsibilities with motherhood. Her approach to integration rather than "balance" provides a realistic model for high-achievers looking to create impact across all areas of life. Whether you're currently in a leadership position or aspiring to grow your influence, Lauren's journey demonstrates how embracing feedback, practicing strategic reflection, and trusting yourself creates the foundation for authentic, effective leadership.

In this podcast you will learn how:

• Moving past fear by asking "what's the worst that could happen?" and "what's the best that could happen?"

• Building confidence through mentorship and learning to "watch your highlight reel" instead of focusing on gaps

• Growing from viewing feedback as criticism to seeing it as an opportunity for growth

• Creating a specialized niche practice serving physicians with an abundance mindset

• Using data to manage time effectively by tracking how time is spent versus priorities

• Learning to build trust through appropriate vulnerability with team members and clients

• Implementing regular reflection practices like clarity breaks and annual SWOT analyses

• Setting three priority tasks daily to maintain focus amid competing demands

• Prioritizing family needs while maintaining professional excellence

• Embracing leadership as creating a ripple effect of positive impact on others

Highlights:

0:00

Overcoming Fear in Leadership

6:15

Launching a Nationwide Financial Planning Firm

16:15

From Supporting Role to CEO

28:00

Building Trust Through Vulnerability

37:00

Creating Space for Strategic Thinking

45:20

Final Thoughts on Leadership Growth

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision, but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there, someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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Growth requires pain, and it's okay not to always want it. Ashley Connell reminds us that choosing not to pursue the next level right now can be a responsible decision rather than a failure.

In this episode you will learn:

• The unspoken expectation for high performers to constantly push for more - more clients, more revenue, more scale

• Progress becomes part of our identity as high achievers - we don't just set goals, we beat them year after year

• The tension between ambition and contentment that high achievers face

• The dark side of achievement is never feeling satisfied and missing the joy of what we've already built

• Growth has costs - rebuilding systems, restructuring teams, shifting leader identity, and short-term discomfort

• The importance of getting clear on why goals matter in your current season

• Setting meaningful goals that match your current business reality, not outdated expectations

Check out more about the Strategic Reset Sprint below to reflect, realign and walk away with a focused 90-day plan that matches where you are now, not where you think you're supposed to be.

The Strategic Reset Sprint

If you are ready for clarity and focus heading into the final stretch of the year, the Strategic Reset Sprint was built for you. It is a focused 6-week coaching experience designed to help ambitious leaders and business owners reflect, realign, and

reset.

Through this process, you will move away from scattered activity and constant

reactivity, and instead drive execution with clarity, structure, and a

focused plan you can follow.

What you receive:

• Three private coaching sessions
• Email support and reflection tools
• A one-page execution plan you can actually stick to

The Sprint is for you if:

• You have drifted from your priorities
• You have big ambitions but you are not making the progress you expected
• You are feeling a bit off track after the summer and find yourself reacting more than leading

September is one of the most pivotal months of the year. The choices you make now will determine whether you finish the year scrambling to catch up or executing with clarity and focus. A reset this month gives you the structure and momentum you need to close strong.

The Strategic Reset Sprint is designed to help you do exactly that.

Email me at [email protected] to learn more.

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Ever wonder why some CEOs seem to have the magical ability to grow their businesses while maintaining sanity and work-life balance? The secret isn't superhuman productivity. It's finding the right operations partner.

Ashley Connell, founder and CEO of Prowess Project, reveals the transformative power of the CEO-operations partner relationship in this eye-opening conversation. Drawing from her experience as a "matchmaker" for visionaries and integrators, Ashley unpacks why most business owners hit painful growth ceilings and how the right second-in-command can change everything.

"Most services businesses hire an operator too late," Ashley explains, painting a picture many entrepreneurs will recognize: the visionary CEO drowning in spreadsheets, systems, and operations that drain their energy and creativity. This mismatch of talents creates the perfect storm where businesses stall despite having plenty of demand.

Discover the predictable revenue benchmarks where businesses typically "break" ($250K, $500K, $750K, and $1M) and what each threshold requires from you as a leader. Ashley's insights into the psychology of delegation reveal why many CEOs struggle to let go and how to overcome that hurdle by defining what "safety" means to you personally.

The conversation takes a refreshing turn when Ashley gives listeners permission to be content with their current business size rather than constantly chasing growth. "Being able to give yourself permission, especially in different stages and seasons, I think is really powerful and, quite frankly, responsible," she notes, challenging the perpetual growth mindset that dominates entrepreneurial culture.

Whether you're struggling with burnout from doing everything yourself or preparing for your next growth phase, this episode offers actionable wisdom on finding, trusting, and collaborating with the operations partner who'll help you build the business you've always envisioned. As Ashley puts it, this partnership creates "space, freedom, and relief that things are getting done while you focus on your zone of genius."

Ready to stop being the bottleneck in your own business? Visit prowessproject.com to download Ashley's guide to the top 15 responsibilities you can delegate to your operations partner. 

In this podcast you will learn how:

• Prowess Project acts as a matchmaking service connecting CEOs with compatible operations partners

• The visionary (CEO) and integrator (operations partner) form a crucial yin-yang leadership dynamic

• Most businesses break at predictable revenue benchmarks: $250K, $500K, $750K, and $1M

• CEOs must identify what "safety" means to them personally before they can truly delegate

• Effective delegation requires clear communication, gradual transition, and compatible working styles

• Finding your ideal operations partner allows you to focus on your zone of genius instead of struggling with systems

• Growth requires rebuilding systems and processes as your business scales

Highlights:

0:00

Introduction to Think Like a CEO

1:36

Ashley Connell and Prowess Project

5:27

Journey to CEO Mindset

9:50

Visionary vs. Integrator Roles

15:40

Safe Delegation and Common CEO Mistakes

21:29

Revenue Benchmarks Where Businesses Break

26:58

Permission to Run Your Business Right

28:33

Final Thoughts and Resources

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision, but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there, someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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Top 15 Big Responsibilities

Overthinking business decisions drains your energy and stalls progress, but developing decisiveness as a leadership skill can transform how you operate. Learn how to break free from decision paralysis using the 3D filter: Delay it, Decide it, or Delegate it.

In this episode we will learn how to:

• Identify what business decisions you're currently overthinking

• Learn from Jennifer Barnes who launched a new business within days after being forced out of her company

• Understand why high-achievers hesitate to make decisions (fear, perfectionism, pressure)

• Use the 3D filter to overcome decision paralysis

• Determine when to strategically delay decisions vs. when you're just procrastinating

• Ask key questions to identify what's behind your hesitation

• Recognize when delegation is the best decision-making approach

• Build your decision-making confidence through practice

If today's insight inspired you, leave a review and let me know what stood out, and be sure to follow Elite Achievements so you never miss an episode. Keep showing up with the effort, mindset and habits that lead to elite achievement.

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision, but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there; someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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Jennifer Barnes kicks off our Think Like a CEO series with a remarkable story of resilience that will inspire anyone who's faced career setbacks. After being fired just six weeks before her wedding, Jennifer watched as 12 of her 15 clients chose to follow her – essentially handing her a business overnight. She grew that first venture to $6 million in revenue over six years, only to face another devastating blow when her business partners pushed her out of the very company she built.

Most people would have taken time to regroup after such a betrayal, but Jennifer launched Optima Office just three days later. Nearly 30 employees followed her, and despite facing a lawsuit from her former partners, her new company generated $3.5 million in its first year. Today, Optima has grown to 110 employees and established itself as a leading outsourced accounting and HR firm.

Throughout our conversation, Jennifer shares the leadership principles that guided her through these challenges. She emphasizes the power of quick decision-making, explaining that CEOs can't afford analysis paralysis – make decisions quickly and course-correct as needed. She discusses how true CEOs must rise above day-to-day operations by delegating effectively and hiring people who complement their skills.

What stands out most about Jennifer's approach is her commitment to creating a company culture where people genuinely want to work. From comprehensive benefits to mentorship programs and regular team events, her philosophy centers on taking care of her people first. She's built Optima to function smoothly without her constant presence, allowing her to maintain work-life balance while running a successful business.

Whether you're an entrepreneur facing setbacks or a leader looking to elevate your decision-making, Jennifer's journey demonstrates how resilience and strategic thinking can transform challenges into opportunities for even greater success. 

In this podcast you will learn how Jennifer:

• Built a business from scratch after being fired and having 12 of 15 clients follow her

• Dealt with challenging business partnerships and being escorted out of her own company

• Launched Optima Office just three days after being pushed out and growing it to $3.5 million in the first year

• How to make quick decisions as a CEO and not letting perfectionism slow growth

• How to step into the CEO role and learning to delegate effectively

• Developing comprehensive hiring processes to find the right cultural fits

• Creating an employee-friendly culture with benefits, events, and development opportunities

• Maintaining work-life balance while running a successful company

• Becoming comfortable with discomfort during the change process

• Reframing hard work as strategic thinking rather than constant busyness

Highlights:

0:00

Jennifer Barnes' Entrepreneurial Journey

7:38

Fired and Starting Over

12:10

Partnership Gone Wrong

19:30

Speed of Decision Making

22:56

Stepping into the CEO Role

26:34

Hiring and Building a Strong Team

30:08

Creating an Employee-Friendly Culture

33:10

Work-Life Balance for Success

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision, but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there, someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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Celebrating five years of Elite Achievement, I share the five biggest growth lessons I've learned as a podcaster that apply to leadership, business, and personal development. These insights, built around my Four C's framework—clarity, consistency, courage, and confidence—provide actionable wisdom for anyone striving to achieve meaningful goals.

In this episode you will learn how:

• Reconnecting to your why keeps you going when challenges arise (Clarity)

• Small promises compound into growth that builds credibility with others and yourself (Consistency)

• Start before you're ready—courage isn't the absence of fear but moving forward despite it

• Confidence grows through action, not contemplation—take the step first and let belief follow

• Relationships are the real ROI—genuine connections often lead to unexpected opportunities

• The podcast has evolved from focusing solely on goal-setting to exploring the mindset and values behind elite success

If this podcast has inspired or supported you, please take a moment to leave a review. It's a small way to say thank you and helps more high-performing leaders find the show. Cheers to Elite Achievement and to continuing to grow together.

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision—but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there—someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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Ever find yourself trapped in the paradox of success? You've built something impressive, yet somehow you're still grinding harder than ever. That's exactly where Heidi Hoium found herself seven years into running her thriving consultancy.

"Hard work doesn't need to equal grind," Heidi shares in our conversation. "Some of the hardest work we can do is to stop and think and to have white space." As an Enneagram 3 achiever who built Ironworks Consulting into a respected firm helping over 130 advisory businesses grow with clarity, Heidi's journey reveals the counterintuitive truth many high-performers miss: sometimes slowing down is the fastest route to meaningful growth.

What makes Heidi's story particularly powerful is how she transformed her business without sacrificing results. In twelve years, she's only had one year that wasn't her "best year ever", while implementing a four-day work week and creating sacred "white space" every Monday for strategic thinking. She shares exactly how she made this transition, from quarterly personal retreats to building what she calls a "personal growth team" who challenged her limiting beliefs.

For high-achieving business owners who secretly worry they've just created another version of the corporate grind they were trying to escape, this conversation offers something rare: a practical roadmap for doing things differently without losing your edge. We dig into the mindset shifts required, how to get comfortable with the discomfort of change, and why creating boundaries around your time might be the most important business decision you'll ever make.

Ready to reimagine what success looks like on your own terms? In this episode, you’ll learn how to create a business that thrives without revolving around you, so you can experience the freedom, flexibility, and fulfillment you’ve been working toward. Subscribe now and join the conversation about elevating your achievement without sacrificing what matters most. 

In this podcast you will learn how:

• Defining elite success as doing more with less while focusing on relationships

• Identifying when your business has become "just another grind"

• Why white space and reflection are crucial for high achievers

• How to reimagine your business by breaking through limiting paradigms

• Building a personal growth team to challenge your thinking

• The power of quarterly getaways for vision and clarity

• Implementing a four-day work week without sacrificing results

• Creating hard boundaries to protect your most valuable time

• Becoming comfortable with discomfort during the change process

• Reframing hard work as strategic thinking rather than constant busyness

Highlights:

0:00

Hard Work Without the Grind

3:30

Defining Elite Success

7:58

Building Freedom Without Sacrificing Growth

15:02

Breaking the Busy Paradigm

21:46

Creating Vision Through White Space

27:37

Building Your Personal Growth Team

31:09

Four-Day Work Week and Elite Balance

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision, but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there, someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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High achievers often rush into execution mode before clearly defining desired outcomes, leading to misaligned results and wasted resources. Slowing down to clarify what success actually looks like becomes a force multiplier for your time and effort.

In today’s episode you will learn about:

• Our natural instinct as high achievers is to jump straight into building mode when improving processes or programs

• Planning feels slow while execution gives us the satisfaction of immediate progress

• A critical question before any initiative: "What result do I actually want this to create?"

• Case study of an executive revamping a leadership program by first defining desired outcomes

• Defining impact before building prevents misaligned decisions and team confusion

• Clarity upfront becomes a "force multiplier" for your time and resources

• Apply this principle when rebuilding processes, restructuring teams, or launching new services

• When leading others, ask "what outcomes do we want to achieve together?"

If today's insight resonated and you're ready for more clarity, structure and progress in your business, let's connect. I partner with high performing leaders and business owners who are navigating growth and want a strategic thought partner to help them follow through on what matters most. You'll find details about one-on-one coaching in the show notes.

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision—but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there—someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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Every driven professional eventually reaches a crossroads where working harder no longer produces the desired growth. Mark Kull found himself at this junction after achieving Northwestern Mutual's prestigious Forum recognition in consecutive years, only to realize he was trapped in an unsustainable cycle of effort.

What followed was a transformative journey from frantic producer to strategic business builder. Mark shares the counterintuitive wisdom that reshaped his approach: "You often have to slow down to speed up." This perspective shift led him to create what he considers more valuable than any to-do list – a comprehensive "don't-do list" that freed him to focus on his highest-impact activities.

The conversation explores Mark's deeply personal definition of success: being "front door famous" – showing up as the same authentic person whether with family, clients, or strangers. This consistency of character guides his leadership and life choices more powerfully than traditional financial metrics ever could.

Mark reveals the practical strategies that supported his transition, from calculating the true hourly value of his client-facing time to intentionally hiring team members with complementary strengths rather than similar personalities. He candidly discusses the challenges of letting go, acknowledging that "in our desperation to want to be everything to everybody, we don't really become much of anything to anybody."

Perhaps most surprisingly, Mark credits consistent sleep and wake times as his most important habit – a discipline that builds self-trust and reinforces his capacity for follow-through in every area of life. His approach demonstrates how elite achievement often comes not from doing more, but from doing the right things with remarkable consistency.

Ready to rethink your approach to growth? Connect with Mark at [email protected] or visit https://cpp.nm.com/ to learn how strategic delegation and intentional habits might transform your personal and professional trajectory. 

In this podcast you will learn:

• Redefining success as being "front door famous" – maintaining consistency of character across all environments

• Creating a strategic "don't-do list" rather than just focusing on to-do lists

• Calculating the hourly value of client-facing time to determine what tasks to delegate

• Hiring people with complementary skill sets rather than similar personalities

• Making the shift from "producing forum" to "being a forum producer" through systems and processes

• Building in non-negotiable growth opportunities like mastermind groups and industry conferences

• Using flexible growth methods like reading that can be done at various times without rigid scheduling

• Celebrating wins intentionally rather than constantly moving goalposts

• Maintaining consistent habits like regular sleep and wake times to build self-discipline

• Finding team members who genuinely enjoy the tasks on your don't-do list

Highlights:

0:00

Self-Actualization and Introduction

7:12

Defining Elite Success Personally

11:40

The Journey from Forum Producer

20:24

Building a Strategic Business

30:24

Creating Space for Growth

39:06

The Power of Consistency

42:50

Celebration and Final Thoughts

Interested in 1:1 Coaching?

Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.

Clients often come to her with a strong vision—but they aren’t sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they’ve outgrown their current systems and ways of working.

They know they’re capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there—someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.

If this sounds like the kind of partnership you’ve been craving, email [email protected] to learn more and connect.

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