Take pride in your appearance, dress in the clothing and colours you know your husband likes to see.  You should be dressing for his approval and pleasure, not for the admiration of others.

When not with your husband make sure you dress in a manner that will not attract the attention of other men.  If you have to be careful how you bend or sit then ask yourself is this clothing appropriate without my husband being present.

Enjoy being a woman,  be proud to dress like a woman but do it with class and style that makes your husband proud to be seen out with you.