<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2204397/open_sms">Send us a text</a>In Part One of this episode, Andrea chats with attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith about how our attachment styles shape the way we love, communicate, and sometimes sabotage relationships. From anxious and avoidant tendencies to the emotional fallout of infidelity and parentification, they cover it all—with personal stories, practical advice, and a refreshing take on healing (hint: it’s more about repair than perfection). They also dive into modern dating challenges, masculine/feminine energy, and why matchmaking might be making a comeback. Expect real talk, relatable insights, and tips to help you build healthier, more secure connections. What if cheating isn’t about lust—but about unmet emotional needs rooted in your attachment style?Can you really rewire your attachment style and build a secure relationship—even if your past says otherwise?Are your dating struggles actually just anxious or avoidant patterns playing out on repeat?And so much more...Instagram: @attachmentAdamTikTok: @attachmentbroYouTube: @attachmentAdamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/<a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2204397/support">Support the show</a>Instagram: @from.mrs.2.ms TikTok:@from.mrs.2.ms Website: www.frommrs2ms.com Email: Andrea@FromMrs2Ms.com YouTube: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a text In Part One of this episode, Andrea chats with attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith about how our attachment styles shape the way we love, communicate, and sometimes sabotage relationships. From anxious and avoidant tendencies to the emotional fallout of infidelity and parentification, they cover it all—with personal stories, practical advice, and a refreshing take on healing (hint: it’s more about repair than perfection). They also dive into modern dating challenges, masculine/feminine energy, and why matchmaking might be making a comeback. Expect real talk, relatable insights, and tips to help you build healthier, more secure connections. What if cheating isn’t about lust—but about unmet emotional needs rooted in your attachment style? Can you really rewire your attachment style and build a secure relationship—even if your past says otherwise? Are your dating struggles actually just anxious or avoidant patterns playing out on repeat? And so much more... Instagram: @attachmentAdam TikTok: @attachmentbro YouTube: @attachmentAdam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/ Support the show Instagram: @from.mrs.2.ms TikTok:@from.mrs.2.ms Website: www.frommrs2ms.com Email: Andrea@FromMrs2Ms.com YouTube: @FromMrs2Ms

<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2204397/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer">Send us a text</a>In Part One of this episode, Andrea chats with attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith about how our attachment styles shape the way we love, communicate, and sometimes sabotage relationships. From anxious and avoidant tendencies to the emotional fallout of infidelity and parentification, they cover it all—with personal stories, practical advice, and a refreshing take on healing (hint: it’s more about repair than perfection). They also dive into modern dating challenges, masculine/feminine energy, and why matchmaking might be making a comeback. Expect real talk, relatable insights, and tips to help you build healthier, more secure connections.&nbsp;What if cheating isn’t about lust—but about unmet emotional needs rooted in your attachment style?Can you really rewire your attachment style and build a secure relationship—even if your past says otherwise?Are your dating struggles actually just anxious or avoidant patterns playing out on repeat?And so much more...Instagram: @attachmentAdamTikTok: @attachmentbroYouTube: @attachmentAdamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2204397/support" rel="noopener noreferrer">Support the show</a>Instagram: @from.mrs.2.ms TikTok:@from.mrs.2.ms Website: www.frommrs2ms.com Email: Andrea@FromMrs2Ms.com YouTube: @FromMrs2Ms

Ep | 92: Part 1- Anxious? Avoidant? Here’s How to Change the Pattern with Adam Lane Smith

Welcome to From Mrs. to Ms., the laugh-out-loud, no-holds-barred podcast that dives into the wild, weird, and wonderful world of life after divorce. Host Andrea Knoche isn’t claiming to be a relationship expert—far from it! But she’s here to navigate the twists and turns of love, lust, and everything in between, bringing you along for the ride. With incredible guests like Dr. Sarah Hensley, an attachment science specialist, and the dynamic duo behind The Midlife Mentors, Andrea delivers expert advice, hilarious insights, and raw, real-life stories that will make you feel seen.Online dating? Oh, she’s got stories. From questionable bios to jaw-dropping conversations, Andrea swipes right on the chaos of the digital dating scene, sharing her most cringe-worthy moments and triumphs in a way that’ll have you laughing out loud (and maybe a little grateful you’re not in her shoes).And when it comes to sex and intimacy after divorce? No topic is off-limits. From awkward encounters to steamy confessions, Andrea gets real about what it’s like to dive back into the dating pool and rediscover yourself along the way. Warning: these episodes can get spicy, so maybe keep the earbuds handy if you’re in public!But it’s not just about the laughs. From Mrs. to Ms. is a celebration of resilience, reinvention, and the sheer joy of figuring it all out. Whether you’re freshly single, happily solo, or searching for love again, Andrea and her amazing lineup of guests will leave you feeling empowered, inspired, and entertained.So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and join Andrea as she proves that life after divorce isn’t the end—it’s just the beginning of a hilarious, heartfelt new chapter.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;

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Welcome to From Mrs. to Ms., the laugh-out-loud, no-holds-barred podcast that dives into the wild, weird, and wonderful world of life after divorce. Host Andrea Knoche isn’t claiming to be a relationship expert—far from it! But she’s here to navigate the twists and turns of love, lust, and everything in between, bringing you along for the ride. With incredible guests like Dr. Sarah Hensley, an attachment science specialist, and the dynamic duo behind The Midlife Mentors, Andrea delivers expert advice, hilarious insights, and raw, real-life stories that will make you feel seen. Online dating? Oh, she’s got stories. From questionable bios to jaw-dropping conversations, Andrea swipes right on the chaos of the digital dating scene, sharing her most cringe-worthy moments and triumphs in a way that’ll have you laughing out loud (and maybe a little grateful you’re not in her shoes). And when it comes to sex and intimacy after divorce? No topic is off-limits. From awkward encounters to steamy confessions, Andrea gets real about what it’s like to dive back into the dating pool and rediscover yourself along the way. Warning: these episodes can get spicy, so maybe keep the earbuds handy if you’re in public! But it’s not just about the laughs. From Mrs. to Ms. is a celebration of resilience, reinvention, and the sheer joy of figuring it all out. Whether you’re freshly single, happily solo, or searching for love again, Andrea and her amazing lineup of guests will leave you feeling empowered, inspired, and entertained. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and join Andrea as she proves that life after divorce isn’t the end—it’s just the beginning of a hilarious, heartfelt new chapter.    

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