It is not about having the best hand, it's about being the best player. You don't have to have a perfect hand in order to win-and I'm not just talking about card games. There are people with worse cards than you and they are playing their hand like it's like best one they have been dealt. We are all given different opportunities, we all are in different situations and circumstances, but you have the cards that you have. You don't get to trade them in and start over. So, what are you going to do? Are you going to play your heart out of this game or are you going to give in because you weren't dealt as good of a hand as someone else. Your hardships, your trials, your upbringing may be so excruciating and hard and YES they are valid. But instead of using those things as an excuse not to, start using those things as a reason WHY TO and your life will start to change. The biggest setbacks make for the greatest comebacks.