In this episode, Tim and Tuesday dig into masculinity, leadership, and the cultural fallout of bullying and toxic masculine norms. They unpack why authoritarian leadership models are gaining traction, how fear and division shape today’s politics, and why our individual choices in community engagement matter more than ever.

The conversation moves through political discontent, the citizen–state relationship, and what people look for in leaders during times of crisis. Tim and Tuesday also examine the rise of the Manosphere, the search for purpose and belonging among young men, and how those needs can fuel harmful identities.

They close with lessons from history and the power of reconnecting with ancestral stories as a guide through modern challenges.

Resources:

• Learn more about, and follow, The Outside by visiting and liking all of our channels:
• Website: www.findtheoutside.com
• Facebook & Instagram: @findtheoutside
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/findtheoutside
• Connect with us at [email protected]
• Watch Tuesday’s podcast with her husband, Gibrán Rivera: Episode 1.4 - “Reclaiming The Divine Masculine”
• BBC Documentary: “Men of the Manosphere,” by James Blake
• BBC Documentary: “Empire with David Olusoga"
• Song: “Thatcher Fucked The Kids,
• ” by Frank Turner
• Check out The Outside’s online course: Berkana Two Loops of Systems Change
• Tim & Tuesday also offer keynotes on the Two Loops - contact us to learn more!
• Dr. Martin Shaw - “What gets exiled, comes back hostile.”

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On today’s episode, Tuesday and Tim crack open the powerful themes of dissolution and reinvention - and what they mean for the future of our communities. From environmental protection to collaborative care, they explore why some systems need to be allowed to fade out so that fresh, community-driven alternatives can rise. It’s a lively, thought-provoking conversation about clearing space for what’s next and building structures that actually work. Tune in for an inspiring dive into renewal, resilience, and the courage to start again.

Resources

• Learn more about, and follow, The Outside by visiting and liking all of our channels:
• Website: www.findtheoutside.com
• Facebook & Instagram: @findtheoutside
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/findtheoutside
• Connect with us at [email protected]
• Check out The Outside’s online course - Berkana Two Loops of Systems Change - https://onlinecourses.findtheoutside.com/courses/berkana-two-loops
• Berkana Institute - “Start anywhere, follow it everywhere!”
• “No woman is required to build the world by destroying herself.” ― Rabbi Sofer

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Get ready for an inspiring and heartfelt conversation with Dennis Adams, as he opens up about what it really means to live fully and age gracefully! Dennis dives into the power of surrounding yourself with the right people, finding joy in everyday moments, and staying true to who you are. From embracing authenticity and building genuine connections to facing your fears with courage, this episode is packed with wisdom and warmth. Tune in for a refreshing reminder that living with purpose isn’t about perfection — it’s about growth, gratitude, and the people who lift us up along the way.

Resources:

• Learn more about, and follow, The Outside by visiting and liking all of our channels:
• Website: www.findtheoutside.com
• Facebook & Instagram: @findtheoutside
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/findtheoutside
• Connect with us at [email protected]
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• Dennis Adams, Executive Director/Chief Harmony Officer, LOVE Nova Scotia
• LOVE Nova Scotia (Leave Out Violence, Nova Scotia)
• “One cannot be fully happy if they don’t care equally about their family and community.“ - African proverb

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In this soul-stirring episode, Tim and Tuesday dive deep into the rhythms of change, the mystery of time, and the power of presence. Together, they unpack the tension between reflecting on the past and embracing the unknown ahead. With honest stories and thoughtful insights, they explore emotional maturity, the evolving role of men’s work, and what it means to build truly supportive spaces. Tune in for a conversation that invites you to slow down, stay curious, and discover moments of joy—even in the chaos.

Resources

• Learn more about, and follow, The Outside by visiting and liking all of our channels:
• Website: www.findtheoutside.com
• Facebook & Instagram: @findtheoutside
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/findtheoutside
• Connect with us at [email protected]

• “Tyranny of the finish line” - Chris Corrigan
• 6.02: Outside Conversations with Chris Corrigan + Caitlin Frost - On the reciprocity of community
• 6.09: Outside Conversations with Brett Kencairn - On the promise of the fourth wave
• Upcoming podcast guest, Dennis Adams, LOVE Nova Scotia
• “Seven Rules of Life”
• "Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” - Howard Thurman

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We’re back — and we’re not playing it safe. In this exuberant Season 8 kickoff, Tim and Tuesday dive headfirst into life’s crossroads, where change isn’t just inevitable — it’s fuel for something greater. They’re talking bold pivots, fresh perspectives, and what it really takes to lift your gaze when the road gets rough. This isn’t just reflection — it’s ignition. Tune in. 

Resources:

Learn more about, and follow, The Outside by visiting and liking all of our channels:

• Website: www.findtheoutside.com
• Facebook & Instagram: @findtheoutside
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/findtheoutside
• Connect with us at [email protected]
• What is significant for you with the Number 8? Let us know!
• Tuesday’s new work - “Rooted In Light": www.tuesdayrivera.com

Upcoming Guests:

• Dennis Adams, Executive Director/Chief Harmony Officer, LOVE Nova Scotia
• Sommer Sibilly-Brown, Founder, Virgin Islands Good Food
• Chris Keevil, CEO of multiple organizations
• Meg Buzzi, Owner, fixchr
• Caroline Blackwell
• Briana Miller
• Adam Kahane, Co-Founder of Reos Partners + Author
• Juanita Brown, Founder of the World Café

St. Croix Foundation for Community Development

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In the final episode of Season 7, Tim and Tuesday are re-joined by Dr. Gabrielle Donnelly and Gian Paul Ganzoni, where they all reflect on their season’s journey, diving into themes of courageous leadership, nature as a guide, and the power of community. These four powerhouses explore the tension between speed and stillness, the need for self-care, and how intentional action can drive personal and professional transformation - especially in times of crisis.

For links and resources, please visit: https://www.findtheoutside.com/podcast

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In this rich and thoughtful conversation, Tim and Tuesday delve into the themes of integration, imagination, and the courage it takes to face darkness—both personal and collective—in times of societal upheaval. Drawing inspiration from Ursula K. Le Guin’s radical storytelling to the recent SSIR article on systems collapse, they explore alternatives to traditional heroic narratives and consider other ways to creatively navigate the current polycrisis. The discussion weaves together reflections on war, relationships, and the pursuit of peace, highlighting how deep bonds often form in extreme circumstances. Tim and Tuesday talk about the concept of "islands of sanity"—spaces of refuge and clarity amidst chaos—and the vital role of community in fostering resilience. They also explore the practical side of peace: how daily practices, honest self-reflection, and intentional connection can help build a more compassionate world, even in the face of difficulty. Ultimately, this episode invites listeners to imagine new models of creation, grounded in both hope and reality.

For links and resources, please visit: https://www.findtheoutside.com/podcast

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On today’s episode of Find The Outside, Tuesday and Tim dive into the art of unwinding—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. They share personal stories and practical insights about how tuning into the body can transform how we lead, live, and heal. From finding motivation to navigating tough moments, Tuesday and Tim explore how body awareness fuels emotional intelligence and personal growth. They break down the connection between movement and mindfulness, and how trusting our instincts—especially in high-pressure situations—can make us better leaders and facilitators.

This honest, thoughtful conversation also tackles the impact of trauma and the wisdom our bodies hold. If you're curious about the intersection of embodiment, leadership, and healing, this episode is for you.

For links and resources, please visit: https://www.findtheoutside.com/podcast

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On today’s episode, Tim and Tuesday reflect on the choices we make and what we release as we step into new chapters. They share their evolving connection with nature, the effects of climate change on that relationship, and the physiological benefits of time spent outdoors. The conversation weaves through themes of letting go, navigating transitions, and shifting from strategy to wisdom—both personally and professionally. They unpack the emotional challenges of handing off responsibilities, especially with age, and emphasize the value of embracing change, finding calm in urgency, and leading with integrity when leaving a legacy behind.

For links and resources, please visit: https://www.findtheoutside.com/podcast

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Outside Conversations with Toke Moeller: On the practices that allow opposites to exist (Best of Find The Outside: The Podcast)

Originally published on July 6, 2022, this episode welcomes long-time friend, and mentor, Toke Moeller, co-founder of the Art of Hosting, The Flow Game, and The Practising for Peace dojo. Toke is one of the most grounded, pragmatic and visionary leaders we know. The conversation dives deep into the practices which can serve you both personally, professionally, and collectively, the need to slow down in the face of urgency, the understanding, practicing, and seeking of wisdom, the building of capacity to build more capacity for future generations, and how you can connect to the momentum from, what Toke calls, “Life Force.”

This episode is timeless and one we recommend to our clients, colleagues and friends again and again. We hope you find the magic in it. Enjoy.

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