Coming Out Late

Ep. #202: Am I Any Less Gay If I Am, or Was, Married to a Man? (replay)


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In this week’s episode Robin shares with us her perspective on the frequently asked question, “Am I Less Gay Because I Was, (or Am), Married to A Man?”. Robin also answers the question, “How did you know you were gay? Did you waiver? Did you need ‘an experience’ to know for sure?”

Some of the topics you’ll hear Robin share with you are:

  • Contempt prior to investigation; and how does that relate to being newly gay?
  • What is ‘sexuality’? And could it really be fluid?
  • Your truth is yours to define; if you say you’re gay, you’re gay! No one else gets to weigh-in or decide for us.
  • “The fears we don’t face become our limits.”
  • Heterosexual women do not lay awake at night fantasizing about other women.
  • Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass

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2026 COMING OUT LATE RETREATS:

Five Retreats are on the 2026 calendar; they are: Queer & Sober, (Dec. 30-January 2, 2026, Northern Mass.); Philadelphia, PA, (February 12-15, ‘26); San Diego, CA, (April 4-9, ‘26); Lake George, NY, (June 2026); Charlotte, NC (September 10-13). For more details, email Robin:  [email protected].

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