If you're a single physician struggling with dating, you're not alone. The demands of medicine can make finding love feel overwhelming, whether you're hesitant to put yourself out there, dating after divorce, or unsure if a fulfilling relationship is possible. On today's episode, I'm joined once again by relationship and transformation coach Sydney Ashland to dive into the realities of dating as a doctor. Through a Dear Abby-style format, we explore common challenges, including confidence struggles, work-life balance, and the pressure of finding the right partner.

In this episode we're talking about:

• The unique challenges of dating as a busy physician.
• How to build confidence and step into dating with a positive mindset.
• Balancing work demands with making space for relationships.
• Addressing fears, perfectionism, and patterns that may be holding you back.
• Strategies for dating apps, meeting people organically, and expanding your social circle.
• Navigating the pressures of wanting children and making relationship decisions on a timeline.

Links for this episode:

https://sydneyashland.com/

https://sydneyashland.com/physician-business-coaching-and-consulting/

https://www.amyporterfield.com/2025/01/748/

https://kevinmd.com/2018/01/top-10-lies-doctors-tell.html

https://doctorscrossing.com/19/

Books:

Why Mars and Venus Collide: Improving relationships by Understanding How Men and Women Cope Differently With Stress. By John Gray (also available in audio CD).

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

Attached – The New Science of Attachment – How it Can Help You Find And Keep Love. By Amir Levine and Rachel Heller.

Please Understand Me: Character and Temperament Types by David Keirsey

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