Finding Hope After Loss | Hope in Infertility and Pregnancy Loss

Cheri Bergeron shares her extraordinary 10-year journey through infertility, IVF, pregnancy loss, TFMR, infant loss, and the fierce resilience it took to finally become a mother at 44 and 47.

Her path to motherhood was anything but traditional—marked by donor conception, genetic defects, heartbreaking loss, and a precedent-setting legal battle that challenged outdated “presumed father” laws. Through every setback, Cheri found a way to keep moving forward, redefining what it means to build a family on your own terms.

Cheri opens up about what it felt like to not lose hope after learning at five months pregnant that her daughter had a severe case of spina bifida incompatible with life. She discusses the emotional complexity of TFMR, and later, the unimaginable grief of losing her newborn son, who lived for just 19 days due to an undiagnosed genetic condition. Her story honors both of her babies and sheds light on how inaccessible testing can cost families everything.

We explore life after loss, how Cheri coped with trauma that spanned nearly every corner of reproductive health, and the resilience required to keep going when motherhood seems out of reach. She offers wisdom on coping with loss, honoring your children, navigating single motherhood by choice, and rebuilding your identity after repeated heartbreak. Her perspective is raw, empowering, and deeply validating for anyone navigating infertility, IVF, or pregnancy loss.

Cheri also shares the inspiration behind her book Mission: Motherhood and her nonprofit, Cheri’s Choice, which supports women pursuing motherhood on their own terms. With honesty, humor, and incredible strength, she reminds us that finding hope after loss is possible, even when the fairy tale looks nothing like you imagined.

If you have experienced infant loss, pregnancy loss, TFMR, infertility, or feel alone on your journey to motherhood, this episode will help you feel seen, understood, and empowered to write your own story.

Brooke shares her deeply personal infertility journey, marked by two years of trying to conceive while navigating the challenges of military life, long separations from her husband, and the emotional toll of constant negative tests. She opens up about the moment she felt called to leave her dream career in order to prioritize her family and the complex feelings that came with making that choice.

Brooke discusses the physical and emotional impact of endometriosis, a condition that left her in debilitating pain—often crying through work days—before finally receiving life-changing treatment and diagnosis. After undergoing endometriosis surgery, she experienced a dramatic improvement in her quality of life and now shares how Pelvic Rehabilitation Medicine (PRM) helped her relieve pain and reclaim hope. Her experience sheds light on the realities of women’s health, the barriers to proper diagnosis, and the financial strain of paying out of pocket for the care she needed.

Throughout the episode, Brooke talks about the insensitive comments she has received, the misunderstanding surrounding infertility, and the unique pressure placed on TTC couples, especially when the military lifestyle makes timing unpredictable. She reflects on the impact infertility has had on her marriage, the strain of living in cycles of waiting, and the mix of relief and sadness she feels when her husband is away during fertile windows.

One of the most inspiring parts of her story is the creation of Fertile Hope Photography—a project born from her desire to bring visibility and compassion to the infertility community. Brooke hopes to capture the honest, raw, and hopeful moments of every season of infertility, reminding others that there is beauty even in the hardest chapters. She explains why women may not want these moments photographed in the moment, yet often wish they had them later as part of their healing.

Brooke offers heartfelt infertility support, sharing practical advice for coping with infertility, holding onto hope during long seasons of waiting, and advocating for yourself when answers feel out of reach. Her story is a powerful reminder that infertility is not just a medical condition—it’s an emotional, relational, and mental health journey that requires compassion, resilience, and community.

If you’re looking for an infertility podcast episode that speaks to the truth of endometriosis, the reality of TTC, and the emotional layers of military infertility, Brooke’s story offers comfort, validation, and the reminder that hope can grow in unexpected places.

In this episode, Sarah sits down with Dr. Ashley Hudson—therapist, speaker, educator, and founder of Pearl in Process—for a deeply compassionate conversation about faith, fertility, intimacy, mental health, and healing. Ashley is known for bringing warmth, humor, and authenticity to discussions most people struggle to have, making this an essential listen for anyone navigating infertility, loss, or relationship challenges.

Ashley begins by sharing how she entered the world of perinatal mental health and how her faith-based values integrate beautifully with her work as a sexologist. She explains why talking about sex, intimacy, and emotional connection often feels overwhelming or shame-filled, and how cultural messages, fear, and past experiences contribute to silence around these topics. This episode is particularly rich for listeners who need faith and intimacy conversations that feel grounded, gentle, and inclusive.

Together, Sarah and Ashley explore how to communicate intimacy needs more openly, how to reconnect with your partner, and how acts of closeness outside the bedroom can be just as meaningful. Ashley also provides crucial insight for couples going through IVF, fertility treatment, and timed intercourse, describing how sexual connection often shifts into something goal-oriented, stressful, and emotionally heavy. This episode supports those needing IVF support, intimacy after loss, and guidance for navigating scheduled sex during treatment.

Ashley speaks powerfully about intimacy after loss, sharing how grief, trauma, and fear can rewire the brain, making sex feel unsafe or painful. She explains the bristle effect, the way the body becomes tied to memories of loss, and the therapeutic work needed to reclaim the body as a place where love, safety, and connection can live again. This is especially meaningful for those walking through pregnancy after loss, fertility struggles, and the lifelong impact of grief and loss.

The conversation also touches on differences in how men and women discuss intimacy, why partners often react differently, and how to support one another through emotional shutdowns or fear responses. Ashley offers gentle, practical tips for couples trying to reconnect after infertility, postpartum depression, or pregnancy loss.

If you’re seeking fertility podcast content that holds space for both faith and emotional honesty—or if you need encouragement in the areas of intimacy, IVF, pregnancy after loss, or healing after miscarriage—this episode offers hope, understanding, and actionable tools. It is full of wisdom for anyone coping with infertility, rebuilding connection, or searching for healing in their journey through loss.

Have you ever felt lost in your journey through infertility, IVF, or pregnancy loss, wondering if hope still exists? In this enlightening episode of "Finding Hope After Loss," host Sarah Cox engages in a heartfelt conversation with Anna from the Barbados Fertility Center, diving deep into the emotional and logistical challenges that accompany infertility and pregnancy loss. Together, they unravel the complexities of navigating these difficult paths while emphasizing the importance of individualized care and support.

Anna shares insights into how the Barbados Fertility Center prioritizes transparency and emotional wellness in their approach to fertility treatments. As they discuss the concept of medical tourism, listeners will discover how families from around the globe can access high-quality IVF in Barbados at a fraction of the cost compared to the U. S. This episode is a treasure trove of information for anyone grappling with infertility, pregnancy after loss, or coping with miscarriage.

Throughout their discussion, Sarah and Anna explore the stress that often accompanies fertility treatments and the critical need for mental health support during these trying times. They emphasize the value of personalized IVF care tailored to individual circumstances, which is particularly vital for those dealing with recurrent pregnancy loss or navigating the challenges of advanced maternal age.

Listeners will gain valuable knowledge about their options, empowering them to advocate for their health and well-being during their infertility journeys. Anna also highlights the significance of understanding various factors, such as age and health conditions like PCOS and fertility, that can impact one's ability to conceive after infertility.

This episode aims to create a supportive community for those experiencing loss and healing, offering resources and stories of resilience that inspire hope after tragedy. Whether you're seeking infertility support, coping with grief and loss, or looking for parenting after loss guidance, this conversation is filled with insights and encouragement.

Join us as we navigate this difficult terrain together, sharing stories of hope and healing that resonate with anyone touched by infertility, pregnancy loss, or the journey through loss. Tune in to discover how you can find joy after loss and embrace the possibilities of tomorrow.

Have you ever felt completely alone in your journey through recurrent pregnancy loss? You're not alone. Join host Sarah Cox as she welcomes Mel Clark, who bravely shares her deeply personal story of navigating the tumultuous waters of infertility, multiple miscarriages, and the emotional toll of a PCOS diagnosis. Mel’s journey through eight heartbreaking miscarriages reveals the stigma and insensitivity often faced from medical professionals, shedding light on the urgent need for compassion and understanding in the realm of infertility support.

Throughout this heartfelt conversation, Mel opens up about her decision to step back from trying to conceive, prioritizing her healing over societal expectations. She emphasizes the importance of having a strong support system during such trying times, highlighting how friends and family can provide the emotional well-being needed for those grappling with grief and healing. As she recounts her experiences, listeners will resonate with the complexities of grief, the impact of societal pressures, and the importance of carving out a personal path toward healing after loss.

Mel’s commitment to creating a support group for those experiencing similar struggles is a testament to her resilience and determination to help others find hope after loss. By sharing her story, she not only empowers herself but also provides a beacon of light for those navigating the dark waters of infertility and pregnancy loss. This episode is more than just a recount of Mel's journey; it’s a call to action for all of us to foster a community for loss and healing, where stories of resilience can be shared and celebrated.

As we explore the themes of coping with miscarriage, the emotional landscape of pregnancy after loss, and the journey through infertility, Mel’s insights offer invaluable resources for listeners. Whether you are dealing with advanced maternal age, seeking support for bereaved parents, or simply looking for stories of hope and healing, this episode is designed to uplift and inspire.

Discover how Mel found joy after loss and how you, too, can navigate your own infertility journey with grace and hope. Tune in for an episode that promises to touch your heart and ignite your spirit as we seek to understand the profound impact of recurrent pregnancy loss and the healing that can follow.

What if the path to healing after loss could lead to hope and new beginnings? In this deeply moving episode of "Finding Hope After Loss," host Sarah Cox engages in an intimate conversation with Fernanda Sheridan, who bravely shares her heart-wrenching journey through the devastating experiences of pregnancy loss, including the stillbirth of her beloved daughter, Natalie, and the heartache of losing her son, George. This episode is not just about grief; it’s about finding hope after loss and the resilience that can emerge from the darkest moments.

Fernanda opens up about the profound grief that enveloped her during these unimaginable times and the transformative journey that followed. She emphasizes the significance of creating supportive environments for grieving parents, a theme that resonates deeply with anyone who has faced the challenges of pregnancy after loss. Through her experiences, she has become an advocate for others, launching the Natalie Foundation, which aims to establish Rainbow Clinics across the U. S. These clinics will provide specialized care for women who have experienced pregnancy loss, creating safe spaces and tailored medical attention during subsequent pregnancies.

Throughout the episode, the conversation delves into the stigma surrounding pregnancy loss and the urgent need for better awareness and support systems. Fernanda speaks candidly about her personal struggles with navigating pregnancy after loss, shedding light on the emotional well-being in pregnancy and the importance of community for loss and healing. Her message is clear: mothers facing infertility, stillbirth, and recurrent pregnancy loss deserve compassion, understanding, and a network of support.

Listeners will find solace in Fernanda’s stories of resilience and hope after tragedy, as she encourages everyone to seek help, share their stories, and foster healing through connection. This episode is a beacon for those coping with miscarriage, infertility, and the complexities of parenting after loss. Join us as we explore the journey of healing after stillbirth and the powerful narratives that emerge from grief and loss. Together, we can create a community for bereaved parents and advocate for the resources that provide hope after loss.

Whether you’re navigating your own infertility journey, looking for pregnancy loss resources, or seeking inspiration from rainbow baby stories, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to discover how finding hope after trauma can lead to profound healing and a renewed sense of purpose.

In this deeply personal episode, Brittany shares the story of her son Mason and the day she went to the hospital in labor expecting a healthy baby, only to be told there was no heartbeat. She walks us through the shock of full-term stillbirth, the deafening silence in the operating room during her C-section, and the heartbreaking reality of holding her stillborn baby instead of hearing his first cry. Her honesty shines a light on the invisible trauma of stillbirth, pregnancy loss, and the way grief reshapes every part of life for loss parents.

Brittany opens up about life as a mom to both a living child and a baby in Heaven, navigating milestones, triggers, and the hard questions from her three-year-old who wonders why his brother can’t “just wake up.” She shares how compassionate nurses helped her through the worst days of her life, and how even simple things—like a first trip back to Target or seeing pregnant women—became overwhelming after stillbirth. Brittany talks about the mantra “not my baby, not my story,” the pressure she feels during October’s remembrance events, and the ongoing work of giving herself grace in a world that expects parents to move on quickly after pregnancy loss. She describes the loneliness that so often follows loss, the pressure to “be okay,” and how therapy, faith, and connecting with other loss moms have helped her find her footing again. Along the way, she offers compassionate insight into mental health after stillbirth and why both pregnancy loss awareness and stillbirth awareness matter so deeply.

Out of her pain, Brittany created Mason’s Way, offering pregnancy loss support for loss moms and custom memorial bracelets that give families a tangible way to carry their babies with them. Her work is a beautiful example of turning pain into purpose and creating safe, validating spaces for parents grieving a stillborn baby.

If you’ve experienced stillbirth, pregnancy loss, or are walking alongside someone who has, this conversation will help you feel seen, understood, and less alone. Brittany’s story is a powerful reminder that love for our babies never ends—and that there is space for both lifelong grief and life after loss.

In this deeply moving episode, Kara shares her infertility story and her journey through infertility, multiple rounds of IVF, and the devastating stillbirth of her daughter, Haley, at 38 weeks. A 44-year-old single mom to two living children, Kerrigan and Connor, and a full-time realtor in the Annapolis, MD area, Kara opens up about what it’s like to balance everyday life, motherhood, and parenting after loss while carrying lifelong grief.

She walks us through her pregnancies—conceiving Kerrigan through IVF, experiencing twin loss when Kerrigan’s sibling died early in pregnancy, and then being closely monitored in her pregnancy with Haley due to concerns about fertility, growth, and past complications. Just two days after being told she would have a “healthy, beautiful baby,” Kara noticed a big, painful movement followed by heartbreaking stillness. She describes the fear of not feeling kicks, the desperate attempts to get Haley to move, and the devastating silence in the hospital when no heartbeat could be found.

Kara talks honestly about the traumatic birth, the difficult medical decisions no parent should ever face, and the shock of postpartum recovery after a stillbirth—enduring all the physical changes with empty arms. She shares how her family lovingly dismantled the nursery before she came home, and how every bill, empty room, and quiet moment reminded her of all she had lost.

Years later, Kara is still navigating the long-term effects of infertility, memories of repeated IVF treatments, and the emotional complexities of pregnancy after loss. She reflects on the pain of fewer people remembering important dates over time, and the ways she keeps Haley’s memory alive—visiting her grave, releasing butterflies on her birthday, and allowing herself “scheduled grief time.”

Through vulnerability, healing, and remarkable resilience, Kara shows that we don’t “get over” loss or infertility; we learn to live with love and grief side by side. Her story is one of enduring strength, continuing hope, and the unbreakable bond between a mother and her child.

In this powerful episode of Finding Hope After Loss, Sarah sits down with Rachel to share her deeply personal journey of losing a baby, navigating faith, and finding light again after devastating heartbreak. Rachel opens up about the moment she discovered her son, Asher, no longer had a heartbeat at 18 weeks due to complications with the umbilical cord—an experience that forever changed her understanding of pregnancy, grief, and healing. With honesty and compassion, she reflects on the trauma of losing a baby, the shock of unexpected silence in the ultrasound room, and the painful hours that followed as she delivered her son and held his perfect little hands and feet.

Drawing from her background as a nurse and a mother walking through profound loss, Rachel talks about why men and women often grieve so differently, the challenge of supporting a spouse while enduring your own heartbreak, and the complicated emotions that shape parenting after loss. She also shares how journaling, faith, and understanding the history of pregnancy loss helped her process the weight of losing a baby and begin a slow, meaningful journey forward.

Rachel’s book, A Water Lily Among the Wildflowers, is at the heart of this conversation. She explains how it guides loss moms through questions about faith, sorrow, and the search for hope; offers pregnancy loss resources for both moms and dads; and provides practical ways to honor and remember a baby gone too soon. The discussion highlights the importance of support for bereaved parents, understanding how grief evolves over time, and recognizing that love continues long after death.

Throughout the episode, Rachel’s vulnerability shines as she describes trying to reconcile faith with tragedy, learning to trust God again, and slowly finding hope after trauma. She reminds listeners that losing a baby does not diminish the depth of a parent’s love—nor does it erase the possibility of finding joy after loss. Her story is a testament to resilience, the strength of a mother’s heart, and the healing that becomes possible when we allow ourselves to feel, question, and hope again.

This episode is for anyone touched by pregnancy loss, navigating grief, seeking grief and healing, or searching for signs of light after one of life’s darkest moments. It is a gentle reminder that even in the depths of sorrow, you are not alone—and that your journey through loss matters.

In this tender and faith-filled episode, Finding Hope After Loss host Sarah sits down with Ashley Opliger, founder of Bridget’s Cradles and author of Cradled in Hope, to share one of those deep stories of resilience that changes how you see grief and loss. Ashley opens up about losing a baby—her daughter Bridget, who was stillborn at 24 weeks—and how months of complications, bed rest, and a placental abruption led to the heartbreaking moment every parent dreads. She describes the shock, trauma, and the sacred hours her family spent holding Bridget in a tiny knitted cradle made by her mom, and how that small act of love became the start of a nationwide ministry offering support for bereaved parents and practical pregnancy loss resources in more than 1,600 hospitals.

Together, Sarah and Ashley talk honestly about grief and healing when your prayers feel unanswered and your faith feels shattered after baby loss. Ashley shares from her own crisis of faith—asking if God had abandoned her, wondering if she was being punished—and how those questions eventually shaped her book, a gentle biblical guide for loss moms at every stage: strong in faith, doubting, or not sure what they believe at all. They dig into topics like triggers, spiritual warfare, hurtful comments from friends and family, learning to extend grace, and what it looks like to walk with God in the darkest parts of your journey through loss.

The conversation also explores parenting after loss, pregnancy after loss, and the complicated mix of emotions that come with life after loss. Ashley describes celebrating milestones with her living sons while grieving all she missed with Bridget, and how joy and sorrow can coexist as part of ongoing grief and healing. She offers hope for healing after stillbirth, reminding listeners that a new baby never replaces the one who died, and that losing a baby is not something you “get over,” but something you carry with you as you slowly begin finding hope after trauma and finding joy after loss.

If you are losing a baby, have already walked through baby loss, or are supporting a friend who has, this episode is a compassionate companion. You’ll hear a real, honest look at grief and healing, plus encouragement, faith-filled hope, and tangible support for bereaved parents who are trying to piece together a life of meaning and love on the other side of grief and loss.