A lifetime hunt for safety by overachieving, over-pleasing, perfectionism and pushing for love. Tiring and anxiety provoking, right? Ending up with people who will NOT give you what you need. We may subconsciously feel others have to prove themselves before we can trust and then we really never do trust…instead we open ourselves up to being with someone who we are attached to and that we hope (but know) will probably disappoint us. All the issues around safety stem from the insecurity around security! Insecure attachment is at it again! Listen in to gain some tools around what you NEED to start feeling safe no matter who you're with or if you're single.