In this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work.

They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect unexpected tangents—like feet pic requests, zodiac placements, period stories, and whether eating a gallon of butter is ever the right choice. This one’s unhinged in the best way.

Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a reminder to be kind, respectful, and maybe… keep your feet to yourself.

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On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation for queer youth. Kail opens up about therapy breakthroughs, the emotional fallout of betrayal, and how one teacher changed the trajectory of her life. The duo also tackles a jaw-dropping “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” submission involving cheating, steroids, and a long-kept secret. From post-nut clarity to lesbian merch and Pride prep, this episode is raw, funny, emotional and as always absolutely unfiltered.

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From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters, and finding beauty in raw, real stories; including grief, NICU journeys, and eating disorders.

The two also dive into a listener-submitted “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” about a baby daddy’s ex-wife making TikToks at a wedding chaotic or just content creation?

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In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky dive into everything from sleep paralysis and period drama to botched home renovations and parenting fails. Kail reveals her upcoming facelift plans and opens up about frustrations with contractor scams, while Becky shares an unfiltered update on her IVF journey and unexpected health concerns. The duo also debates car seat safety, high chair habits, baby bibs, and why you should never underestimate neck cheese. Plus, they brainstorm a heartfelt new business idea, talk facelifts vs. genetics, and end on a laugh-out-loud Karma or Chaos listener submission that involves some truly wild bathroom drama.

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It’s a full circle moment on Karma and Chaos as Kail and Becky finally reconnect after weeks of life doing the absolute most. From baby showers and birthdays to therapy breakthroughs and botox, this episode has everything. Kail opens up about postpartum friendship shifts, feeling overwhelmed hosting her baby shower, and how raising a kid with her sister feels surreal. Becky dives into what it means to love someone who isn’t a good partner, the emotional toll of being the “energy suck,” and the real talk around step-parenting struggles. Plus, they break down the pros and cons of homeschooling, whether people know how miserable they are, and yes; how many chuggas come before choo-choo. As always, it’s a little bit of chaos and a whole lot of heart.

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Becky’s in town and chaos ensues; in the camper, at the mall, and on the Harley. From prom suit adventures with Isaac and a Cheesecake Factory feast, to biker gang names, nesting mode, and conversations about love, loss, and legacies—this episode is peak Karma & Chaos. Plus, the duo gets personal about relationships, parenting styles, baby prep, digital memories, and their thoughts on saying “I’m proud of you.” If you’re here for the laughs, feels, and unfiltered friendship, you’re in the right place.

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In this chaotic and hilarious episode, Kail and Becky dive into wild listener questions, deep confessions, and totally unhinged scenarios. From debating if bald people need hairnets at restaurants to choosing between cheetoh dust or honey fingers, nothing is off-limits. They reveal their funniest truth-serum confessions; including fart mishaps, shitting in the woods, and awkward moments during sex. The conversation takes a turn into fake death plans, on-brand crimes like breaking and entering, stealing street signs, and even plotting which ex’s house they’d infest with cockroaches. It's the chaos you have come to know and love.

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Hey Karmaroos, it’s Becky!

I am SO excited to share that For The Hayters is officially back next week with Season 3 - dropping Monday, May 5th.

This season is raw, real, and honestly… some of the most powerful conversations I’ve ever had. We’re talking about postpartum depression, fertility, illness, heartbreak, healing, and what it means to start over.

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This week Kail and Becky go from grammar gripes to gut-wrenching truths in the span of a single conversation. What starts as a debate over phrases like “taken aback” and “try and” quickly spirals the chaos you know and love.

Expect laughter, self-reflection, and maybe a tear or two—because sometimes healing sounds a lot like a conversation between two friends at the edge of a spiral.

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This week Kail is asking the tough questions right off the bat; how are YOU spicing up your life? Becky is battling the bears in her backyard and Kail can't seem to understand why Becky is so upset, in fact she's quite jealous. The topic of ghosts gets brought up and the only ghosts Kail believes in are the ghosts of exes past. Later in the episode Kail and Becky finally answer one of your Is It Karma or Is It Chaso submissions and the ladies aren't sure on this one!

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