If you have been listening and hanging out with us, thank you so much!! For those of you and for the new people here you're probably wondering who the heck are we? Why should I listen? How did these girls gain 6.9 million followers on TikTok? Our story isn't all glamorous, and gaining followers on TikTok didn't come easy, and we are so much more than silly girls on the internet. We hope this episode can help you understand who we are, why we are the way that we are, and we hope it helps you feel a little more connected and part of what we are doing. So grab your favorite drink, a blanket and hang out with us as we dive into our story!

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Remember the days of practicing kissing on your hand or in the mirror? Ok maybe that was just us lol. Are you a good kisser? Or a bad kisser? Or how does one even know if you're good or bad, unless of course someone tells you. We've also all been there, awkward bad kissers and us on the receiving end of it. We discuss what we think makes a good kisser or not. Of course were not experts by any means, but we are just sharing our opinion based on experience. And for the guys listening, we share what makes us girls go crazy when we're being kissed. So grab a drink, get comfortable and enjoy!

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We sat down with adult film star Eli Tucker who has amassed a huge following on OnlyFans, starred in a number of popular adult films, and dated some of the hottest porn stars. We learned about his life and how he got into the industry. He opens up about his experience with this profession and how it affects his personal and dating life. We also discover the behind the scenes secrets of the porn industry. Eli also shares tips on how to spice things up in the bedroom, how to squirt, and for the guys how to work it when you're not as blessed down there. 

This episode is explicit and contains sensitive subject matter.

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This year we are celebrating Galentine's Day! Why are couples celebrated so much? It's time we embrace loving ourselves and celebrating our friends and the people in our lives that we do love even if we don't have a significant other. In this episode we discuss our thoughts on Valentine's Day and while it is a fun and special day if you are in a relationship, it shouldn't be a day of loneliness and comparison. We dive into our Valentine's Day memories and we also share some Valentine's Day horror stories. We also have some advice for the men out there that may feel stuck trying to figure out what to do for their lady on this holiday. Remember to love yourself, grab your favorite drink, a blanket and hang out with us!

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In this episode we talk all things dating apps! The good, the bad and the weird. We break down how to find a rich guy on an app if that's what you're into and what to look for if you want love. We also share crazy dating app horror stories so you know what to stay away from. So grab a drink and hang out with us!

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We spoke with Timmy Swerve, the winner of Love Island USA season 4. Timmy gives us the real raw details of what goes down on the reality show Love Island. How he survived without his phone, TV, social media, and his family. He explains how he was discovered and first approached by the producers. He also lets us in on the details of his breakup between him and Zeta and what really happened to Zimmy. He explains his side of the story and how he's truly feeling. What he wishes did and didn't happen and how he was backstabbed by Zeta. Timmy is going through a public breakup and that’s always hard. So we thought we’d lighten the mood and play "would you rather" and you won't believe some of the stuff he would rather do. This is by far one of our favorite hangs we’ve had.

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We sat down with Marsha Molinari, a fashion and nightlife icon who is friends with Katy Perry, Paris Hilton, Rihanna and many more... She takes us through her inspiring yet tough journey of the obstacles she had to overcome to get to where she is today. Opening up to her religious family about her transition and changed pronouns from he/him to she/her. How she went from odd jobs to becoming a partner in The h.wood Group, who's iconic portfolio of luxury nightclubs and restaurants have been a staple for most A list celebrities including Beyonce, Kendall Jenner, Katy Perry, Leonardo DiCaprio and so many more! Marsha has now made her mark in the podcasting world! She has a very successful podcast called MARSHA! MARSHA! MARSHA! So grab your favorite drink and enjoy! 

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We all have that one person. Someone we've dated, they ghosted us, then they started dating someone new and every once in a while they reach out, out of nowhere. That makes us ask the question of is it ok to text an ex, or an old fling when you have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Would you be mad if your partner texted an ex or an old situationship? Should you let their girlfriend/boyfriend know if they text you? We also dive into our experience at the Scientology Center where we thought we were taking an acting class, but it turned out to be something totally different! We also share listener stories and give our take.

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*** TRIGGER WARNING- This episode discusses details of domestic physical abuse

This episode is very different from the rest. We love to be silly and have fun but we promised ourselves we would be authentic and real on this podcast. Although we are goofy and don’t take life too seriously, we have our struggles just like everyone else. Julia opens up about her abusive relationship for the first time and goes into detail of her experience in hopes that anyone out there going through something similar will feel less alone, and to get help and get out. Please be kind when listening, this wasn’t easy for us to record.

If you or someone you know is or may be experiencing abuse, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline, available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233 or text “START” to 88788. Live chat is also available on the National Domestic Violence Hotline website.

Teen survivors of domestic abuse can call Love Is Respect, a dedicated hotline for young people, at 1-866-331-9474. Love Is Respect also offers a text line and online chat features.

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This is our 20th episode! What a great way to kick off the new year! Speaking of the new year, we went to an LA party dressed up in ridiculous piñata outfits because it was onesie themed, but no one dressed up and everyone looked super hot. It took a lot of self talk and confidence to get through the night. The funny part was that the hottest guys at the party wanted to talk to us! So today we are talking about confidence and how it goes deeper. Its a vibe you give off that will make people drawn to you. We talk about how to be confident even when you don't feel confident. We also call real guys and ask them what makes a girl irresistible to them. We hope this episode inspires you to be your confident self!

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