This week, the Two Plus Two Crew tackles a playful term with some serious depth — premature evacuation. No, not that kind — we’re talking about those moments when play ends earlier than planned and all the emotions that can come with it.

Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany open up about the messy, human side of swinging — from people-pleasing and communication breakdowns to triggers and shame. Josie shares a few personal experiences that highlight how past trauma can resurface in unexpected ways, and the group talks candidly about how to give ourselves and our partners grace when those moments happen.

They dig into the importance of being honest with ourselves, clear with our partners, and compassionate with our playmates — because no one can read our minds, no matter how in sync we think we are. The Crew also shares tips for better communication and staying connected even when things don’t go as planned.

Of course, there are still plenty of laughs — at each other’s expense and their own — as they explore how the lifestyle continues to challenge, teach, and strengthen their relationships.

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(00:00:00) What is premature evacuation?

(00:02:09) A traumatic play experience

(00:08:09) Nobody was doing anything wrong

(00:10:24) Feeling shame for not self-advocating

(00:19:24) Brad learns he has the perfect cock for anal

(00:21:07) Other people aren’t aware of our triggers

(00:23:26) There was no malicious intent

(00:26:11) Listeners who become play partners

(00:26:48) We don’t know what we don’t know

(00:28:56) Evolving in the lifestyle

(00:29:49) Some people will try to push your boundaries

(00:34:39) Are we being instinctual or over critical?

(00:37:39) Assessing potential play partners to ensure a positive experience

(00:39:45) Positive or negative bias will impact your choices and decisions

(00:43:44) Considering changing our approach to serve us better

(00:46:37) Looking at your results and deciding whether you want to make changes

(00:48:55) Comparing your own results with others you see in the lifestyle

(00:50:22) Assessing our own risk tolerance

(00:53:13) Making comparisons in the lifestyle

(00:55:13) Getting out of your head and letting go

(00:56:30) Holding one another back

(01:00:16) Parting advice

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