This week Alessandra joins Becky for a long-overdue catch-up on life behind the scenes, Kail’s difficult tonsillectomy recovery, adjusting to life with celiac disease, and the mental toll of being forced to slow down.

Alessandra opens up about work, relationships, why she has no interest in having a wedding, and learning to stop explaining herself.

Plus, they talk motherhood, their current favorite books and coffee obsessions, and why Alessandra thinks “the kids are unwell.”

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With Kail recovering from her tonsillectomy, longtime friend Sterling joins Becky as guest co-host for a hilarious, surprisingly heartfelt catch-up. Sterling opens up about her 70+ pound weight loss, dating in her 30s, motherhood, friendship, and what has kept her and Kail close for more than a decade.

She also spills behind-the-scenes stories from the Teen Mom days, reveals what Kail is really like as a friend, and Becky gets candid about adjusting to motherhood, her mental health, and why turning 36 feels like a fresh start.

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Tour is officially over, but the chaos definitely isn’t. Kail and Becky recap the final shows, questionable hotel choices, matching tattoos, post-show adventures, and the moments with listeners that made the entire tour hit differently.

Plus, Becky shares an update on couples therapy while Kail talks about preparing for surgery, celiac testing for the kids, and why they’re already plotting an even bigger and potentially more unhinged; Chaos Games tour for 2027.

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Kail and Becky are coming to you from Philly during the final stretch of tour, and somehow the conversation goes from Ireland plans to gluten-free kitchen prep to a butter dish saga in record time. They reflect on what surprised them most about taking the show on the road, finding their sweet spot with live audiences, and proving the people who said they couldn’t do it wrong.

They also get into Kail’s upcoming tonsil surgery, mental health and medication, why being open about the messy parts of life matters, and the very different people they were in high school. Plus, Becky’s headed to a high school reunion, old fight stories resurface, and they unpack just how intense school safety drills have become.

Between Philly nerves, plans to take the tour international, and Kail realizing her supposedly quiet fall is already filling up, one thing is clear: the chaos isn’t ending with tour.

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Kail and Becky are coming to you in real time as the final week of tour kicks off and somehow, they may have accidentally planned their entire next era in the process. What starts as brainstorming a potential Karma & Chaos tour quickly turns into dreams of an interactive game show, a YouTube series filled with questionable activities, and taking the chaos international.

Becky gives an update on settling into her new home and why downsizing has completely changed her perspective, while Kail prepares for the biggest and most nerve-racking shows of tour. They talk Philly nerves, the reality of touring behind the scenes, Kail’s new junk journaling obsession, and why sometimes the best memories are the ones you don’t film.

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Kail and Becky are back stateside and recapping the final stretch of their London and Paris adventure; from Jellycats and Becky’s first real first-class experience to questionable European food, Ukrainian coffee, Paris journals, and more!

They also reflect on the quieter moments that made the trip so special, including Becky’s time with Elliott, showing up for Lincoln’s soccer games, and why traveling together just works. Plus they look ahead to the final four stops of the Fatherless Behavior Tour including what’s sure to be an absolutely unhinged Philly show.

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Kail and Becky are officially in their London era. They recap soccer games, Chinatown, Camden Market, questionable Indian food, Jamaican beef patties, Becky’s chaotic train ride, and why London might actually be one of their favorite cities yet.

Kail also gives an update on the confusing back-and-forth surrounding her celiac testing, while the conversation somehow spirals into drunk cigarettes, souvenir guilt, vintage shopping, DNA results, carbonated coffee, and whether either of them is British enough to claim citizenship. Then Elliott joins in for a very questionable lesson in English history before everyone gets ready for the London live show and starts plotting where Karma & Chaos should go next.

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Kail and Becky are coming to you from Atlanta after a travel day that somehow turned a four-hour drive into seven they recap the previous night’s completely unhinged live show.

The girls also prepare for their upcoming London and Paris adventures, while Kail opens up about how difficult her new gluten-free reality has been and why she’s realizing she may share entirely too much of her personal life online.

Things take a more serious turn as Kail shares her thoughts on the Lindsay Clancy case, postpartum psychosis, and the systems that can fail mothers who are desperately asking for help.

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We wouldn't expect anything less from our chaotic duo when this episode turns into an unexpected solo episode after Becky’s internet disaster forces Kail to leave early.

Before the handoff, Kail shares a major health update after officially being diagnosed with celiac disease and realizes going gluten-free involves far more than swapping out bread. From cross-contamination to soy sauce and one final Pizza Hut order, the lifestyle change is already feeling overwhelming.

We also get into with the arrival of Pork Chop, Kail’s new Highland steer, who is already being walked around the property like an oversized pasture puppy. After Kail signs off, Becky takes over with a hilariously questionable quiz about Kail’s life before answering listener questions about friendship, caregiver burnout, grief, motherhood, her new house and the relationships she has built with Kail’s children.

It may not be the episode they planned, but sometimes life lifes.

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Kail and Becky are coming at you from a hotel bed in Texas, fresh off tour stops, questionable sleep, and apparently a brand-new obsession with sex swings.

They recap the chaos of San Antonio and Dallas, talk about Kail’s emotional realization about wanting more time with her sister, and defend the lap dances that had the internet spiraling.

Somewhere along the way, Becky accidentally convinces Kail she needs a sex swing, Leah gets dragged into the conversation, and the two spiral into a very serious debate about a mysterious whale no one can seem to find.

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