All of us come into our marriages with assumptions and expectations for what it will be like, and only some of those expectations end up matching the reality of what couples build together. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some of the expectations they brought into their marriage that ended up crumbling in the early years, and what that taught them about their shared values and priorities. 

Last day for earlybird pricing: Singles at SEA 2026!

We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! The prices below are only guaranteed through 3/30; prices subject to change from 3/31 and beyond.
Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233
Email: [email protected]
Cabin prices (includes space for two people:
Ocean view balcony $1,792.68
Interior $ 1,464.68
These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.
Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room.

Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. 

If God knew that Adam needed a helpmeet, why was he created alone? What is the biggest personality killer that limits relationships, and why is love the opposite of fear? In this week's podcast, Megan and Steven dive into these questions and many more with Dr. Joshua Abrego, Assistant Professor at Christian Life College and the host of The Certain Sound podcast. Thank you Dr. Abrego for joining us and sharing your wisdom! Check out The Certain Sound podcast on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. 

Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4

Singles at SEA 2026!

We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Reserve your cabin now to take advantage of early bird prices!
Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233
Email: [email protected]
Cabin prices (includes space for two people:
Ocean view balcony $1,792.68
Interior $ 1,464.68
These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.
Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room.

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

We've heard about why Singles conferences aren't great for dating, but what would an Apostolic event look like that WAS a great dating opportunity? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some exciting events on the horizon and why Singles Ministries and churches should consider offering more that are like them. 

Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4

Singles at SEA 2026!

We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Reserve your cabin now to take advantage of early bird prices!
Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233
Email: [email protected]
Cabin prices (includes space for two people:
Ocean view balcony $1,792.68
Interior $ 1,464.68
These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.
Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room.

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

We've covered the pros and cons of matchmaking before, but not in light of the patterns we've seen after analyzing hundreds of surveys and interviews with Apostolic Singles. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down matchmaking in comparison to the other options available to Apostolic Singles and reiterate why doing things differently may be the right choice. 

Want to Come Chat in Person?

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

What if we told you that mastering three very learnable skills could make you more attractive as a dating partner, more successful in your career, and more dynamic in your ministry? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss three skills that almost every Apostolic woman has mentioned in her Synchrony interview as key aspects of what she's seeking in a partner. They also give some recommendations for how you can start building these skills today. 

Want to Come Chat in Person?

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Steven and Megan went to a conference just for Apostolic Singles! What they found there surprised them. 

Check out the Texas District Singles Conference pages on Facebook for sermon clips and resources!

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

At the beginning of 2025, Megan and Steven launched a survey to gather data about singles' experiences with loneliness to help give Pastors and church leaders insight into its impact on the Church. In this episode, the unpack some of the data from the 500+ survey responses. Pastors--please take time to listen to this, and reach out to us with questions!

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

Still want to take the From Singles, to Shepherds survey? Add your response here: https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

How do I get out of the dreaded "friendzone?" Why is the woman I'm interested in sending me mixed signals? Why are the expectations for men so astronomically high? In this episode, Megan and Steven chat about these questions and other FAQ's they've heard from Apostolic guys who are doing their best to navigate a wild dating culture. Send us more questions on Instagram or through the email below!

Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now!

https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

What makes Apostolic dating truly different from Worldly dating? In this episode, Megan and Steven break down the 10 Principles of Apostolic Dating that they wished everyone understood before they launched into a dating relationship. Send this to your youth leaders and teenage loved ones!

Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now!

https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Trigger Warning: diet culture, disordered eating, body image.

Dating in a fat body is different than dating in a thin body, and is in some ways much more difficult. Our dating culture has internalized the thin preference that is deeply rooted in Western culture, and that preference leaves many people struggling to find someone who appreciates their body and sees them as an attractive potential partner. In this episode, Megan and Steven grapple with this difficult topic and provide data to illustrate the trends and, hopefully, to give hope to anyone who feels that their body is presenting challenges to connection.

Links and References:

Preferences for sexually dimorphic body characteristics revealed in a large sample of speed daters--Sidari, M. et al, Social Psychological and Personality Science, 2019: https://dspace.stir.ac.uk/retrieve/54c9b8dc-0155-4447-bae2-387dae00637e/SPPS_20Manuscript_20Final.pdf 

Secular differences in the association between caloric intake, macronutrient intake, and physical activity with obesity- Brown, Ruth E. et al, Obesity Research & Clinical Practice, 2016: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26383959/

"Size, By the Numbers," Hilary George Parkin, Racked,  June 5, 2018. LANGUAGE ADVISORY: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26383959/

Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth About Your Weight, Lindo Bacon, PhD. NOTE: This is a research-based book about dieting and its impact on health, written by a secular author who also identifies as non-binary. We understand that some may feel uncomfortable reading a book whose author does not affirm biological gender; however, the book is not about gender identity and its contents are important for anyone who has struggled with guilt, shame, or depression around their weight. Read with caution, but please consider reading. https://lindobacon.com/health-at-every-size-book/ 

Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now!

https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].