When grief hits, it does not follow a neat little schedule. In this heartfelt Whinypaluza Wednesday conversation, Rebecca Greene and Seth Greene talk openly about the loss of their dog Tanner, the emotional roller coaster of grief, and what it looks like to keep parenting, working, and showing up while carrying sadness. Rebecca shares how grief can move through denial, anger, bargaining, sadness, and acceptance all in the same day, while Seth offers the kind of simple support people actually need in hard moments.

This episode also explores how grief shows up in kids, why honesty matters, how routines can help, and what not to say to someone who is hurting. Rebecca offers practical ways families can walk through grief together with more compassion, more patience, and a little more grace.

→ Grief does not move in a straight line, and there is no timetable for how long it should last

→ Bargaining often sounds like what if, if only, and the painful replay of choices you wish you could redo

→ Kids may show grief through clinginess, irritability, headaches, sleep changes, or silence

→ Parents do not need to hide sadness from their children because seeing emotions handled in a healthy way teaches resilience

→ Rituals like photo albums, candles, notes, songs, or keepsakes can help families honor loss together

→ The best support is simple, honest, and kind. Not be strong. Not move on. Just I’m sorry. I’m here for you.

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