In this episode, Rashidah sits down with Kelley Jensen, a mother of two from San Jose, California, whose son Beau, now 26, was diagnosed with severe autism at the age of three.

Kelley opens up about the overwhelming emotions she experienced after the diagnosis and how moving through the stages of grief helped shape her journey. One of the philosophies that has guided her — and many other moms — is what she calls “Speed to Acceptance.”

Today, Kelley serves as the Marketing Director at Brain Performance Technologies, where she advocates for individuals facing challenges such as depression, anxiety, OCD, autism, and traumatic brain injury.

Kelley is also the co-host of the podcast Refrigerator Moms alongside her longtime friend Julianna. Together, they provide research, resources, and honest conversations about parenting and neurodivergence.

In this episode, Kelley shares her family’s journey of acceptance, advocacy, resilience, and community.

In this episode, we discuss:

00:00 The Journey Begins: Understanding Autism Diagnosis

03:00 Navigating the Stages of Grief

06:06 Finding Community and Support

08:47 The Role of Acceptance in Parenting

12:07 Independence and Growth in Adulthood

14:58 The Ongoing Process of Acceptance

17:56 Tools for Coping and Moving Forward

20:48 Empowerment Through Advocacy and Community

28:22 Personal Growth Through Parenting Challenges

32:36 Finding Purpose and Community

34:44 Navigating Acceptance and Grief

40:54 Advice for New Moms Facing Diagnosis

44:50 The Power of Acceptance

47:21 Future Conversations and Collaborations

Connect with Kelley

Marketing Director – Brain Performance Technologies ~ Podcast Co-Host – Refrigerator Moms Podcast

• Website – https://www.refrigeratormoms.com

• Instagram – www.instagram.com/refrigeratormoms

• Facebook – Refrigerator Moms

• Tik Tok - refrigeratormoms

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Refrigerator Moms Podcast: https://refrigeratormoms.transistor.fm/

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