Enjoy this deep discussion & executive-level coaching with Craig Eggleton as we dig into the Kartman Drama Triangle — similar to the Bermuda Triangle in that it’s a danger zone! Understanding how we may be operating in this zone helps us exit and take ownership.
Be it at home, our business culture or clients we’re calling on, we often find this triangle taking place with 3 players: Victim, Persecutor & Rescuer.
Coaching comes down to understanding what ROLE is being played in the triangle. And lest the pendulum swings to the other end of the spectrum of “rose-colored”glasses and we run from conflict, Craig shares finding the balance. In the middle, you find that “I’m ok; your ok”. We’re adults and can enhance our emotional intelligence toward healthy resolution.
Craig shares 4 keys to exit drama and constructively take ownership to collaborate and achieve results together:
1st — ask questions instead of statements,
2nd — assuming we all want to get better.
“Tune the world out and the person in”,
3rd — set expectations early on (define roles and understand each other’s communication style), and
4th — accountability. Commitments are kept and met. Hold a mirror up FIRST!
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