Find Your Voice

"Empower yourself"

The incredible Dr Laura Cole joins Aren Deu on this weeks Find Your Voice in an amazing interview. Dr Laura Cole is a certified sign language interpreter (BEI III and RID-CI) as well as holding an MSW degree from Gallaudet and a Doctorate of Spiritual Studies from Emerson Institute. She is a life coach, interpreter trainer, and CEO of Inspirational Outcomes.

Her new book is also out now too: https://amzn.to/34msDyB

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An interesting conversation navigating around spirituality, intuitive pulls from the universe, values and living out our passions and truly finding our purpose.

Some useful time stamps:

02:05 Who is Dr Laura Cole

08:50 Understanding the higher power in the universe

12:55 Listening to your intuition and gut

25:05 Reticular activation system

35:00 Gratitude explained

42:48 Fun part of the show

48:30 Legacy

I urge you to follow her journey and I thank you once more for tuning in:)

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

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Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

Links to guest:

Website: https://www.drlauracole.com/

Book: https://amzn.to/34msDyB

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"Your not given everything you can handle, but you have to learn to live with everything your handed" - By Rosaria Kozar #119

Rosaria Kozar, the mother of a warrior, joins Aren Deu on today's episode of Find Your Voice. Hosting her own show, that speaks to paediatricians, survivors, parents, and other applicable organizations in the paediatric cancer world Rosaria shares her own story of overcoming and dealing with adversity in her life.

Sadly through the life of her child to a rare form of cancer, Rosarias mission in life has pivoted to one of now inspiring and giving others the beauty of HOPE!

A rollercoaster of a conversation, but what an absolutely courageously strong women Rosaria is. Someone who can teach us all about resilience, coping and thriving even past our darkest days.

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I urge you to follow her journey and I thank you once more for tuning in:)

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

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Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

Links to guest:

Podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/living-with-scanxiety-cancer-podcast-OeSm59kp3WV/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Livingwithscanxiety/about/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livingwithscanxiety/

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Ben Woodward has one of the most remarkable stories, and his ability to handle adversity is second to none. Someone who has been hit with obstacles throughout his growing life, he now shares his perspective, lessons and amazing journey. A truly amazing gentlmen, who is now an author of the incredible Empowerment Paradox book which looks at Seven Vital Virtues to Turn Struggle Into Strength Hardcover.

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Timestamps:

[05:15] Ben's incredible perspective on adversity

[16:00] Ben's experience of anxiety & patience

[20:08] Engage your imagination

[28:00] All or nothing thinking

[32:00] Finding purpose through suffering or service

[44:00] Ben's message to his younger self

More information:

Ben Woodward has become a highly sought after authority on personal and corporate transformation, helping individuals and organizations alike navigate through the complex and often uncomfortable journey of meaningful, lasting, and positive change. 

As the author of the best selling book, The Empowerment Paradox, Ben is quickly becoming the go-to person for empowering others in their efforts to turn adversity, struggle and suffering into strength, meaning and purpose. 

In his training, workshops, and speaking assignments Ben is able to draw upon a wealth of business and life experiences to give unique insights. He speaks specifically to our ability to turn crisis into opportunity, the virtues and attributes of inspirational leadership, helping organizations fall in love with corporate vision and empowering teams to become their very best. His experience with growing multi-billion dollar organizations as well as stuck mature businesses, excited new start ups, and enthusiastic entrepreneurs ensures his message is one that is relevant for all audiences.

Critically, Ben’s own personal experience with adversity and his determination to understand it, overcome it and be empowered by it provides an emotional potency to his message that is undeniable. Incredibly, his knack for making the audience laugh at his entertaining stories and anecdotes ensures audience members are informed, inspired, encouraged and entertained. 

As a strategist and coach Ben helps people find hidden strength when confronting complex or chronic challenges. Importantly, he takes people beyond the surface of the symptomatology of suffering and empowers them to turn this new found personal strength into value, and from there, turn value and purpose into inspirational identity and meaning. His online courses utilize blended learning techniques to ensure personal growth and transformation for all participants.

Buy The Book:

https://amzn.to/2QL1UWf

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

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Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

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Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

Links to guest:

Ben woodward: http://www.ben-woodward.com/

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"Selfless Kayla" by Dr Kayla Marmaros

Wow what an informative episode, I am grateful to share with you today with the amazing Dr Kayla. As you may tell from this episode, my own anxiety was a little up in the air but I managed to salvage myself and move the conversation to the insightful Kayla who drops some incredible words of wisdom.

For anyone struggling with anxiety, guilty, depression or mental health than this episode will certainly help you find your voice and more importantly get your health back on track. I sincerely hope you enjoyed it and please do check out and support Kayla below:

Pillar Mind and Behavior offers counseling services that use evidence-based treatments to address emotional distress, behavioral concerns, and psychological diagnoses that are interfering with day-to-day living. The private and comfortable office provides a safe space for children, adolescents, and young adults to confront and work through personal challenges. Taking that first step can be intimidating, but showing up for oneself is often half the battle.

The mission of Pillar Mind and Behavior is to provide quality client care while serving as a source of support, knowledge, and guidance for each individual.

Timestamps:

[07:25] Anxiety explained by Dr Kayla

[19:20] The importance of Exposure Therapy

[26:10] Restructure your thoughts

[38:30] How we always judge ourselves

[56:20] Final Message about therapy approach

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

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Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

Links to guest:

Kayla Marmaros, PhD, MS, LMHC, CBT-certified

Website: https://www.pillarmindandbehavior.com/about/

Pillar Mind and Behavior, LLC

1550 Madruga Avenue Suite 312

Coral Gables, Florida 33146

Www pillarmindandbehavior.com

786-332-4340

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"Gifted" by Chantelle Speaks

Chantelle helps the youth find their gifted purpose, by reframing their mindset around adversity. An inspiring women has overcome and seen so much in her own life, she is now ensuring she leaves an everlasting impact herself. Conscious of her own mistakes growing up, Chantelle is also wise enough to acknowledge them and learn from those. She is now trying her absolute best working on some incredible ventures to help the youth of today see their lives differently, and change it, or reframe their perspectives at the very least, to live a happier more fulfilling life. Finding your purpose takes courage, just as finding your voice does, and as Chantelle has begun to do this she is now taking others along on the journey with her.

Timestamps:

[04:00] Chantelle uses her own adversity

[14:30] The healing process

[27:00] Chantelles habits

[43:45] Love yourself

Please follow her journey below:

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

Podcast equipment recommended:

Rodecaster Pro: https://amzn.to/2M36Lj5

Rode podmic: https://amzn.to/36yfYcy

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Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

Links to guest:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/chantelle.speaks

Email: [email protected]

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Chantelle.Speaks2020/

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"It's not the end of the world" - Swey Jitti #115

This episode, although focusing on the adversity of dealing with mental abuse (mother) and physical abuse (father) throughout her childhood years, displays one of hope, courage, strength and an incredible turnaround. What an incredibly resilient women Swey Jitti is, as she shares so openly her vulnerable story about her life growing up leading her to where she is today.

Having triumphed through dark days, that would have caused even the strongest amongst us to fold under, Swey went onto Cambridge University to perserevere with her dreams of achieving her goals and never letting the cards she was dealt, be an excuse.

Now an active mental health advocate, a coach, author and musician, Swey brings an impactful story live to find your voice which I am 100% positive you will all enjoy listening too. I urge you all to follow her journey and be sure to let me know what you thought about this episode! I hope to be back in the swing of things again as we ramp up Find Your Voice for the second half of 2020.

If you ever need help on how to survive abuse from parents, I certainly recommend Swey.

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

Podcast equipment recommended:

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Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

Links to guest:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/sweysings

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/swadhin-jitti

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For many of us, we never quite feel we have enough. Whether it is instagram likes, facebook shares, youtube views or money! The sad problem with this is, we never truly know when enough, is enough. We never truly know if what we have is actually enough to make us happy if we stopped looking for the next big thing.

The transcript for the story Ryan Holiday talks about in this episode is here:

“The knowledge that I have enough”

The reason I help people for FREE most of the time, is NOT because I have less value than those who charge, or hate selling or struggle with imposter syndrome.

It’s because of this 60 second clip which explains something I wish more people could truly understand.

Until this becomes a reality, you will always prioritise money over the more important things in life without sometimes even knowing it.

👇👇👇👇

Joe Heller

True story, Word of Honor:

Joseph Heller, an important and funny writer

now dead,

and I were at a party given by a billionaire

on Shelter Island.

I said, “Joe, how does it make you feel

to know that our host only yesterday

may have made more money

than your novel ‘Catch-22’

has earned in its entire history?”

And Joe said, “I’ve got something he can never have.”

And I said, “What on earth could that be, Joe?”

And Joe said, “The knowledge that I’ve got enough.”

Not bad! Rest in peace!”

— Kurt Vonnegut

The Youtube channel I am very passionate about is still being regularly uploaded so please support that if you have a chance, or care too and the facebook group I mentioned in this episode can also be found here: https://www.facebook.com/findyourvoicepodcast/

I wish you all well and reach out if you ever need anything.

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

Podcast equipment recommended:

Rodecaster Pro: https://amzn.to/2M36Lj5

Rode podmic: https://amzn.to/36yfYcy

Rode NT-USB - https://amzn.to/2X7LsDp

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Canon Powershot SX730 HS - https://amzn.to/2yQkbs6

Canon EOS 4000D DSLR Camera and EF-S 18-55 mm f/3.5-5.6 III Lens - https://amzn.to/2WYtWkT

Nikon D5300 - https://amzn.to/3c825mN

Logitech BRIO 4K webcam - https://amzn.to/3enEuA1

Sony a6500 mirrorless - https://amzn.to/2ZAOJfW

Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

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For many of us anxiety has always been a part of our life, for others it is now a new occurence more so due to the pressures of the lockdown and uncertainty facing us today. Whether that is for our safety, our occupation or the welfare of those around us, we often now find ourselves unsure, overwhelemed and left with this feeling in our stomachs of a gut wrenching feeling of dread.

This short episode hopefully explains why the podcast episodes have started to slow down but also speaks bout the find your voice live episodes which are now being recorded once a month too. It is with these episodes that I hope to see you listeners join us and ask guests and speakers questions you wish I had asked, but also to let you know that you are well and truly not alone.

The Youtube channel I am very passionate about is still being regularly uploaded so please support that if you have a chance, or care too and the facebook group I mentioned in this episode can also be found here: https://www.facebook.com/findyourvoicepodcast/

I wish you all well and reach out if you ever need anything.

Episode on Perfectionism:

https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq

Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4

Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ

Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL

Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice

Podcast equipment recommended:

Rodecaster Pro: https://amzn.to/2M36Lj5

Rode podmic: https://amzn.to/36yfYcy

Rode NT-USB - https://amzn.to/2X7LsDp

Cameras:

Sony DSCHX90 Digital - https://amzn.to/2TCAfID

Canon Powershot SX730 HS - https://amzn.to/2yQkbs6

Canon EOS 4000D DSLR Camera and EF-S 18-55 mm f/3.5-5.6 III Lens - https://amzn.to/2WYtWkT

Nikon D5300 - https://amzn.to/3c825mN

Logitech BRIO 4K webcam - https://amzn.to/3enEuA1

Sony a6500 mirrorless - https://amzn.to/2ZAOJfW

Podcast host (acast):

Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu

Links to me:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast

Website: https://www.arendeu.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...

Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe

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Jane shares her story from the slums to riches whilst creating a life she enjoys. She shows in this short podcast interview, her refusal to accept excuses and to remain curious about the things she wants to achieve. For many of us, resources may not always be available but, if we are willing to work hard and find those answers anything is possible as Jane Egerton demonstrates in this industry.

Bio:

A telecommunication executive with over 17 years’ experience in the Nigerian, Liberian and Ghanaian telecommunications markets. She holds an Engineering degree from the university of Nigeria and an MBA from Warwick Business school, UK. And an Executive education from Harvard Business School. She worked as part of the Ericsson Ghana and Liberia executive leadership team. Where she managed the Account teams for Ericsson in Ghana and Liberia. In 2019 she received the 50 Leading Ladies in Corporate Nigeria Leadership award

Jane is currently the country Manager Nigeria and Regional Sales Manager West Africa for Avanti Communications Ltd.

I hope you found this useful and please do watch the YouTube version which is coming out very soon!

Key time stamps:

03:40 Empowering women

07:05 Janes rise from the slums

12:35 Exposure and finding resources (the importance of this)

17:00 Learning to adapt

25:05 Being in the crisis and feeling sorry for yourself

31:00 Janes book journey

39:00 Janes anxiety

I urge you all to follow her journey below:

Episode on forgiveness:

https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk

Books to buy:

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Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js

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Life is totugh without adversity but when it strikes its always a good tip to know the things that will help us cope during those difficult times.

Transcript:

So life is tough enough as it is. Whether its striving for that next promotion, that 6 pac physique or juggling your hobbies with your children.

But what happens when adversity strikes and times become even more difficult?

Well this video will give you some steps to really protect your mental health and wellbeing during these times.

1. Write it down: Journalling or simply writing down what has happened is a key to removing the mismatch of ideas and scenarios you are creating in your head. You will likely jot more logical representations of what is actually going on and you are more likely to find a solution either to solve the difficulty you are facing or coping with it.
2. Tackle it. If it is something that can be tackled, then one of the sure fire ways to eliminate or ease your fears is to tackle it. Now ideally this should come after step 1, as you will likely have a better solution for tackling your difficulty.
3. Get support. Your friends and family are there to be leaned upon and not ignored or avoided during your times of difficulty. I have found personal strength, encouragement and support when I have found the courage to reach out in my moments of adversity and I cannot recommend it enough. If you are facing something more serious, especially mental health related, please see your GP and request further help.
4. Remind yourself of the last time you faced a challenge or time of difficulty and how you are still here today to watch this video or listen to this podcast. This can be your badge of honour or reminder to jog your memory of how resilient you are. 
5. Control the controllables. I speak about this more than I speak about anything but if we can remember this quote, mantra we will always have a better perspective on things we are able to control and cope with during difficult times.
6. Allow yourself some time to go through what your going through. If you are grieving, be kind to yourself and give yourself the time you need. If you are facing obstacles or difficulties that you want to scream and shout about, do it. Just don't let it become an everyday thing and know that at some stage you have to take that step forward and grow from the experience.
7. Prioritise your self care routines. These include working out, eating right, hydration, meditation etc. The things you know after doing them, positively benefit you are often the things we quickly neglect or stop doing when we need to do them the most.

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