For The Mother

Episode 27: Intentional Parenting in the Little Years to Raise Healthy Adults.

I think so much of the negative behaviors we see in grownups could have been avoided if they were parented differently as children. We are to train up our children in the ways they should go. Training them means being very intentional, aware, focused, alert, prayerful and full of lots of conversations. We are training them to love Jesus, to walk in His ways, to know God's Word and to be kind humans that can communicate well with others. The way we parent our children has a massive impact on their futures for blessing or for unnecessary pain that could have been avoided if we uprooted the negativity in their childhood.

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I had a dream, or actually a nightmare, about my daughter being kidnapped when she was a baby over 17 or 18 years ago. The Lord used the dream to reveal how I am to see the attacks of the enemy spiritually in my fight for the hearts and souls of my children. If we say we are bible-believing christians, then we need to take every word of God seriously and live it out. The Bible talks about the enemy seeking whom he may devour (1 Peter 5:8) but it also speaks about the eyes of the Lord looking for those whose hearts are fully committed to Him (2 Chron. 16:9). The enemy is after our children but the Lord is too. Let's be women and mothers who fight on our knees in prayer for our children and for future generations to know and walk with Jesus.

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Surrendering everything to God with open hands, getting off social media, God revealing idols and roots of things He wants removed and soaking in the goodness of God's Word are all topics from today's podcast. I hope this encourages you as a christian mother to seek the Lord and ask Him to reveal and remove anything that would hinder your relationship with Him so that you can receive everything He has for you.

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“God has not called us to worry over our family but to go to WAR for our family. He’s given us weapons to tear down strongholds and break generational curses and to create brand new legacies.” - DawnChere Wilkerson

I heard this on a YouTube video I was watching last night:

“God has not called us to WORRY over our family but to go to WAR for our family. He’s given us weapons to tear down strongholds and break generational curses and to create brand new legacies.” - @dawnchere

As Christian mothers, we are at war for the hearts and souls of our children. And we fight spiritual with spiritual by going after things in prayer, through the Bible, in full faith and belief in God.

We have everything we need to fight in the Word of God.

Practical ways I do this for my family:

Daily prayer walks.

Reading/listening to God’s Word daily.

Reading the Bible to my children.

Talking about the goodness of God to my children daily.

Taping scripture on the walls of our home.

Getting on my knees in prayer over my family alone or with my husband.

Telling them powerful testimonies of others who walk boldly for the Lord.

Going after any place in my heart AND the hearts of my children where there are roots that shouldn’t be there and asking the Lord to uproot them and replace with the seeds of God’s Word.

As Christian mothers, we need to be awake and alert to the tactics of the enemy. We have a responsibility before God to raise our children in a way that honors Him. We will stand before God someday and take an account for what we did with these babies He given us… let the words we hear be “well done, good and faithful servant” instead of a recounting of all the meaningless things we were distracted by that the enemy used to gain access to our children and their hearts.

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I had a sweet mama friend reach out to me recently and asked "How do you do it all?" which was such a great question because I literally asked the same question to my husband a few weeks ago while feeling completely overwhelmed with too many things to do.

I wanted to bring this topic here because I think it's a common question women have while looking at other women "succeeding" while we feel overwhelmed.

I'm doing a 75 Hard Challenge and learning SO MUCH about the importance of nonnegotiables and how to incorporate them in our daily lives to get the life and results we want.

So let's chat!

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I was supposed to read this book in Bible College years ago (shout out to Calvary Chapel Bible College) but somehow didn't finish it. So I'm reading it now! It's How To Counsel God's Way by Bob Hoekstra. It's so encouraging to read it now as a mama because we are the counselors of our children and we are either discipling them in the ways of Jesus and the Bible OR the ways of the world. Today I'm sharing things that really shifted my perspective in how I mother my kids. I hope it encourages you!

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Today is a confession, if you will, on some struggles I've had this week and how I went from burnout to finding breakthrough. Spoiler but breakthrough comes in the presence of the Lord so it was in finding my way back to that secret place with Him. I hope it encourages you mamas in the trenches right now.

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The book The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom has been very influential in my life in many ways. Recently I was encouraged reading through it again in not only how to parent my children but in having a beautiful picture of how God parents me.

What season of parenting are your children in? Are they needing roots or wings?

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