Meeting people – especially ENM/poly folks – is easier than ever thanks to dating apps. So why do we hate them so much? 

Sarah, Alex and Jessica swap embarrassing app stories, dig into the dirty secrets of the online dating industry, and give advice for successufl technology assisted non-monogamy. 

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Stats we quoted wrong:

Modern Romance - Aziz Ansari cited a study from 1932 that 40% of people getting married lives less than 20 blocks from their future spouse. https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-35535424

The barn star isn't actually a swinger symbol: https://www.distractify.com/p/metal-star-on-house-meaning

But pampas grass and pineapples are: https://www.swinger-symbol.com/blog/secret-swinger-signs-and-symbols

Similar levels of satisfaction reported in arrange marriages and "free-choice" marriages: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-science-love/201208/arranged-vs-love-based-marriages-in-the-us-how-different-are-they

Hinge is the dating app "Designed to be deleted"