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EP340: The Polite Lie: The Hidden Reason You're Losing Sales


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Today we are sharing a coaching session where Eric discusses the concept of "polite lies" in the context of sales, particularly for contractors. These lies, such as "let me think about it" or "I need to talk to my wife," are presented as symptoms of poor communication and a lack of trust or perceived value created by the salesperson. Eric emphasizes that contractors often fail to secure a deal because they talk too much, do not listen effectively, or do not build an adequate emotional connection with the prospect, leading to uncertainty and the prospect's polite evasion. The conversation highlights the value of consistent training and self-awareness to correct these mistakes, with participants sharing personal stories to illustrate how improved communication techniques, such as asking open-ended questions and prioritizing listening, can successfully "flip the script" and close sales.

Key Takeaways: 

  • Prioritize listening more than speaking to effectively address the other person's uncertainties.
  • Use any polite lies you hear as a gauge indicating that you need to work on your communication and self-awareness.
  • Clearly outline processes and procedures so that others gain clarity on what comes next.
  • Help others create urgency by asking them about the consequences of delaying their decision or project.
  • Build genuine connections by allowing people to talk and share their stories rather than boasting about your awards or history.
🔗 Links and Resources

Business & Sales Tools

  • Contractor Sales Secrets

  • Book a Call with Eric Triplett 

Pond Industry Resources

  • The Pond Digger

  • Helix Pond Filtration

  • EasyPro Pond Products

  • Atlantic-Oase

  • Fitz Fish Ponds – Koi Trips 

  • Pond Trade Magazine

Events & Communities

  • 2025 LCR Summit (Oct. 20–21, Louisville, KY)

  • EQUIP (Oct. 22 -24, Louisville, KY)
  • TWT Contractor Circle (Facebook Group)

  • TWT Contractor Power Circle (Facebook Group)

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  • Train With Triplett on TikTok

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