Commitment: From this moment on, I joyfully promise to never give up
on my dreams and goals. I choose to remember always that the whole world is
mine to explore, and I need never be alone in figuring it out and making it
just right. That I was born worthy and
loveable without condition and whatever brought me to this place is just the
journey to my present and future self and not the sum total of who I am or who
A Course In Miracles lesson 27:
“Above all else I want to see” Seeing past the distress towards the light,
seeing past all of our false illusions. Tired of being depressed, tired of
holding resentments over petty issues.
It’s important to understand how and why things are going well instead of assuming it’s
just luck. As if you tripped over the good feeling and can never get it back
again. It is our brain that decides whether something is good or bad. I was in the car the other day driving to
help my friend pick up her daughter and we were stuck in traffic.
1) I Never question my value as a human
c) Empathy with my younger self and remember that I
2) Go back to the young child that feels bad:
a) Travel back with present-day confident and
older self, and all of the people around me and remind the little girl that she
is good, deserving of love and respect, and that everything will be ok
3) Handle and allow feelings
a) When emotions arise, try to observe them from an
outside perspective and take note of their characteristics such as color,
shape, size, and physical sensations like temperature and location in the body.
Allow the feelings to happen without judgment.
b) It’s important to keep in mind that experiencing
emotions doesn't necessarily mean that something has gone wrong.
c) Keep in mind that our emotions are connected to your
thought, over which we have some level of control.
4) Remember that thoughts are fleeting and malleable
a) Find a better feeling or ladder thought
b) Know what your thoughts are
5) Have Fun with our thinking
a) Instead of getting upset, try to be curious
about the thoughts your brain is offering. Remember that these thoughts will
come and go, but being hard on ourselves will only make the suffering worse.
b) Find the silver lining or whatever is amusing
about what you are thinking.
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