Award-winning journalist Pat Miles was married to Bucky and they were fully set for life, but not for death. After Bucky’s death from a short illness, Pat found herself with a plate full of unanticipated emotions, decisions and legal problems. After speaking with countless widows she learned she was not alone in feeling adrift after losing her spouse and wrote a book “BEFORE All is Said and Done”.  Pat shares invaluable insight and lessons learned as she moves forward with hope and a future.