Jason VanRuler joins More than Roommates to discuss his book "Discovering your Communication Type." This episode dives into how your communication style and attachment patterns are shaping your marriage—often without you realizing it. By understanding how you and your spouse are wired, you can stop repeating the same conflicts and start building deeper connection.

Discussion Questions:

1- Which communication type do you think you are? What about your spouse?

2- Where do your differences help your marriage? Where do they create tension?

3- Do you tend to avoid hard conversations or over-address them? Why?

4- How did your family growing up shape the way you communicate now?

5- Which attachment style do you most relate to (secure, anxious, avoidant)?

6- What’s one small communication habit you can practice this week?

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Discovering Your Communication Type by Jason VanRuler