The Best of You

Episode 116: Blended Families—How to Heal, Build, & Sustain a Healthy Family Through Grief, Loss, & Complicated Circumstances


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Did you grow up in a blended family? Are you navigating the complexities of creating one?


Blended families face unique challenges, and it can be overwhelming to sift through the stigmas and bad advice that often surround step-parenting. In today’s very personal episode, I’m joined by blended family expert Ron Deal. Together, we explore how step-families can become a powerful part of God’s redemptive story, offering healing and hope in the midst of grief, loss, and complicated circumstances.


Today’s episode is filled with powerful tips for ANY family about how to become healthier.


Here’s what we cover:


1. The two key ingredients to building and sustaining a healthy family (8:39)

2. Common sources of dysfunction in families and how to address them (11:32)

3. What the church often misunderstands about blended families and how we can shift the narrative (25:00)

4. The redemptive power of step-families in transforming pain into purpose. (36:53)

5. Empowering children to navigate change and loss with resilience (29:41)

6. Practical ways to honor grief within families and create a supportive environment (41:39)


Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.

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If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:

Episode 85: The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction

Episode 12: Overcoming the Pain of Divorce with Eryn Eddy


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