"The best leaders are willing not just to have the hard conversations but navigate them elegantly."
Difficult discussions are necessary for working well with others, but some people find it easier to have hard conversations than others.
However, even though someone may be more assertive or unafraid of conflict, they may still need to be more effective in these conversations.
But avoiding challenging conversations doesn't make the issue go away and can lead to resentment and more significant rifts between people — and can block your blessings.
Conflict isn't necessarily bad. It can be a catalyst for change and can lead to a better environment and culture.
And reaching an understanding is often the first step toward creating a better environment.
So, how can you learn to navigate challenging conversations better?
Today, on "Lead With The Enneagram," I'll dive into why properly preparing for a difficult conversation is crucial.
I'll discuss the role of knowing your Enneagram type in understanding yourself and responding more effectively during difficult discussions.
Listen in as I share my insight and strategies for navigating challenging conversations, including the essential components of having a constructive and open discussion. I'll help you understand the benefits of engaging in tough conversations and the top five ways to navigate them for all Enneagram types.
Plus, why it's essential to buffer in some time for self-honoring and self-reflection after a difficult conversation.
Are you navigating a challenging conversation with someone you work with or one of your loved ones? Sometimes having a guide can help! I offer personalized Enneagram assessments, 90-minute deep dives, and leadership/team workshops to help people integrate this powerful tool into their personal and professional lives. Find out more at TracyO'Malley.com in the work with me section.
What You Will Learn
The importance of taking an inventory of your own emotions and role in a problematic situation before having a tough conversation
How knowing your Enneagram type can help you respond more elegantly during hard conversations Why you should listen more than you talk during a tough conversation
The importance of taking accountability for your part in a difficult conversation
The benefits of self-reflection and nervous system regulation after a challenging conversation
The role of courage in learning how to have tough conversations
How to consider the other person's perspective and be open-minded and flexible in order to reach an understanding.
Critical strategies for finding a resolution that works for both parties
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