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  • How to Get What You Want in a Relationship: Part 2

    Brett and Christa introduce another skill called DEAR MAN to help you get what you want in your relationship without losing your relationship. In fact, not using skills like DEAR MAN might be the reason some relationships are in jeopardy!

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    28 min
  • How to Get What You Want in a Relationship: Part 1

    Want to speak up for yourself, but you’re afraid it’ll threaten your relationship? Brett and Christa introduce the GIVE skill – a skill that allows you to ask for what you need while making sure your relationship stays intact and even improves!

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    32 min
  • The FAST Skill: Interpersonal Effectiveness

    Interpersonal effectiveness skills are essential for every area of life. In every relationship, we can learn to get what we want, maintain the relationship, and maintain our self-respect. In this episode, Brett and Christa address how many of us deny ourselves and defer to others, which results in not only losing our sense of self, but also in resentment toward others. Listen and learn how to maintain your self-respect without being selfish while also practicing good self-care.

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    27 min
  • What is Biosocial Theory?

    Has anyone ever said these things to you?

    • You're so emotional!
    • You need to calm down.
    • Why are you so sensitive?

    If you're inclined to be more sensitive, emotional, or expressive, life can be difficult. Sometimes, people have expectations of you that you can't live up to. In this episode, Brett and Christa unpack why we're either more emotional or facts-driven and how to feel confident no matter what kind of person you are.

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    31 min
  • Exploring Dialectical Thinking, Part 2

    Assuming that everything is connected and has a cause actually calms us down and increases our quality of life. This week, Brett and Christa highlight the final assumption of DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy). They help us see that simple, intentional changes in how we see the world can change our lives.

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    35 min
  • There's More to The Story... Exploring Dialectical Thinking

    Often times we get into trouble when we think of people in simplistic terms, also known as "all or nothing thinking". This mode of thinking disrupts our society and leads to suffering and stagnation. We can truly find real change and improved quality of life when we simply add a little more to how we think. Christa and Brett will address this new way of thinking, called Dialectical thinking, and illustrate how truly life-changing it can be.

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    34 min
  • Everyone is Doing Their Best: The Four Agreements, Part 4

    In this episode, Brett and Christa share a different take on the Fourth Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz’s “The Four Agreements.” They discuss how when we choose to believe that “everyone is doing their best,” life and the holidays get a lot better for us.

     

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    31 min
  • Don’t Believe Everything You Think: The Four Agreements, Part 3

    Don't make assumptions. In this episode, Brett and Christa get into the Third Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz’s “The Four Agreements.”  They discuss how we often make assumptions about others, reality, and ourselves that we believe to be facts but are actually just...assumptions. They also talk about how our assumptions are often negative and lead us to believe the worst in people and ourselves. 

    Listen to learn how to avoid and replace our assumptions and get closer to others this holiday season!

     

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    31 min
  • It's Not About You: The Four Agreements, Part 2

    "Nothing other people do is because of you.” In this episode, Brett and Christa get into the Second Agreement from don Miguel Ruiz’s “The Four Agreements”: Don’t Take Anything Personally. Learn about the freedom of realizing this agreement and how it can even help you “cope ahead” for seeing family this holiday season. 

     

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    34 min
  • Avoid a "Should-y" Holiday with The Four Agreements

    In this four-part series, Brett and Christa review the popular self-help book, The Four Agreements, by don Miguel Ruiz. This episode covers "Be Impeccable With Your Word," and explains how to empower yourself with the creative force of your words.

     

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    32 min

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Do you find therapy overwhelming? It doesn’t have to be. The concepts in therapy are simple and practical, and you can use them to change your life today!