She's familiar, approachable, and as comforting as she is beautiful-- 'the girl next door' is a staple of American dating culture, and an archetype that many men seek out. But where did that archetype come from, and just how firmly rooted in reality is it? In this episode, Steven and Megan trace this idea back to some of its origins and unpack just what it says about how men's perspectives on relationships are shaped. Comic book fans, this one is for you!

Our first summer flash sale starts Memorial Weekend! Mark your calendars to save 40% on matchmaking.

D.R.A.W. conference begins May 23rd! More information here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/746363680108059/?hoisted_section_header_type=recently_seen&multi_permalinks=970171901060568 

Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: [email protected]

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. 

Intro/Outro music by: Balloon Planet, "Write Your Own Story," https://artlist.io/royalty-free-music/song/write-your-own-story/135437

In the world of "appropriate" romance, period dramas and regency literature have a corner on the market among Apostolic women who want to enjoy a romantic story free of innuendo. But are these books and movies helping us build a healthy dating culture, or hurting us? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss one of the most well-known works of literature (and its movie adaptations) and the impact of the plot and characters on dating culture for Christians. 

Our first summer flash sale starts Memorial Weekend! Mark your calendars to save 40% on matchmaking.

D.R.A.W. conference begins May 23rd! More information here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/746363680108059/?hoisted_section_header_type=recently_seen&multi_permalinks=970171901060568 

Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: [email protected]

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. 

Intro/Outro music by: Balloon Planet, "Write Your Own Story," https://artlist.io/royalty-free-music/song/write-your-own-story/135437

When the societal and cultural pressures on young, Single Apostolic men are unrealistically high, the risk of them fading from the Church increases. Is the number of single 35-50 year-old women disproportionately higher than the number of available men in that range, and if so, what is causing us to lose our young men on the cusp of starting Apostolic families? In this episode, Megan and Steven scratch the surface of a big question: what is happening to our men, and how to we help?

2024 UPCI Stats Booklet is available here: https://upci.org/stats/

Our first summer flash sale starts Memorial Weekend! Mark your calendars to save 40% on matchmaking.

Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: [email protected]

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. 

We make no bones about it: we view excessive consumer debt as a huge risk factor in dating relationships, to the point where we turn away clients who carry consumer debt in excess of their annual income. Why do we feel so strongly about something that (in today's economy) seems so normal, even expected? In this episode, Megan and Steven unpack their feelings about debt and why it's a massive red flag in dating relationships. 

If you need help getting out of debt, we encourage you to check out the resources from Ramsey Solutions, including Financial Peace University: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/

Note: we do not receive any sort of sponsorship or kickback associated with promoting Ramsey Solutions; we simply stand by the efficacy of their process. 

Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: [email protected]

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. 

Loneliness is a slow killer in both the physical and spiritual body. What would it look like for the church to cure it? This week, Megan dives into that question with Synchrony client and healthcare provider Beth Cleavenger, who shares some insights from her own deep dive on the physical impacts of loneliness. 

Read the 2023 report from the Surgeon General of the United States on the health impacts of loneliness here: https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf

Singles at SEA 2026: We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Prices subject to change, but you only need $200 to book a cabin/$100 per person if you book with a friend. Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233 Email: [email protected]

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. 

All of us come into our marriages with assumptions and expectations for what it will be like, and only some of those expectations end up matching the reality of what couples build together. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some of the expectations they brought into their marriage that ended up crumbling in the early years, and what that taught them about their shared values and priorities. 

Last day for earlybird pricing: Singles at SEA 2026!

We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! The prices below are only guaranteed through 3/30; prices subject to change from 3/31 and beyond.
Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233
Email: [email protected]
Cabin prices (includes space for two people:
Ocean view balcony $1,792.68
Interior $ 1,464.68
These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.
Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room.

Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

Learn more about our matchmaking services and dating resources at https://synchronyproject.com. 

If God knew that Adam needed a helpmeet, why was he created alone? What is the biggest personality killer that limits relationships, and why is love the opposite of fear? In this week's podcast, Megan and Steven dive into these questions and many more with Dr. Joshua Abrego, Assistant Professor at Christian Life College and the host of The Certain Sound podcast. Thank you Dr. Abrego for joining us and sharing your wisdom! Check out The Certain Sound podcast on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. 

Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4

Singles at SEA 2026!

We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Reserve your cabin now to take advantage of early bird prices!
Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233
Email: [email protected]
Cabin prices (includes space for two people:
Ocean view balcony $1,792.68
Interior $ 1,464.68
These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.
Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room.

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

We've heard about why Singles conferences aren't great for dating, but what would an Apostolic event look like that WAS a great dating opportunity? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some exciting events on the horizon and why Singles Ministries and churches should consider offering more that are like them. 

Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

https://topchurch.breezechms.com/form/60bcc4

Singles at SEA 2026!

We'll be setting sail February 6-9, 2026 out of Miami, Florida on Wonder of the Seas and visiting The Bahamas! Reserve your cabin now to take advantage of early bird prices!
Call Chelsea Fennell at 864-901-8233
Email: [email protected]
Cabin prices (includes space for two people:
Ocean view balcony $1,792.68
Interior $ 1,464.68
These prices include: cruise, taxes port fee, gratuities, and registration fee.
Deposit amount $100 per person to secure room.

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

We've covered the pros and cons of matchmaking before, but not in light of the patterns we've seen after analyzing hundreds of surveys and interviews with Apostolic Singles. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down matchmaking in comparison to the other options available to Apostolic Singles and reiterate why doing things differently may be the right choice. 

Want to Come Chat in Person?

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. 

What if we told you that mastering three very learnable skills could make you more attractive as a dating partner, more successful in your career, and more dynamic in your ministry? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss three skills that almost every Apostolic woman has mentioned in her Synchrony interview as key aspects of what she's seeking in a partner. They also give some recommendations for how you can start building these skills today. 

Want to Come Chat in Person?

Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a singles workshop and fellowship at 2501 Bristol Drive, West Palm Beach, FL 33409. This event is titled "Loneliness is not Your Legacy" and is hosted by the Sanctuary of the Palm Beaches and their Hyphen Young Adult Ministry. The workshop is open to singles of all ages and the session begins at 10am. We'd love to see you there!

Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here! https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin!

Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].