I often encounter Unrealistic Husbands, men who are so eager to have their wives in the lifestyle, they often skip to the end without putting in the work.  In this episode I dig down with the help of my Producer, Socrates, to explain how to lay the foundation, when to talk to your wife and, if all else fails, my HACK for opening the doors of communication. In this episode we talk about everything from initial steps to how to set up that first experience for her. Sit back, have a listen and maybe take some notes.