In this episode of More Than Roommates, the MTR team interviews Gabe and Rebekah Lyons about their new book, The Fight For Us. The Lyons share vulnerably about their journey through conflict, emotional intimacy, and the realities of mental health in marriage. They unpack practical tools from their new book The Fight for Us, including how to support your spouse, move from isolation to connection, and keep fighting for each other when life gets hard.

Scriptures:

John 16:33

1 Peter 3:7

Questions to Discuss:

1. What is one way we can “fight for us” instead of fighting against each other this week?

2. Take Gabe & Rebekah’s Marriage Quiz. What’s your default response in the “dysfunctional dance”? (Silent, Intense, Avoidant, Anxious). How does that affect your marriage?

3. In what ways can I better support you during seasons of anxiety, stress, or discouragement?

4. What are some of your strengths I can celebrate more often?

Resources:

Book – The Fight For Us: Overcome What Divides to Build a Marriage That Thrives, Rebekah & Gabe Lyons

Learn more about Gabe Lyons & Rebekah Lyons

THINQMedia.com & THINQ Summit 2025

Free Marriage Quiz - What’s Your Dance?

Gabe & Rebekah’s Marriage & Parenting Retreat

The Fight For Us Podcast Series (14 episode series) Apple & Spotify