It’s fun to imagine ourselves walking around in the dream we have mapped out for the next stage in our life. We are told by many in the field of self-improvement to do just that. I love it. I can see where I am, what I am doing, what I’m wearing and even imagine that it all goes smoothly.

Yet, something often gets in the way, and I start to sabotage myself. Can you relate? If not, yay for you but if you are like me and start sabotaging what it is you really want in life, ask yourself why do we do that? Why do we start doing little things that essentially sabotage our dreams?

Ladies, we’re afraid. We’re afraid of that BIG dream actually coming true. But wait! Are you kidding me??? Really??? I can’t possibly be afraid of my dream coming true right???