She's familiar, approachable, and as comforting as she is beautiful-- 'the girl next door' is a staple of American dating culture, and an archetype that many men seek out. But where did that archetype come from, and just how firmly rooted in reality is it? In this episode, Steven and Megan trace this idea back to some of its origins and unpack just what it says about how men's perspectives on relationships are shaped. Comic book fans, this one is for you!

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Intro/Outro music by: Balloon Planet, "Write Your Own Story," https://artlist.io/royalty-free-music/song/write-your-own-story/135437