Sarah and Alex talk about the jealousy and panic that comes up when partners are on dates or trips with others, the roots of those feelings, and how rituals of connection and communication can help. Oh, and also how the film ET is a meta text for polyamory(?)

Mentioned in the episode:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/2HFb3BywGM
• https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/8SvfUvZord

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