April 22, 2024

Ep. 452 Funeral Planning, After-Death Care, and Healthy Grief with Jokotifa Alaye

1 hour 3 minutes

Learn how planning ahead for after-death care can help loved ones with grief and loss.

My guest Jokotifa Alaye is a licensed funeral professional and NEDA certified end-of-life doula with a focus on grief. She created Mourning Space to fill the gaps in education and support that society requires for healthy grieving. She discusses the importance of funeral planning as a gift for loved ones, finding a funeral director or celebrant who can help carry out your wishes, and how to foster empowered grieving. Learn more at her website:

mourningspace.com

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This episode includes:

Jokotifa’s path to becoming a funeral director and death doula

Why she focuses on empowered grieving through Mourning Space

Why deathcare providers need better training about grief

Why rituals at the end of life are important

What to do if a loved one refuses a funeral

How and why to plan your own funeral in advance

Each state and country has unique laws about funerals and disposition

What hospice providers should know about the removal process to support the family after death

How to have conversations with loved ones about funeral preferences

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