How can we best prepare ourselves for our own passing and how can we best support others in the dying process? In the immediate period after someone passes away, loved ones should seek to gather in their house (or a place where they felt most at home) to connect to their spirit and share merits. Holding this space lovingly is wonderful service and can be a huge support.  One should reflect on the wholesome deeds the dying person has done in their life and provide encouragement to let go of any regrets so that there is a feeling that affairs are settled.