In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap, Rebecca Gruenspan speaks with Francine Apy, the founder of SoulFilling, as she shares her heartfelt journey of creating a business that resonates deeply within the adoption community. Inspired by the concept of ‘soul filling,’ Francine’s company aims to bring comfort and connection to those touched by adoption. She opens up about her personal adoption experience, the unique qualities of each of her three adopted children, and many of the lessons she learned along the way. This conversation explores the evolving language and norms surrounding open adoption as well as Francine’s mission to normalize the discussion around adoption, amplify positive stories, and reduce the stigma often associated with it. In addition, Francine discusses her work as an author, sharing her mother’s life story and creating a children’s book that helps explain adoption. 

Important Links mentioned in Today's Episode

https://www.soulfillingadoption.com/bio-francine-apy

C.A.S.E. - Adoption Centered Mental Health Support  

@francinapy IG

Interview w/Francine on NY news10  

Briannas Brave Day at School by Francine Apy 

Dominicas Story: A Life of Courage, Hope, and Love (Francine's Mother's Story) 

Surrounded by Love: An Adoption Story by Allison Olson 

⁠⁠RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠ 

⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap⁠

Chapters

02:02 Starting SoulFilling and the Power of Faith

09:24 Adopting Three Children and Their Unique Journeys

19:13 The Role of Prayer and Letting Go of Control

25:28 Managing Stress through Mindset and Meditation

30:13 Navigating Language and Nuances in Adoption

32:11 The Spectrum of Openness in Adoption Relationships

33:07 Adoption as a Normal Part of Family

37:23 Open Communication and Accountability

39:15 Amplifying Stories of Adoption

43:13 The Importance of Therapy for Adoptees

49:15 Making Adoption Conversations Mainstream

52:45 Sharing Adoption Stories

59:07 Soul Filling and Positive Reactions

01:01:22 Being Open to the Miracle

01:03:55 Moving Beyond Stagnation

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